Why don't you wash the dishes when you go to the man's house for the first time?

What matters is not whether to "wash dishes", but what is the essence of this "rule"? This is a test of obedience and loyalty.

Remember, if your future boyfriend and girlfriend families are still testing people with this "rule", they will definitely not;

At the same time, please remember that if your own family is still telling you not to wash dishes in the other family's house or that you must wash dishes, please remember that there is something wrong with your family.

The life experience they give you is totally wrong.

Note that I said boyfriend, not boyfriend.

Why do you say that? Let me tell you a case.

In a rural area, ravines criss-cross, we went to investigate, and there was no other entertainment at night, chatting with fellow villagers, mainly the grandfathers in the village. There is a local wedding custom. When the hairy-footed son-in-law comes to the door, there is a "rule" that her mother-in-law should give her a bowl of noodles. There is no halogen on the noodles and no food code. A lump of sheep dung eggs should be buried at the bottom of the noodles to see if the man eats it.

Hearing this wedding custom, the whole thing went haywire. This is the most wonderful "rule" I have ever seen. What is the custom of deep well ice?

But why do you want to do this? The locals have an explanation.

The purpose of this is to test the cleverness of the future son-in-law, see if you can turn the bottom of the bowl upside down and eat it upside down, and then you will know if the future son-in-law is stupid.

As soon as he said this, I suddenly realized that I immediately admired the wisdom of the local working people: this mountain village is actually relatively closed, and gene communication is very closed, so many people have mental defects, but blind date will be very hidden. The risk of giving birth to a mentally retarded child is still high. This test immediately detects whether the other person is a fool or not, and puts an end to this risk, which is really awesome.

However, this inner drama didn't last long, and another uncle interrupted me: I don't know, the original son-in-law of xx family threw away the sheep dung, but her mother still disagreed and said that she was disobedient.

The uncles nodded together, and there were many more.

I messed up again, and finally sorted out the logic. You working people can't just change. Didn't we say this was an IQ test? Why the stress test again? You don't play by the rules.

The village chief's son is there. He just got married two years ago, so I asked him, did you eat this bowl of sheep dung noodles before you got married?

He smiled: I didn't eat the pork noodles made by my mother-in-law directly killing pigs.

I said, why are you so happy?

All the uncles laughed: he is the son of the village chief, and his mother-in-law is afraid that he will run away. How dare she give him sheep manure?

Are you clear? All the rules and tests are for the weak side in the market.

Therefore, it doesn't matter whether you wash dishes or not. The important thing is that once this test is conducted, the other party thinks that you are worse than them, and you should take the test.

More importantly, people should not be tested.

So, remember, once someone takes out this test and forces judge to wash the dishes, and then turns away, you can directly judge that there is something wrong with the other person's family background.

As for the first time to go to the man's house, do you want to wash the dishes? If you want to wash them, don't wash them. What matters is not washing dishes at all, but that two people should be equal from the heart.