What are the wedding customs in Changli?

Pay attention to the family, the genus is consistent, and the date of birth is the same. After matchmaking, birthday exchange, marriage, wedding stickers, gift negotiation, matchmaking and other procedures, with the consent of both parties, the man prepares a banquet and invites the woman's client to an engagement dinner, which is a formal engagement. "Yongping Fu Zhi": "But the poor women in the next family are still willing to make a fortune, and they will collect it when they hire money, that is, the women stay in their husbands' homes and are called raising children. "

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In the old society, the wedding customs were complicated, which generally included the process of choosing an auspicious day, bride price, urging makeup, getting married in a sedan chair with drum music, worshipping heaven and earth, entertaining guests and friends, making trouble in the bridal chamber, congratulating the bride's next of kin, and going home to see her daughter off. The scale of the wedding and the complexity of the ceremony depend on the man's economic conditions. In 1950s and 1960s, it was gradually simplified, and the general process of entertaining guests and friends and recognizing relatives and returning home was still followed. After the 1980s, due to the improvement of economic living conditions and the development of various media, western contents were added to weddings, such as the bride wearing a wedding dress and giving each other wedding rings, and more westernized young people went to church for weddings. In a word, modern weddings are becoming more and more nationalized, losing their original regional and national characteristics, but ostentation and extravagance are becoming more and more popular.

In the past, people attached great importance to marriage. For example, it is forbidden to look at each other when engaged. Like female length 1 year-old, known as "female freshman, holding a golden rooster", avoiding female length of 6 years, "female freshman, committing six reds". When you get married, cosmetics should be taken away from your mother's meat. There must be an odd number of people to get married. When the bride leaves the house, she will cry in the sedan chair and avoid the "Zodiac" when she gets off the sedan chair. From getting off the sedan chair to entering the new house, she will feel very welcome, worship heaven and earth, and eat "children and grandchildren, longevity noodles" at night. When entertaining guests and friends, the bride and groom should worship the banquet, play drums and set off firecrackers when welcoming new relatives, and eat "waist rice" when waiting for new relatives. It is necessary to put dried fruits such as dates, chestnuts and peanuts in the new house.