Solar terms after mother's death

1, strictly speaking, the first seven must be burned, and then every seven must be burned. You can also burn it together at five or seven, and don't burn it for the first seven days.

2, your mother's funeral, except your mother's family, your mother's elders can't go, your father and your mother's peers, the next generation have to send a ride.

During your mother's centenary, anniversary and Qingming three years, the family should organize relatives to go to your mother's grave together. After three years of filial piety, you can go to the grave yourself.

In four or three years, your mother will beg at home on her birthday, July 30 and Lunar New Year's Eve (invite your mother back for dinner). After three years of filial piety, I can only beg at home in July and half a month of the lunar calendar.

Customs vary from place to place, but they are similar for reference only.