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2011-9-419: 41Don't forget I love you | Third-class Guangdong traditional wedding etiquette wedding customization process: giving a big gift-returning a gift-moving a dowry-settling the bed-Chen Cunxin gives a big gift. The most solemn engagement ceremony is about fifteen days before the wedding. The man chooses a good day and brings gifts and various gifts to the woman's house. Today, due to the complexity and time-consuming of this traditional wedding etiquette, it is rare to adopt a full set of [three books and six gifts] ceremony, and the most important thing is the gift. The gifts for men are as follows: two boxes of hardcover Longfeng cakes and a box of western-style cakes. Ji zi double happiness eight fruit basket (with fierce life). Two pairs of coconuts (with a grandfather and a son) and two pairs of long hardcover dragon and phoenix candles (with a long Guangdong bride). One pair of hardcover bronzing couplets for men and women, two boxes of hardcover tea and sesame seeds (women are faithful). Two double happiness bronzing gift stamps (for money). Two hundred years of good cooperation. Lotus seeds, lilies, red dates, peanuts, dried lychees, dried longan, red beans, mung beans, sesame seeds, tea leaves, eleven auspicious Guo Jing and Platycladus orientalis, and two packages of double happiness bronzing and sealing the market ... The gifts of female families are as follows: .. Golden lotus boat (love is like oxygen), a pair of pomegranates (many children and many blessings) ... Tianding ginger, Jet Li taro. A pair of double happiness, congratulations. A big tea gift (big muffins, money, long profits, fried piles, red envelopes, etc.) ) {Youma Tea Ceremony}. After receiving the gift, the woman's family should send the dowry to the man's family at the latest the day before the wedding. Dowry is a symbol of a woman's status and wealth. In the past, Cantonese people liked to send dowry with camphor wood to show their durability. Dowry can be divided into [make-up] and [make-up]. [make-up] refers to the dowry sent by the woman's family to the man's family. In addition to people with makeup, the woman's family will also invite several relatives and friends to take care of it together. The more people there are, the thicker the woman's house is. After the dowry is carried to the man's house, the man will invite relatives and friends to meet him. This is called welcome makeup. In the dowry, besides precious jewelry and gold ornaments, there are many things that symbolize good omen. With Tan Meng as the bucket for children and grandchildren, I wish my daughter lush foliage and a full house of children and grandchildren. Take the red ruler as the future ruler, which means fertile land; Vases represent rich flowers; Copper plates and shoes mean to grow old together; Silver * * means wealth; Scissors refer to butterflies flying in pairs; A pair of dragon and phoenix quilts, sheets and pillows, wishing the couple love and lingering; A piece of candy is a metaphor for sweet happiness; Dragon and phoenix bowls and chopsticks are used for food and clothing, indicating ample food and clothing (there is a profitable market in the bowl, and 72 sets of clothes can replace dowry). Bride's dowry:. O A century-old tea set (one plate, one pot and four cups). _ o A century-old food bowl (a pair of bowls, chopsticks, plates and spoons). O A century-old cup with lid (a pair). A silk embroidered with double sets of concentric chopsticks, double happiness and full red offspring fighting (sticky phlegm Meng) A double happiness Yuanyang. Relatives are not allowed to sleep in a new bed after they are put in bed. Pregnant women, people with filial piety and women with moonlight clan are not allowed to enter. In addition, after going to bed, let the children jump out of bed and eat happy fruits, which was called "pressing the bed" in ancient times, meaning opening branches and spreading leaves. The most important ceremonies and etiquette before the wedding are [going to the cabinet] and [going to court]. [Shangge] refers to a period of time before marriage, when the bride-to-be is in a corner of her home, usually in a boudoir or attic, accompanied by a group of boudoir sisters and close friends, to temporarily get rid of her usual living habits and prepare herself psychologically so as to adapt to the unfamiliar living environment of her husband's family in the future. The bride will stay until the wedding day and leave the attic. Therefore, it is commonly known as "married woman". Modern people also have similar activities. The bride invites her sisters and close friends to her daughter's house for the night before the wedding, and talks with each other all night to prepare for another stage of her life tomorrow. Although there are occasional occasions when sisters are emotional and cry, the overall atmosphere is still full of joy. Give birth to your children and grandchildren early: (red dates [early], peanuts [raw], longan [expensive], lotus seeds [children]). On the head. _ In the modern wedding custom, before the wedding ceremony, both men and women will still salute each other separately. The ceremony was held the night before the wedding or on a suitable day. It symbolizes that a couple has officially entered the adult stage, and they want to form a new family and shoulder the mission of spreading branches and leaves. Choose a good time, the man should take a bath half an hour earlier than the woman, and both men and women should take a shower first, and use grapefruit vegetables (grapefruit leaves are said to remove dirt and move) to wash people who are [blessed] (commonly known as lucky guys/lucky women, who need both parents and children, and husband and wife are harmonious). Then put on brand-new underwear, pajamas, a window where you can see the moonlight, and sit next to a good man or woman to comb your hair. New hair will be combed into a bun to show that you will enter adulthood after marrying a wife. When a good person or a good woman combs her hair, she should say rhyming and auspicious sentences, such as "one comb to the end, two combs with white hair, Qi Mei, three combs with children and grandchildren, four combs with four silver bamboo shoots." It means wishing the newlyweds a happy marriage. Finally, the lucky guy or lucky woman needs to tie the cypress and the red rope to the bride or groom, so as to complete the ceremony. Because the gyro is a ceremony for parents to bless their children, it is more important. Before putting on the hood, the man should take a bath with green pomelo leaves, then put on brand-new underwear and pajamas and start over. Prepare three bowls of glutinous rice balls (nine in each bowl), mirrors, red ropes, pointed combs, rulers for children and grandchildren, and dragon and phoenix scissors before the case. On auspicious occasions, good people should put on their heads (comb their hair) and sincerely offer sacrifices to heaven. When the head is ready, you can eat dumplings with your family and brothers. Man's auspicious headgear: (pointed comb, mirror, dragon and phoenix candle, ruler for children and grandchildren, red rope, dragon and phoenix scissors, etc. ). The woman's head should be bathed with green pomelo leaves first, then put on brand-new underwear and pajamas, and then choose a window where she can see the moon. After the dragon and phoenix candles are lit, three bowls of glutinous rice balls, raw fruit, roasted meat and chicken are used to worship the sky, and more importantly. Dragon and phoenix scissors represent advantages, and the ruler of children and grandchildren, and the mirror takes its bright future, which is called "leading mirror, hinged scissors ruler". Women's auspicious top clothes:. L (comb, grate, needle, thread, dragon and phoenix candle, dragon and phoenix scissors, mirror, red rope, ruler for children and grandchildren, etc. ). Paste: Everything can be simple and replaced by benefits. Write (a gift), for example, do not want pork (pork gold) and raw materials (clothing gold), but try to find some important gifts in person, including: a pair of dragon and phoenix cakes, a number of Tang cakes (about eight), a pair of dragon and phoenix candles, a pair of couplets and a fruit. The items in the bride price imply auspiciousness, but the quantity must be in pairs, not in singular. The bride price received by the woman's family from the man's family is not all collected, and the items belonging to the man's family need to be returned; Handkerchiefs are not allowed in gifts, because it means breaking up. Etiquette before the wedding. 1. Bridal gift: Before the wedding, the man will send the bride price to the woman's house. The custom in Guangzhou is to give chickens (meaning alive), coconuts (meaning blessed by a grandfather and a son) and gift cakes (for the relatives of the woman), as well as gifts to show that the man's family is rich and will let the woman get married and enjoy happiness. 3. Make the bed: The night before the wedding, the woman will find a lucky man (happy family, parents alive and a son) to come to the new bed in the new house and put well-meaning food such as peanuts, red dates and walnuts on the bed. 4. Dowry: Before marriage, the bride will put the dowry prepared at home in a red suitcase and take it to her husband's house the next day. 5. Above: The night before their wedding, they will choose an auspicious time to worship God, heaven and earth, pray for blessings, and at the same time inform the man to worship God. Comb her hair: The bride will ask a blessed elder to comb her hair. 7. Eat glutinous rice balls: it means that you can get married and be happy. Etiquette on the wedding day. 1. Wedding reception: On the morning of the wedding, the man's reception team will come to the woman's house to receive relatives. Nowadays, picking up the bride is the climax of the whole wedding. The first level is "getting started". If you want to successfully get the beauty back, you must go through a series of intellectual and physical tests, and if necessary, add love songs, but the most important thing is a rich "good start". Sisters will not open the door if they are not satisfied. The groom should bring a bouquet to marry the bride (the bride should not make her own bouquet). 2. Looking for red shoes: The groom will find red shoes for the bride in the room where the bride is picked up, and then take the bride away. Start using. After arriving at the man's house, the bride stepped into the man's house with the help of Daikin. A brazier (copper basin or iron basin) burning charcoal will be placed outside the gate in advance, and the bride needs to cross it. This is called "crossing the brazier", which means prosperity and evil spirits. Next, there is a ceremony to pay homage to the church, which is divided into three steps. The first step is to worship heaven and earth, the second step is to worship ancestors, and the third step is to worship Wengjiagu. After paying homage to heaven and earth and ancestral ancestral ancestral hall, a couple will bow to the parents of the groom, and the bride will offer fragrant tea to the old man and aunt, and then offer tea to the elders one by one according to their generation and age. Whether they kneel or not depends on the respect and preference of both sides. After bowing to their parents, the newlyweds will worship each other. Sister Dajin kept saying some auspicious words, and the ceremony was not completed until they rented each other to pay homage. For the traditional China people, offering tea is a very important etiquette. When the newlyweds worship their ancestors, they should offer tea to their parents, which not only means thanking their parents for their upbringing, but also means that both parents accept the groom or bride as a new member of the family, which is a symbol of their recognized status. Two red dates and lotus seeds are usually put in the fragrant tea used by newcomers to worship tea, which symbolizes the good omen of early birth. After drinking the bride's cup of tea, the new family, grandparents and elders will send gold bracelets, jade and other jewelry as a meeting gift for the newly married wife, and also put a gift on the tray of fragrant tea (commonly known as "betel nut box") as a reward for Dajin's sister. ... after going out, the first level is getting started. If you want to successfully get the beauty back, you must pass a series of intellectual and physical tests, and read a declaration of love (sales contract) if necessary, but the most important thing is to give the girls a generous opening and market, and then open the door after they are satisfied. After the wedding, the bride is taken out by Daikin's sister or maid of honor and given to the new father, who then gives the bride to the groom for a formal ceremony. Follow the couple to worship the heavens and the earth first, then the ancestors, then worship their parents with tea, and the ceremony of receiving the bride is completed. . _ To complete the above ceremony, the bride needs the help of the bridesmaid or elder sister, playing a red umbrella, which means spreading the branches and leaves. Other sisters must also sprinkle rice, red mung beans and gold scraps while walking, commonly known as "feeding the golden rooster", which is said to prevent the golden rooster from pecking at the bride. Before boarding the float, the bride should bow to her relatives and friends to show her gratitude. It must be noted that all the people who accompany the bride to the man's house, except Sister Daikin, must be unmarried women, and the new brother must not accompany the bride to the door. If the bride marries before her brother, she must hang his trousers at the door and let the bride wear them under her crotch. If she marries before her sister, she should send a skirt to her unmarried sister. Unmarried brothers and sisters should not witness new people going out or entering the door, and should temporarily avoid them. -three dynasties huimen. _ Huimen, though not included in the Three Books and Six Gifts, is a very important wedding etiquette in China tradition, which should never be taken lightly. Once upon a time, after the bride got married, she would go back to her family on the third day accompanied by her husband. When the bride returns to the door, she should wear a traditional wedding dress (skirt) in China and a brand-new red bridal bag. The skirt represents the bride's clean and elegant status, and only the yellow flower girl can wear it. At the same time, the man must send back a golden pig to show the bride's chastity. After receiving the golden pig, the female family distributed it to relatives, friends and neighbors, indicating that her daughter did not disgrace the lintel. Traditionally, the bride and Zhang Yue's mother's son-in-law have to stay at home for dinner. But now, in order to save time, most newcomers choose to return to China on the same day, that is, the newcomers worship heaven and earth at the man's house and offer tea to Weng Gu, and then go back to the man's house immediately or go directly to the restaurant. Couples can also go back to their parents' home the next day, but not more than the third day, which means that the man is dissatisfied with the bride and does not allow the bride to go back to her parents' home. Now most of Huimen's gifts are changed to Li except suckling pig. Reply: 1 (a man sends a woman home): a golden pig, two boxes of cakes, two bottles of wine, a pair of raw chickens, two pounds of pork belly, two baskets of fruit (representing vigorous life), lettuce with a head (rising in the wind), onions (loosely moving), two boxes of pasta (representing lingering love), and one at the beginning and end. Lettuce with head _ Marriage taboo. _ 1. On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, the sister-in-law can't give it to her, because [sister-in-law] is homophonic with the sweeping star, which is unlucky. The bride should not have pockets in her clothes when she goes out, so as not to take away the wealth at home. No one can sit in a new bed until the wedding is over, and the bride can't lie down, lest she be ill in bed all the year round. The bride must wear new shoes on her wedding day, which means throwing away old things. When the bride goes out, she must wear earrings to show her obedience. Wearable clip-on earrings without pierced ears. If the elder of the newlyweds has a deceased person, he or she should put the tea offered by the newlyweds where he or she should sit when offering tea. After offering tea, remove the stool and let the next person sit.