Why do couples have nothing to say?

The most obvious reason is that there is no love between us. After living together for a long time, you will get to know each other more completely, and you will see all aspects of life. Then at this time, you are undoubtedly completely exposed to each other, and he will keep some of your shortcomings in mind and see them in his eyes. Being together for a long time has made him tired of everything about you. Then many times there will be a more direct effect, which is neither too hot nor too cold for you. Ignore it.

This is a love story between my uncle and aunt. When I was very young, I heard that my uncle was crazy about my aunt, because my aunt was very beautiful in our local area. The family is also very good. But my uncle's family is not so good, but my uncle is very smart. It belongs to the slippery tongue type. For many girls, everyone likes this kind of teasing. Later, after a lot of efforts, my uncle finally pursued my aunt.

Life in the first few years of marriage is also happy, with children and daughters. However, when the children grow up, my uncle will feel disgusted with his family. Many times, he will be unreasonable and even have domestic violence. My aunt's life is simply terrible.

Recently, they are getting divorced again. The reason is that my uncle feels that my aunt is not as considerate as before. Actually, as a woman, I think it is understandable that Uncle menstruation is doing nothing at home. I just play games every day. . It's up to women to support their families. These two people will have some complaints more or less. Without economic income, how can they be as generous as before?

So the lukewarm relationship between husband and wife, a large part of the reason is tired of this so-called life. Love has been slowly consumed with time.

Because the relationship between husband and wife is like this, if you don't make any efforts to maintain your feelings, your relationship will naturally slide to alienation. In fact, nothing to say is a very common phenomenon, because after living together for so long, there is bound to be nothing to say, but occasionally nothing to say does not affect the relationship between husband and wife. So if it's only occasionally, don't worry too much. There's nothing to say. You can do something you want and give each other some space.

In fact, there is nothing to say between you, probably because when we are in love, we usually want to know more about each other, because we need to consider whether to marry this person for life. After marriage, we mistakenly think that we no longer need to know each other, we already know each other, or we don't need to continue to know each other. Anyway, we are married.

Another reason may be that two people have been together for a long time, watching movies and TV together and doing something together, and we can tell each other less and less. If we are in college, we can tell each other what happened when we were with my roommate, and he will also tell you about his life, so there will be many more topics. Then live together after marriage, you can understand what each other has done, so the topic may be less.

If you are already working, it is suggested that you can talk more about the things you encounter at work and some interesting things at work.

Or because each other is busy with work, or because they need to take care of their children after having children, they spend a lot of time, so they have no time to communicate, so they won't talk more and more. When two people don't communicate much, they don't want to share their lives with each other, and they don't want each other to know more about themselves. My suggestion is that no matter how busy you are, you should take time out to chat, find a good environment to communicate with each other and get to know each other better, and your marriages will be more and more.

The word "managing marriage" appears because two people in a marriage need to manage their marriage wholeheartedly in order to be happy and go on for a long time. If two people are always lukewarm and don't talk, such a marriage may go to extinction.

After two people get married, love will be dull and everyone will live a normal life. Because everything is going well, there may be no need to talk too much nonsense, let alone love words. At this time, two people can consider cultivating the interest of * * *, and then there will be endless topics. Interest can be cultivated. Two people can accommodate each other a little and try to accept each other's hobbies, so that the topics of the two people will increase. As long as there are common interests, there will always be endless topics to talk about.

My husband likes watching football games, but he didn't reveal anything before he got married. She always focuses on my hobbies and says that she likes whatever I like, I believe it! After getting married, I gradually found that as long as there is a ball game, my husband will definitely watch it. Besides, he was so fascinated by the game that he wouldn't miss it even if it started at zero. And the joys and sorrows always change with the progress of the game. Every time I see my favorite team score a goal, I will jump with joy.

I know nothing about games, let alone like them, but I think if I like him, I should like his hobbies! So I began to ask him some knowledge about football, and my husband told me happily that he would be very excited when he talked about his favorite players. Now I'm half a fan. Whenever there is a football match, we will watch it together. My husband is especially willing to discuss with me and watch the game together.

We will also go to karaoke, have dinner with friends and travel together. In short, life is meaningful only if two people give in to each other!

I have lived for a long time and know each other too well. Personality, habit, expression. You know what the other person is going to answer without asking, or it doesn't matter what you ask. I don't have a good answer It's better not to talk than to ask for it.

After marriage, * * * all found their roles in life together, and began to go their separate ways, ignoring each other's concern. They all put their feelings first, and ask each other to understand themselves in everything, but rarely stand in each other's perspective to understand each other. Over time, _ Sao's resentment accumulated in their hearts. Two people started the cold war, creating a distance. If they don't talk, they will hurt each other. Answer blows with blows must be fair.

Or two people lack communication and ignore each other's existence; I often go my own way. I never care about each other's feelings. After a long time, we have accumulated dissatisfaction in our hearts. I am angry silently, and I don't want to talk or communicate, just like guessing each other. I think I will give you a few words; Give a smiling face. If you guess wrong, stay in limbo. As time goes on, similar knots accumulate. If they are not released, they will hurt each other and contradict each other. Have you ever tried to hurt each other and yourself at the same time? Is there no other way to dissolve emotions? If you want to help the elderly, how long can the marriage last?

It is not easy for two people to be together. It is necessary to cherish each other. It's all about the family discussing things with each other and letting each other find a sense of existence. They are willing to face everything together. The wisdom of two people is always more than that of one. Couples often communicate with each other to find out the root of the problem, so as to eliminate the distance caused by differences. Married life is not always conventional, and good marriage feelings are always watered by love. Distance will not make people reflect on themselves, but will only accelerate the death of marriage. It will attract third parties. Substitution or continuation. We must make a serious decision.

After a long time, love will gradually become a family relationship.

When we dated, we were inseparable. I can't wait to stick together, eat together and live together every day. I want to share anything happy or unhappy with each other and talk on the phone every day. In retrospect, is there really so much to say in the sweet stage? In the first year or two of marriage, most people behave the same as in love. Words are endless, and various ideas are constantly emerging. The other person also looks at you with a sweet smile and wants to share it with you. Soon this stage gradually became a memory.

Slowly, you will find that there seems to be more contradictions between you, and the other party didn't understand it at first. How did it become haggle over every ounce? You gradually understand that you don't need to communicate too much about many things, and you seem to know each other's attitude. Know what the other person likes and dislikes. When you buy food, you know what to buy and what clothes you like. When you go shopping, you go to that store and eat in that snack bar. There seems to be no need to discuss it. I used to talk about my past and my vision for the future. There is nothing to say.

As soon as he got home from work, he just watched the football match on TV and didn't know how to help. Always bullying TV, don't you know that I like watching Hong Kong dramas? I don't know. Let me see. At first, the good feeling of falling in love no longer exists, and the rest of the time seems to be busy making a living. He is like my right-hand man. He is used to having such a person in his life. From lover to family.

When life is too dull, you also ask him, hey, do you think it's been a long time since we went to the movies, sang songs and played games together? Why don't we go out and pat? Appropriate gentleness, I believe that your other half will definitely agree. A partner is a family member and a lover.

There is nothing to say between husband and wife, which shows that they know each other very well and can know what the other person is thinking without talking and communicating. This happens when couples get along to a certain extent. That's understandable. Don't make a fuss. Look at it rationally. Just because there is nothing between husband and wife doesn't mean they don't love you. Everyone should leave enough time for each other when they get along, which is conducive to the harmonious coexistence of husband and wife.

Sometimes it's a sign that couples don't talk. If both sides are lukewarm, then we should try to please each other, give each other some small surprises from time to time, express our love appropriately, and make each other feel safe enough. In this way, no matter whether you talk or not, it will not cause family conflicts.

The main reason why husband and wife have nothing to say is that communication between husband and wife is not timely. When encountering difficulties and contradictions, we should actively face and overcome them. You can't quarrel every time you meet something, and then have a cold war. In the end, we are indifferent to our families and children. We should create a good family atmosphere.

I have a sister like this. My sister and brother-in-law are both very strong people. Fifteen years of marriage, children in junior high school, family conflicts are still constant. Their relationship is not very good. If it weren't for the children, they would have divorced. Brother-in-law often doesn't listen to his sister, and many things are not discussed together. Obviously, both of them are educated college graduates, but they still can't live a good family life. It's always lukewarm. Brother-in-law always favors their family and rejects my sister because my sister didn't give birth to a son for his family.

Perhaps this is the most basic appearance of life. Marriage and love are very different. There is not so much passion to enrich their lives, and various anniversaries are usually perfunctory or even forgotten. It is said that marriage is the grave, but in fact marriage is the most peaceful hub between men and women. More often, both husband and wife are thinking about the daily necessities at home. Perhaps for romantic people, marriage can become more romantic than love, but I believe that most people's marriage is to make their lives in a stable but self-sufficient state. Husband and wife support each other, take care of each other and live together.

This stable life has no excess passion, neither arrogance nor rashness, neither cold nor hot. Couples get to know each other better when they are together. Maybe you can know what the other person wants and needs without asking me. At first glance, you will understand. Many couples and families are struggling for life. They are busy with their work every day and earn money to support this family. If they have children, they must spend more energy on education and growth. If you are around children, there will be less communication.

Sometimes it is not a good thing to say nothing, and sometimes it will cause many unnecessary misunderstandings. The relationship between people is maintained by communication. If two people don't say anything, they will only be alienated and can't get to know each other better. Couples may not care about this, because a piece of paper proves that the other party will not escape so easily, which also brings protection to two people. Both of them know this. Although there will be a lack of passion and fun, at least life is stable.

Nothing between husband and wife is neither too hot nor too cold, but as long as the other person has problems and feels sad, he must change his mentality and take good care of him. Marriage still needs to be maintained by love. No passion, but be happy.

As the saying goes, "a little farewell is better than a new wedding", and an occasional little farewell between husband and wife may also be sweet. Often together, it is inevitable to stumble, argue and even quarrel. But more couples spend their time on tepid, unhurried and unremarkable daily necessities. Eating together, sleeping together, living together and appreciating each other at work every day, you know and I know, there is inevitably no language communication.

We should try to be an interesting person ourselves. Your attitude towards life determines your happiness. I read an article before. A Gao Fushuai man, surrounded by beautiful women like clouds. It can be said that if he wants to get married, it is a good choice to pull anyone casually. But he told everyone that he was an unmarried man. Later, this Gao Fushuai announced for the first time that she was getting married. To her surprise, all her friends, and even more surprisingly, the bride is an ordinary woman. Many people don't understand.

He said, "It's not her appearance that attracts me. What attracts me is her attitude towards life. She is a very interesting woman, full of novelty and whimsy every day. Instead of always buying bags and clothes. When I left her, I always thought that she wanted to do "absurd" things with her.

He gave an example. They used to hang out together. I met a big tree, which was thick and lush. Girlfriends don't simply think the tree is as big as others, but take a group photo or something. On a whim, my boyfriend insisted on kneeling under this old tree with him and recognizing this big tree as michel platini. I also buried something under the tree. Humorously, I will remember visiting our michel platini every year. With his girlfriend, he feels that an ordinary old tree, plus the wilderness, is a stunning beauty. It is not how beautiful the scenery is, but who will watch it with us.

The lack of communication and understanding between husband and wife makes us not interesting enough. If our attitude towards life is positive and interesting. Then there will be fun and joy between husband and wife.