Why can't you get engaged in the first month?

There is nothing wrong with getting engaged in the first month, but you can't get married.

People can't get married in the first month and get engaged in the twelfth month, otherwise husband and wife can't grow old together. Marriage is rarely in the first month of the lunar calendar, and engagement is rarely in the twelfth month. Because marrying a daughter-in-law in the first month will hinder her in-laws, and getting engaged in the twelfth month will defeat her in-laws, there is a saying: just don't marry, don't order.

But whenever you get married, you must choose a good day. Moreover, a few days before the date is chosen, the man must invite the matchmaker to the woman's house to inquire about the girl's little life. That is, the date of the monthly letter bursts in the first half or the second half to choose an auspicious day.