What should an engaged man prepare? An engaged man should prepare six kinds of gifts.

Engagement is a contract between a man and a woman. Although engagement is not a necessary procedure before marriage, it represents the marriage agreement between the two parties. So what should an engaged man prepare? What are the problems that need attention? Next, Bian Xiao will explain it in detail and bring a simple process of modern engagement ceremony for your reference.

1. What should an engaged man prepare?

1, Najib

Najib is also an auspicious day. Generally speaking, auspicious days vary according to family circumstances. If it is a very special family, the requirements for the engagement date will be particularly strict; If you don't pay attention, you will usually choose a day when both families have time, or a day when two new people have special significance. Generally, the first thing a man should do is Najib, and then the two families will discuss it.

2. Bride gift

In the traditional sense, the bride price mainly includes eight things, such as a cash box, a ruler, a comb, a wishful scale, a mirror, scissors, a bucket and an abacus.

3, three gold or hardware

When engaged, the man will also give the woman some gold jewelry, three in some places and five in some places, depending on local customs. Three gold includes gold rings, earrings and necklaces, and hardware includes gold rings, necklaces, earrings, bracelets and pendants.

4. Gift money

The amount of gift money mainly depends on the local customs and habits and the degree to which the man attaches importance to the woman. Generally, we will choose some auspicious numbers.

5. Other projects

In addition to the above essential items, the man can also prepare some intimate gifts for the woman and her family, as well as daily food such as alcohol, tobacco, chicken, duck and fish.

Second, the simple process of modern engagement ceremony

1, parents of both parties discuss.

Before engagement, parents of both men and women will formally meet to discuss the process, taboos, bride price, bride price money and so on.

Step 2 give a wedding gift

On the day of engagement, the man will bring the bride price and money to the woman's home;

Step 3 give each other engagement gifts

When exchanging engagement gifts, the man usually gives the gift to the woman first, and then the woman returns the gift. The man will prepare bride price, three gold and hardware for the woman, and the woman will refund part of the gift money to the man, and at the same time, she will send the man a suit as a gift, which means to be caring and attentive;

Step 4 put on an engagement ring

Later, at the engagement ceremony, the man will put the engagement ring on the ring finger of the woman's left hand, and then the engagement of the two will be formally reached.

5. engagement party

Engagement parties are usually held by the woman's family, and relatives and friends of both men and women witness the engagement ceremony of the couple. At the engagement party, the in-laws raised their glasses and drank, symbolizing the complete success of the engagement ceremony.

Who should attend the engagement party?

Generally speaking, engagement parties are held in the woman's home, but if both men and women hold engagement ceremonies in different places, they usually find hotels to hold engagement parties. Who should attend the engagement parties?

1, witness: Actually, engagement, like marriage, needs a witness, usually a respected elder in the family, who needs to announce their formal engagement at the engagement ceremony.

2. Parents of both sides: When engaged, parents of both sides need to be present to witness the engagement contract and the beautiful moment of the couple, and then say some words of blessing and advice.

3. Brothers and sisters of both parents: Engagement is not only a matter for two families, but also a matter for two families. Therefore, brothers and sisters, cousins and cousins of both parents need to be invited to the engagement party, and brothers and sisters of the woman's father also need help to entertain guests.

4. Brothers' girlfriends: On the day of engagement, the groom can also invite his good brothers, and the bride can invite her girlfriends and sisters.

The above is what an engaged man should prepare and the simple process of modern engagement ceremony. I hope I can help you!