How to treat a friend who likes it but doesn't pretend to understand it?

In this case, you just need to smile and deal with it quietly, and then switch to other topics.

The more a person shows, it shows that he subconsciously feels what he lacks most, but pretends to understand when he clearly doesn't understand, which shows that such a person can't accept his ignorance and is particularly afraid of being looked down upon.

In this case, if you expose him, the other party is likely to panic and despair, making the atmosphere very embarrassing and unseemly. Zeng Guofan once said that "a young man is too private" and trying to avoid exposing other people's shortcomings in public is not only harmful, but also beneficial to both sides.

However, we should not go along with each other too enthusiastically. On the one hand, you pay attention to sincerity in interpersonal communication, and deliberately pandering will label yourself as "insincere"; On the other hand, it is understandable to please yourself deliberately, which will make the other party feel that they "don't pretend to understand" and mislead the other party to develop bad communication habits.

So, if the relationship is good, talk about this problem privately; If the relationship is not so good, just smile and pass by.