A person has two selves, one is awake in the dark and the other is sleeping in the light (6.9)

1 People have lives, careers have lives, and countries have lives. Everything is destined to be dominated not by five behaviors, but by good things, and it is destined to have shortcomings, deficiencies and destiny.

Don't try again and again to gain strength from the place where you repeatedly break the halberd, which is the same as stupid efforts.

Sometimes you will find that there are various postures and reasons for tripping over the same stone. No matter how hard you prepare, there will always be unexpected situations. It is destined to be yours, whether you like it or not.

A person has two selves, one is awake in the dark and the other is sleeping in the light.

What Jordan and Kobe won't tell you is that they first fell in love with basketball and worked hard because their basketball talent can easily give them a sense of honor that they don't have elsewhere, and they will have a sense of accomplishment in controlling everyone and the audience on the court.

6 is your gift. It will determine that you will consume the least willpower and get the best satisfaction.

You can get started faster than others, spend less energy and get more output than others. This is your talent.

8. Why are children biased? Why is it that the better you learn, the less you need supervision? Because of that sense of superiority, it will reduce the loss of willpower and let you naturally concentrate.

The word "ear seed" comes from "Li Zhou Di Guan Dao Ren": "Grass grows, ear seeds grow." Translated into today's text, crops can be planted where there is grass. This "planting" refers to "planting first, then planting"-"enjoy it after the grain is harvested", and "which" is a mature old saying of "ripe". The word "awn seed" is used in solar terms, and "awn" refers to the wheat awn that is as bright as waves by the intense heat. At this time, it is the autumn of wheat, the ears of wheat will be harvested, the leaves are full, and the wheat wind is scattered. And "planting" refers to rice, "the mulberry leaves are big in wheat and autumn, and the rice fields in Meiyu are new". At this time, rice fields can no longer be planted. Zhu Wei

10 Historian henry adams described power as "a malignant tumor that will stifle the emotional ability of victims", which is not a medical disease, but a metaphor. However, this is almost the same as the conclusion reached by Dacher Keltner, a psychology professor at the University of California, Berkeley, in theory and experiment for many years. In the study of the latter for 20 years, it is found that the subjects affected by power behave as if they have experienced traumatic brain injury-they become more impulsive and have lower risk awareness, and the key point is that they are not good at seeing things from other people's perspectives.

Sukhvinder Obhi, a neuroscientist at McMaster University in Ontario, recently published a similar study. Unlike Keltner's focus on behavior, Obi-Wan pays more attention to the brain. When he used the transcranial magnetic stimulator to study the brains of volunteers with heavy power and powerlessness, he found that power actually damaged a specific neural process-"mirror image"-which may be the cornerstone of empathy.

The discovery of 12 provides a neurological basis for Keltner's "power paradox": once we have power, we will lose some of the abilities we needed when we first acquired power.

13 if you don't learn, there will be no mistakes, and if you learn, there will be disputes and mistakes. Fortunately, we know that the most important thing for everyone is not to find the right thing, but the process of finding it.

14 Writing an article, Feng Tang said with a golden thread: "The standard of literature is really difficult to quantify, but literature does have a golden thread. If a work is realized, it is realized. If you don't reach it, you don't reach it. For outsiders, this is imminent. For the discerning, it is clear. An article lasts forever, gain and loss are self-knowledge. Although not many people know this golden thread, it is not dead yet. There is no direct positive correlation between this kind of gold thread and sales volume, and even a negative correlation in some cases, which cannot change the fact that this kind of gold thread exists. A gentleman can be harmonious but different. My thoughts have been in my stomach for a long time. "

15 20 12 On May 2nd, Wang Xiaobo's wife @ Li Yinhe sent a message to Weibo, saying, "I got together with Feng Tang and chatted for a while last night. At first, I felt a little uncomfortable reading his comments on Xiaobo's writing, but I know that in his heart, Xiaobo's literature is on the "golden thread" in his heart. He just thinks that Xiaobo can't grasp the charm of China ancient characters well. Xiaobo accepts that he is a poet and translator such as Wang Daoqian, Mu Dan and Fu Lei, and having his own writing style is the standard of a successful writer. "

One more thing:

"South Xia Shan" belly

Xiao Qiang came to ask me out to fight this afternoon.

He has a broken bamboo pole stuck in his left waist.

Mother stood at the door and told him:

"Our Amin is ill,

Come and play another day, ok? "

Xiao Qiang said that he had taken the elixir of life.

The condition will get better soon.

And took two out of his pocket.

Dirty nutrition

Very seriously:

"It's for your Nanshan warrior."

Mom, listen.

laugh heartily

Xiao Qiang was very angry

I left without looking back.