Beginning of spring can't go back to her family? What's the effect of living in her house in spring?

Introduction: beginning of spring solar term is coming. How much do you know about the Spring Festival? There are some customs in beginning of spring, such as laying eggs, whipping spring cattle, biting spring and offering sacrifices to ancestors. In addition to customs, there are taboos. In the taboo of beginning of spring, beginning of spring is forbidden to go back to her mother's family. So beginning of spring can't go back to her family? What's the effect of living in my parents' house in spring? Come and have a look with me.

Beginning of spring can't go back to her family?

Beginning of spring can't go back to her family.

One of the reasons why women in beginning of spring don't go back to their parents' home on this day is: when girls go home, their parents don't have time to entertain them, and when they come back, they also make trouble for their parents, which will be very troublesome to delay farming; Second, parents are afraid that girls will go home to borrow cattle, delay farming, and the government will find trouble if they don't pay taxes. There is an old saying-I went to my mother's house in spring and stepped on my poor brother-in-law. Third, in ancient times, when a woman got married, it was her husband's family, and she could not bring her husband's family's luck back to her family. But now that everyone's living standards have improved, this phenomenon will not happen. Therefore, beginning of spring can still go back to her family, and it is a wonderful thing to be reunited with her family. There is no need to stick to the rules and be flexible.

What's the effect of staying at home in spring?

In the traditional customs of China, beginning of spring can't go back to her family. It is said that "spring" is bigger than "year", and beginning of spring's return to her family means poverty. For China people, beginning of spring is one of the most important days in a year, which marks the beginning of spring and the beginning of the busy farming season. When you come back, you will make trouble for your parents, and it will be troublesome to delay farm work. Moreover, if the girl goes home to borrow cattle, delaying farming, delaying the transaction and not paying taxes, the government will also find trouble. As the saying goes, "Go back to your mother's house in spring, and step on a poor brother-in-law". A married daughter can't go back to her mother's house that day in beginning of spring.

What are the customs in beginning of spring?

1, Hiding from the Spring: beginning of spring has a bad influence on some people, even worse, it will affect the luck of a year, so the custom of hiding from the Spring has emerged.

2. Worship Tai Sui: China has the custom of welcoming Tai Sui, imagining Tai Sui as a god on duty, which will bring peace and prosperity.

What are the taboos in beginning of spring?

1, beginning of spring is not lying down. It is said that spring warms the earth, which is the beginning of all things, and people should have a good mental outlook to meet the recovery of spring. I suggest you go for a walk in the fields or parks, absorb fresh air, feel vitality and nature, and have a lucky New Year for yourself.

If you don't get a haircut that day in beginning of spring, it's unlucky to get a haircut. As the saying goes, hair is the vegetation of the human body, which is warm in spring and grows with vegetation, and the new vegetation is damaged, which is not in line with the principle of vegetation growth in heaven and earth.

When can't I go back to my parents' house?

New Year

Daughters who get married on the first day of New Year's Day can't spend the New Year at their parents' home. They have to stay at their parents' home and can't go back until they are called by their parents on the second day.

the Lantern Festival

The fifteenth day of the first month is the Lantern Festival, and you can't go back to your parents' house on this day. There is also a saying that "the lamp in your mother's house is just the root of your mother's house".

The second day of the second lunar month

Legend has it that February 2 is the day when the dragon looks up, and you can't go back to your mother's house at this time. This custom is to let the daughter-in-law go back to her husband's house early, and start working in the fields after February 2, and the family affairs also need the daughter-in-law to take care of.

Qingming Festival

Tomb-Sweeping Day is an important sacrificial festival. Most people take Tomb-Sweeping Day very seriously. There is a saying that a married girl can't go back to her parents' grave. It is said that their parents are afraid of others gossiping and making others think that there is no one at home.

Double Ninth Festival

The Double Ninth Festival, also called Daughter's Day, is also not allowed to go back to her parents' home, but parents are afraid that their daughters will suffer indignities at her in-laws' house, so there is a custom of sending flowers and cakes to their married daughters on the Double Ninth Festival. But some places think that after three years of marriage, you can go back to your mother's house at will.