What are the rules of the sending day?

1, the wedding date is divided into three steps: good, good, good, which is also quite representative. It is best to choose an auspicious day before marriage, such as February 2, April 8 and June 6. The matchmaker will go to the woman's house to ask for her zodiac sign. The woman's family will write "Kun Ming × Xiang × Month × Day × Birth" on a red note, and then give it to the matchmaker to bring it back to the man's family. According to the date of the woman's birth, the man's family will ask someone to choose the wedding date in Yue Ji, which is considered promising.

2, "optimistic" is to find out the wedding month, auspicious day, the location of XiShen, but also to calculate the right person to greet the wedding, which is also a taboo. In the old days, there were many songs to follow, such as "Zhenghe seven welcomes chickens and rabbits, 28 tigers and monkeys, 39 snakes and pigs, 40 dragons and dogs, 51 cattle and sheep, and 62 rats and horses."

3. "Give it well" is not only a good day to send a wedding, but also a day to send a bride price to the woman. Most of the bride price is red shirts, blue coats, rings, pendants, belts and so on. They are wrapped in red bags with cypress branches, which means "longevity". Linqing is called "check the date". When the man checks the wedding date, he formally informs the woman and attaches a "wedding invitation" (also called "head invitation" in common customs), indicating the bride's dress, dress, direction and time of getting on and off the sedan chair.

4. You can't send the clock. Some people say that you can't send a clock because the clock is the last homonym. Sending a clock to a person is tantamount to expecting a person to die.

5, you can't send shoes. Shoes are evil homophones. Therefore, giving away shoes (excluding those for relatives) is tantamount to giving away evil spirits, and it is very likely that we will soon lose contact or friendship with each other.

6, can't send an umbrella is a loose homophonic, therefore, the umbrella can't be given as a gift (not including sending an umbrella in the rain). If a good friend gives an umbrella as a gift, it means that we will break up or separate in the future.

7. You can't send pears to send plums. Pear and plum are homophonic. Giving these two fruits away means that there is a danger of separation in the future!