How to make children refuse the temptation of "stall" at the entrance of kindergarten?

There are two most terrible situations in the world. One is that women go to Taobao, and the other is that children leave school. Both of these situations are "I want to buy in buy buy!"

My son's first day in kindergarten, I went to pick him up. I saw an aunt by the door holding a hydrogen balloon of different shapes in her hand. I expect Xiong Haizi will buy one soon. He has no immunity to all kinds of balloons since he was a child. As expected, my son came out to see the balloon and flew over to see it. I decided to take the lead and said to him, "Today is the first day of kindergarten. The teacher said you did a good job. But balloons are not bought every day. They can only be bought on special festivals, such as Children's Day or Spring Festival. Can you do it? " My son agreed happily and chose a piggy Peggy balloon to go home with me.

The next day, when I picked him up from kindergarten, I brought him the paging balloon I bought the first day. Although the aunt who sold hydrogen balloons smiled at us, my son just took a look and left with the balloon I bought yesterday, muttering, "I already have a balloon." After that, I will pick up my son with Peggy balloon for three days in a row, successfully resisting the temptation of aunt balloon. A week later, although I didn't bring a balloon to pick him up, my son just stopped to watch for a while and then left. I promised him that Santa Claus would reward him with a hydrogen balloon at Christmas. Seeing his son nodding hard, his eyes sparkled with expectation. I know we won the contest with Aunt Balloon this time!

Kindergarten has been in class for two weeks. Although it is forbidden to set up stalls around the campus, it doesn't mean that you won't meet them on your way home. Do children have to cry if they don't buy the "cheap goods" near the kindergarten gate? Even if there are more than n gadgets at home, you still have to buy what you see at the door. For the above problems, from my experience of sending children to kindergarten in the past two weeks, I summarized several methods and shared them with parents:

1. Explain in advance that this is to prevent possible "accidents". Before going to kindergarten or just coming out, tell the children that we are going to the supermarket, going home to cook and so on. In other words, we have important things to do. Let the children be preconceived.

If children want to watch it, especially when they are curious at first, you can let them watch it. You stand a little further away, or curiosity kills the cat won't let them go. However, it is necessary to explain that you don't want to buy it. After reading it, you can ask your children to tell their parents what they like and why. (By the way, practice your child's language ability)

3. After returning home, let the children check their toys to see if they have the kind he liked at the stall before, so that the children can know that they have bought similar toys at home and can't buy them any more.

Pick him up from kindergarten with an existing toy he likes the next day, so that the child can understand right and wrong from the heart, instead of fighting with his parents to buy things in a temper.

(This article comes from: Baidu Baby knows soybean milk 1979)

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