What is the ending of gamblers around you?

Former neighbor woman, no gambling, no pleasure. I lost money, and I looked flustered. I went home and took it out on my children, saying that they all blamed me and I didn't like anything. A few words she often complains: "I lost again, I am unlucky, I am unlucky."

The woman next door got married for the second time and had two children. She also has a child with her ex-husband. At that time, she suspected that her ex-husband was poor and had hooked up with a "second husband" during her marriage. After pregnancy, she decisively abandoned her ex-husband and children and married her husband.

They met in the mahjong field, and the same hobby made them "have a heart". After a few glances at the card table, they "determined their eyes". This man, who is over 30 years old, is called "gambler" in several nearby communities, and is called a gambler behind his back.

But in his mind, this is a very proud reputation. Although the boss is not young, he still has nothing, but people are full of confidence and passion for gambling, as if they are rich, but in fact they are very poor.

The combination of these two people is a perfect match. "Like-minded" partners and gambling friends, the same language after meals is also closely related to gambling, and so on at 9: 30 every night. ...

Their husband and wife are permanent "guests" of the community mahjong hall. They report on time every day, which is more active than punching in at work. They never appear "late or leave early". It is precisely because of such good "employees" that the proprietress of Mahjong Hall generously gave them the title of "God Gambling Heroes".

However, with the birth of villains, their life expectancy has gradually lengthened. But this pair of enemies did not converge because of this, and the gambling continued. That sentence is called "what you eat can't change anything."

Minimum living allowance is less than one week per month. Except for eating and drinking, most of them gambled away. Occasionally going out to do some work is also three days of fishing and two days of drying the net. As long as you have a few hundred dollars on you, it's like making a fortune. If you don't gamble, money is as hard to fidget as a thorn in your body.

Even if you have only a few tens of dollars on you, you should touch a few or bet on horses. Couples with the same rotten tastes love to eat and gamble, which leads to a family lacking food and clothing and living like the old society.

But this barren life has been too long. Later, the neighbor woman said, "She has had enough and thinks that everything is caused by her husband's laziness and gambling." She doesn't think there's anything wrong with her at all. Even if she loses money, it's no use complaining that her husband gambles.

Often without food, she takes it out on her husband and children and says they are not harmonious, that's all. Every time I lose money in gambling, I always go on the rampage when I get home. Nothing is pleasing to the eye, and children are inevitably scolded and beaten.

Living in this way, their marriage feelings have already turned red, which has brought their family to the brink of breakdown. Later, she was often away from home, and there was no one in the mahjong room. She owed a lot of gambling debts and finally left.

Later, her husband was blacklisted, and everyone he knew nearby deleted his friends. It is said that they have divorced and she is married again. Some people regret that children are so old and still like gambling. Are children and family so unimportant in her eyes?

The habit of gambling makes family life in trouble again and again, and makes children suffer and starve. But instead of finding her own problems and getting rid of her bad habits, she complained about others, and when the days were over, she patted her ass and slipped away. Her first marriage failed, and her second one came to an end. Now she has started her third marriage. But I heard that her "old problem" hasn't changed.

One of her fellow villagers has a group with her, and every day she sees what she sends in the group, either playing mahjong or betting on horses. Because of the epidemic, playing mahjong has to be sneaky, which makes her very uncomfortable. Maybe for her, everything is a cloud, and everything can be changed. The only constant is gambling.

I met a young man who likes gambling. He lost his father's bride price of 50,000 yuan in the casino. 10 will be a lucky day. All relatives and friends have been informed that only after 10 days, when the banquet is opened, just drink as much as you like.

You have never seen such a handsome gambler, have you? According to the agreement, the handsome boy and the matchmaker sent the bride price to the woman's house together the next day, but they waited left and right, but they didn't see the handsome boy's face and his photo. I wonder where he went. The phone doesn't answer, and WeChat doesn't return.

His father knows that his son likes gambling, so he won't gamble all his money, will he? There will be no more 10 days to pick up the bride. At this critical moment, his father woke up from a dream and quickly called to ask those gamblers or fox dog parties. As expected, he gambled away the 50,000 yuan bride price last night, and now he has gone into hiding.

What should I do? A sudden fire hit my heart, and my father fell ill with anger. He was bedridden, didn't eat or drink, didn't say a word, and his eyes were full of anger, which was about to gush out.

My mother reported the situation to my uncle urgently. Because my uncle is the patriarch, although he has no power, his words are effective. She quickly called everyone to discuss borrowing money and giving gifts, and sent people around to find the whereabouts of the handsome boy and told him to go home to attend the wedding.

The patriarch and everyone urgently borrowed the needed 50,000 yuan gift. Three days later, they found him in the small house that the handsome boy built in the chicken farm last year. At this time, the boy was ashamed not to drop water for three days.

Fortunately, the handsome boy's mother has a big fat pig and a large group of chickens and ducks, and successfully managed this single wedding banquet.

Fortunately, although the fiancee knew that her future husband was a gambler, she married him without hesitation and willingly became a gambler's wife, saying that it was extremely rare not to lose herself.

People who are addicted to gambling basically have no good end, and many people lose their money. Gambling is very harmful!

There is such a person around me, who is from my village. He likes playing cards and gambling since he was a child. Of course, when he was a child, he also played cards and so on.

When I grow up, I play big. I got into the mahjong field all day, regardless of my family. I had a great time. If I win a little money, I will go out to eat, drink and have fun. If I lose, I'll go home and find it. If you can't find it at home, you borrow money everywhere. Anyway, everyone he knows borrowed it.

Everyone knows his virtue, and few people lend him money. Finally, I heard that I went to sell drugs, became addicted to drugs and was arrested.

The old man in the family lost everything and married a daughter-in-law, and finally ran away with someone. The old man is also bedridden with anger.

We have seen too many such cases from newspapers and news. Anyone who gets involved in gambling and doesn't stop from the brink and turn over a new leaf in time will come to no good end.

Therefore, gambling is a harmful thing, and everyone should stay away from it, abandon it and put an end to it.

Everyone should respect themselves and live a healthy life!

What is the ending of gamblers around you?

That year, Director Wang of the Municipal Construction Committee came back from Macau and walked around the community where he lived. He just threw himself into the river!

Director Wang was born in a remote peasant family, and his early family life was extremely difficult. Almost all his tuition fees from primary school were borrowed from the east and the west. Finally, he was admitted to a famous university in a province with excellent results. He is the first college student in his hometown.

After graduating from college, he was assigned to the Municipal Construction Bureau. He worked hard, "specialized in his field" and was gradually promoted to a leadership position.

After director Wang's "official career" was smooth sailing, he became addicted to playing cards and gradually gambled. From tens of dollars in gambling to tens of thousands of dollars in each game, he completely "fell" into the abyss of gambling!

"Nothing is meaningful for gambling" has become director Wang's mantra. He is not in the mood to work!

Director Wang first "wins and wins"! However, it didn't take long for it to turn sharply and lose everything! People who collect "gambling accounts" come in and out of his office every day, which seriously interferes with his normal work. The person in charge of the Municipal Commission for Discipline Inspection talked with him, reminding him to lead an honest and clean life and avoid self-destruction!

Director Wang cleared up his gambling debts of nearly one million yuan. I can't repay it on my own salary. He is eager to extricate himself from the quagmire of gambling! What about the debt? Where is the shore?

Director Wang dare not discuss with his wife, who is the daughter of the vice governor. The result will be "old Yan flying away", and he is afraid of such a result! He can only "save himself"!

He borrowed 500,000 yuan from the company and came to Macau alone. Macao is the only place where he "turned over".

Macao is the "gambling city" in the east, and the world-class "gambling gods" are mixed. "Get rich overnight" is by no means a myth here! Director Wang came with a huge sum of money! He tried to change his fate here, "turning over serfs and singing"!

Gambling has always been "helping the strong and not helping the weak"! Director Wang's trip to Macau to Maicheng fell through, leaving only one ticket.

Director Wang knows that his trip to Macao is his "life and death" trip, whether it is life or death! He had no choice! Macao doesn't seem to belong to him

He returned to his city depressed and annoyed; The place where he made his fortune; The land of his death! He walked around the community that once belonged to him, saying goodbye to his wife and children in the dark! He stood by the swift river, gazing affectionately at the distant stars and looking back at the city that brought him countless glory. He closed his eyes and jumped into the rushing river.

My best friend is not addicted to gambling, but his future is ruined by gambling.

Graduate student of Fudan University in Shanghai, a position formally established by a real estate enterprise. Born in 1990, he is very admirable in dealing with people and has a high emotional intelligence.

But because the speed of making money exceeded my expectation, I finally got baccarat. Lost nearly140,000 yuan. Of course, the money is the customer's purchase money, but I can't keep the fire. Finally, I confessed everything and turned myself in to the public security bureau.

What I did cost me seven years in prison. My parents sold the house at home to pay off their debts and started a job far away from a better life, so that my son can have a good foundation to start another career in the future.

In the final analysis, it is all because of gambling that the quality of life of the whole family has plummeted. My mother rented a single room, and my father followed the lawyer at that time to deliver documents.

But he left two houses and two cars he bought in Shanghai to his girlfriend at that time and cut off all contact.

Gambling, winning money is just a process, losing money is the result.

I am a gambler. Now I'm sitting alone in a place where I have no friends. I don't know where to go at night, where to go tomorrow and where to live.

I was born in 19 1 year, graduated from junior college, majoring in construction engineering. At first, I didn't want to be on the construction site all my life, so I chose to have fun outside, so I went out for two years and finally returned to my hometown to work in a pharmaceutical factory in my hometown.

When I first entered the factory, I was in debt of more than 20 thousand yuan. I used to work honestly in the factory. This debt was nothing at first, but one day a junior high school classmate came to me and everything changed.

I remember that he came to me that day and mysteriously told me that there was a small project called SSC, which could get a pack of cigarettes every day. Originally, I scoffed, but in the end I filled in 100 with the mentality of giving it a try, thinking that if I lost, I would learn from it. But who would have thought I would win? Otherwise, all those who lost everything were winners.

I won more than ten days in a row when I first played. You can imagine the excitement at that time, thinking about buying a car and buying a house is not far from me. But bad luck every day, one day I lost, not only lost, because I was unwilling not only to export the money I won, but also to empty my only credit card at that time. I was scared that day, but I still had a strong reluctance to return to my book.

The next day, in order to get the funds, I went to get a new credit card. After the credit card was done, I took the money to play. The process is the same. Won for a few days, lost for a day. Unconsciously, the debts of several credit cards have reached100000. At that time, I was really scared and thought about quitting gambling. After that, I felt so stressed that I couldn't help myself. I chose to confess to my family.

But I didn't dare to say too much at once, for fear that my parents couldn't accept it. Moreover, I thought I could pay back my credit card every month as long as I had some money, that is, I would pay some interest, plus my monthly salary, so I only said 50 thousand, and I was scolded by my parents when I confessed, but I finally got the money and paid back my credit card.

At first, I was quiet for a while, but because I got into the habit of spending money lavishly, I had to pay back the money every month, so I couldn't help taking a gamble for a while, but at that time I didn't play SSC, I played BJL, and the result was the same. Win first and then lose. At that time, we played more and more. Coupled with the prevalence of online lending at that time, money was easy to borrow, so I kept borrowing, gambling and paying off debts until later. In this way, after more than a year, I finally reached the point where I couldn't borrow anything. At that time, all the debts added up to more than 60, and I suddenly became desperate, really desperate. Seeing that the repayment date is coming, I feel very miserable every day. Finally, one day, the dunning phone called home and work, and my parents knew that I was gambling again. Asked how much money I owe, I really dare not say that I owe more than 600 thousand, only one hundred and fifty thousand. My parents also hate iron not to produce steel, but they finally helped me pay back One Happy and Fifty 100,000.

But at this time, I don't want to quit gambling, because I am extremely unwilling and have no mind to work. Because my colleagues knew about me and I didn't have the heart to work, I resigned, but my parents didn't know that I resigned.

After resigning, I stayed outside for a month and checked in every day. I also gambled for a month and soon lost all my One Happy and Fifty thousand dollars. I don't know how to describe that feeling. I'm desperate. I went home and lay down for half a month. My parents didn't know what was wrong with me. I didn't say anything when I asked, only that I was on vacation. At that time, I just wanted to escape and be numb. But what should come will come, and my parents know about it again. But at that time, my parents could do nothing but be sad and disappointed, and I didn't expect them to help me. But lying at home every day is not an option. I happened to go to a friend's construction site.

I still remember my first day at the construction site. I arrived at night. It was summer, and the dormitory on the construction site was very hot, and mosquitoes were everywhere. I wanted to leave on the first day, but I didn't have any money and felt there was no place in the world. I finally stayed. At that time, the site only paid living expenses every month. Because I had no money, I thought about quitting gambling at that time, so I settled for half a year. It was also there that I experienced the indiscriminate bombing of my collection, from the initial upset to the numbness in the back, and finally I couldn't stand being bombed every day and changed my mobile phone number, so I lived until the end of the year.

However, only when you have no money will you think of quitting gambling. When you have money, your mind will be active. After half a year's salary, I gambled again and lost it all in just two days. Fortunately, the blow that hasn't happened for half a year and two days is huge, and I don't know how to describe that feeling. I don't know how I spent the Spring Festival that year.

The next year, the project manager of the construction site asked me to continue to go to the construction site and give me a raise, but I didn't want to go. I don't want to be broke all year round. I have to pay my debts. I wanted to find a dollar, and then I went to the evening show. My salary was paid by the day, and I got a tip every day.

After going to work at the night show, I bet if I have money, but I have no money to continue working. Sometimes you can't make money or even have a meal because of bad business. At that time, I often asked my friends for help, dozens. Because no one would lend you more, I spent another two years in a daze. When I win the money, the ending is of course doomed. Anyway, I have no money every new year. It was even worse before this year. I went home for the New Year and got 500 yuan.

To tell the truth, sometimes I feel very tired and want to quit gambling completely, but I can't. This kind of life lasted until this month. Due to policy reasons, all night shows in that area have to be closed, and there is no job and no source of income. Plus, I gamble at work and have no money on me. The other day, I borrowed some money from a brother who could finally lend me money, but you know, I gave it to someone else.

I can't go home now, I have no income, and I don't know what to do. Sitting in a place, watching people come and go only feels confused, desperate and flustered.

I don't know what my future will be like, I don't know how to tide over the difficulties, I can't sleep at night, and I don't have much pressure in my heart. I want to save myself, quit gambling and be reborn, but how can I take the first step?

As the old saying goes, you lose nine out of ten, but you don't believe in evil. Once again, advise friends who haven't sunk in and turn back as soon as possible. It's no use persuading people who have fallen into it, they can only wake up by themselves.

Gambling is life-threatening, and it is also a gamble for the family. Gambling is not entertainment, gambling is probability, and it is a very strong means of collecting money. It's no exaggeration to gamble nine times at any time.

If it's just entertainment, it's not fun. If you just want to make money, it is greed, and you will lose it, but who can stop your desire to kill your eyes? I don't think anyone will calm down. Therefore, gamblers should stay away from them. At least none of my friends who are addicted to gambling are bankrupt. They have no life, no family, and don't believe they can enjoy a better life.

I know a friend who is smart in business. I accidentally saw that all three fingers in his right hand were gone. Finally, I realized that he was heavily in debt in the casino. After he was arrested, he was deprived of his confession because of the old lottery ticket. His wife and children were separated because of long-term gambling. Gambling is addictive, addictive and addictive. It is said that the competition is fierce and many people refuse to accept it. Therefore, if gambling is contaminated, it is better to persuade as soon as possible. Playing with it is a tragedy.

As a 40-year-old middle-aged man and a full-time trader for 10 years, I have seen and experienced gambling, and I have gambled in the market myself, and I lost badly. Later, I came out slowly and learned to trade well and turn losses into profits. It can be said that through life and death, I know the horror of human nature in gambling.

Today, I will tell you two examples of gambling. I hope you will stay away from gambling. Let me start with a big brother who has a deep relationship with me.

We met in 2006. He is the most business-minded person I have met in these years. He's super smart. He taught me many ways to do business and things. We have also cooperated in the business of medical devices, and we have done a very good job. At that time, he earned one or two million a year. He has the habit of gambling and studies the strength, water level, goals conceded and handicap of the team.

Later, I went abroad to do business, and we kept in touch from time to time until he started gambling outside.

All the foreign football matches he bets on are in the evening, and he often stays up all night. There is no spirit to run business during the day, and business is getting worse. Later, I simply transferred my business and concentrated on gambling. As a result, I lost a lot of money, and I heard that I still owe a lot of foreign debts.

During the 20 18 World Cup, he called me and asked me to borrow 20,000 yuan, saying that there was an urgent need at home. I knew he would bet the money. I knew it was impossible to pay back the 20 thousand yuan, so I borrowed it anyway. I feel that the mutual affection between us is 20 thousand yuan. I haven't heard from him since. I heard that I sold my house and went to his wife's hometown to avoid debt.

Remind everyone, don't think that you are smart and have strong self-control, and anyone will lose control of gambling.

Besides, a young gambler is the brother-in-law of my good friend.

About 30 years old, a couple with two daughters, both working in factories, earning 1-2w a month in the county town, having a house and a car, which is more than enough. It is also simple and happy.

However, the young man is not satisfied with his life. It is always bitter to see others driving a good car and living in a good house. Inadvertently, he came into contact with fishing, a gambling game, on the Internet, and fell into it at once. Sometimes I can win thousands a day, and I suddenly find a way to change my life. This game is controlled in the background. He must win first and then lose. For more than half a year, the young man lost 6.5438+0 million yuan. The couple divorced, sold their house and paid off some debts. Fortunately, he saw through the fishing and gambling game as a scam, and now he has changed it. He wants to go back to work in the factory and pay his debts at night. Although he is very tired, his life is improving.

Everyone knows that gambling is not good, but why are so many people caught?

Although the outcome of gambling must be losing money, there are winners and losers in the process of gambling. As long as you can win once, you will feel that there is still hope of winning back, and you will feel unwilling if you lose. These psychology are in line with human nature, and people who are lucky will fall into the quagmire of gambling.

Remind everyone that many people have the desire to change their destiny and live a better life, but the realization of this desire must rely on down-to-earth work; You may not take off, but you won't fall into the abyss.

Stay away from gambling.

Unlike me! I buy lottery tickets, pick up stones, drink Wuyi rock tea and play mahjong every day … I'm still waiting for the mercy of the lottery god!

There is a young man I know in the village, the father of two children, who lost more than 800 thousand because of mobile phone gambling. All the money in his family was gone, and his relatives and friends borrowed it (by lying). His wife left, his parents were angry and sick, and his relatives and friends ignored him. Now he is often threatened, but he still continues to gamble.