Why should marriage be divided into two ends?

1, bride price is different from dowry.

2. Being alive is different.

3. Children have different surnames.

Take care of your parents when you get married.

The so-called "two ends" are all related to the family's relatives. If you want both ends to be even, no matter how well you do, both parents will feel cheated, and then there will be contradictions.

Precautions before marriage:

1, the bride price should conform to the custom and auspicious meaning.

In the current wedding custom, there is a "levy" link, that is, the link where the man sends a bride price to the woman's house for engagement. In this link, the bride price is indispensable. Due to the different levels of economic development in different places, each family's economic ability is also different, so both men and women must be suitable when deciding the bride price.

2. Choose a good day to get married.

This is called "invitation" in ancient wedding etiquette. That is, the man sends a matchmaker to the woman's house to "ask for marriage", and then asks the fortune teller to choose an auspicious day for the wedding. Although many families are vague about this concept now, marriage, as a major event in life, is definitely indispensable to the happiness of the young couple after marriage.

3. Understand the necessary local marriage customs.

Different places have different wedding customs, and different regions have great differences. Therefore, whether you get married locally or in other places, you should understand and respect the local customs.

4. Pay attention to the layout of the wedding room.

The wedding room is the place where the couple will live and have children in the future, and it is also related to their feelings, career and health. Therefore, the layout of the wedding room should pay attention to some matters needing attention.

5. Choose an auspicious day for the bed.

This point is easily overlooked by many people. However, the bed is the place where couples are born, which is related to the harmony of husband and wife's sexual life and the birth of children. Therefore, it is best to choose a good day when you are in bed, a day to avoid evil spirits, and choose a good day to live, so as to create beautiful conditions for a happy life after marriage and the inheritance of children.