How to avoid philandering and impetuousness

Your situation is basically the same as when I first entered the society. But this situation only lasted for two years. Now that I think about it, I can sum up several aspects.

Occupation: First of all, you should know what kind of industry you are interested in. Only in the industry we like, we will do well and make 100% efforts. Otherwise, even if this industry is profitable, it is not satisfactory.

Love: before choosing a partner, don't look at this person's background, and don't look at how good this person is. The key is whether you will be happy with this person. When you say you are tired of love, the problem is not you, but that he is not the one who can bring you happiness. Things of a lifetime cannot be decided overnight. When we get along, we should first think about whether this person can be as gentle and considerate as he is now after several years and try his best to make himself happy.

As you said, this mountain also refers to the height of that mountain, which is too similar to me at that time. This is not necessarily a shortcoming. You can only climb the high one, but what if there is no road on that mountain? Why force yourself? If the mountain doesn't go up, the low mountain can't come back. Wouldn't that be useless? You are only 20 years old this year, and you still have a long way to go. This period is a turning point in life, many people will be confused, because you are still immature, you have your own ideas to decide your life, but you have no mature plan.

It is suggested that the landlord chat with his elders more and talk about his troubles. Isn't that what you said? Your elders like you very much, which is your advantage. If you are not good, how can your elders like you? Right? Talk about your ideas and ask them to help you. After all, their life experience is much richer than yours.

I don't know much about the landlord, but what I can be sure of is that the current situation of the landlord is not what you call impetuous and playboy. It's just the psychological state of most young people in this period. So don't worry too much. A few years later, looking back at this period, it will definitely be. At that time, it was just immature and nothing.

The above humble opinion, I hope to help the landlord.