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How to choose an auspicious day for marriage with a birthday?

First, we should choose a good wedding day.

Marriage registration and ceremony are the most important events in the life of both husband and wife, so it is necessary to consider whether the date chosen conflicts with the date of birth of both parties. If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, it is best to do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day.

Second, the calculation of auspicious time.

Using the date and time of birth of both men and women to calculate the most auspicious wedding date, this auspicious day must be a day suitable for holding happy events on the five elements, and it cannot conflict with the zodiac of both men and women. Pay attention to the date of birth of the bride and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. Parents' birthdays should not be the same as the auspicious day of marriage, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married in that month. When choosing an auspicious day, the date is more important than the month, and the month is more important than the year: first, choose the wedding season according to the envisaged wedding form and local climate characteristics. At the same time, we should also consider the difficulty of relatives and friends attending the wedding. If many relatives and friends you want to invite are not working locally, then choose the long holidays such as November and May Day. Secondly, we should also consider the work and study of the newcomers, and try to avoid the distraction caused by planning the wedding before the exam or in the project research stage. Based on the above factors, after selecting the approximate range, you can choose the date according to their birthdays.

Third, the arrangement of the date of birth.

Constellation is a person's time positioning. If you want to know the constellation, you must know that the four columns are in rows. Four pillars refer to the year, month, day and time when a person was born. Four-column arrangement refers to finding a person's date of birth. It is mainly divided into four steps.

(1) sequential time series.

② Moon column.

In other words, people's birth festivals are represented by branches and branches. Note that the monthly branch is not divided by the first day of each month in the lunar calendar, but by festivals. Before the handover, it was the festival of last month, and after the handover, it was the festival of next month.

③ Sun column.

The main branch's calendar is recorded every 60 days. Because of the difference between big and small months and leap years, the daily main branch needs to find a perpetual calendar.

(4) Schedule the column time.

One hour spans two hours, so there are twelve hours in a day.

Fourth, can you get married when you are widowed?

At present, there is a saying in society that "20 10 is a year of widowhood" and "a year without spring", which is not suitable for marriage. Folklore experts believe that no matter "no spring", "double spring" or "single calendar", it is only a mistake of the lunar calendar and the solar calendar, and has nothing to do with good or bad luck. It is even more nonsense to say that "the year without spring" is not suitable for marriage.