College students' knowledge and understanding of etiquette

People in social interaction activities, in order to respect each other, in the grooming, instrumentation, grooming, rituals, speech and demeanor, etc., agreed upon, *** with the recognition of the norms of behavior, etiquette is the etiquette, politeness, etiquette and rituals of the collective name.

Etiquette is people's life and social interactions in the convention, people can be based on a variety of etiquette norms, correctly grasp the scale of interpersonal interaction with the outside world, and reasonably deal with good people's relations with others. If there is no such etiquette, often make people feel overwhelmed in the interaction, and even rude to others, making jokes, so familiar with and master the etiquette, you can do to touch the class, treating people just right.

Etiquette is an important means of shaping the image. In social activities, talk about manners, can become civilized; manners can become elegant; wear manners, can become generous; behavior to pay attention to etiquette, can become beautiful. As long as one pays attention to manners, things will be done properly. In short, a person who pays attention to etiquette can become full of charm.

Development of etiquette

China is a state of etiquette since ancient times, etiquette for our yellow children, more often than not can reflect a person's education and taste. Really understand etiquette to speak of etiquette of people, never only in a particular occasion or a few specific focus on etiquette norms, this is because of those emotional, and some programmed details, has long been in the experience of their hearts and minds deep into the bone marrow, immersed in the blood.

So no matter when and where, we should treat people in the most appropriate way. This is where "etiquette" becomes the most important part of our lives. Etiquette is a kind of art in interpersonal relations, is a bridge between people, etiquette is a kind of interpersonal relations must comply with a kind of practice, is a kind of customary form, that is, in the human interaction with a kind of customary practices agreed upon.

Etiquette has a positive effect on regulating people's social behavior, coordinating interpersonal relations and promoting the development of human society.

China is an ancient civilization with a long history, and has created a splendid culture for thousands of years, formed a noble moral code, complete etiquette norms, known as the "ancient civilization, state of etiquette". This conclusion can be drawn from the Book of Rites. The essence of the culture of the whole of East Asia and Southeast Asia are inherited from the Chinese civilization is proof.

China has five thousand years of civilization, known as the "State of Manners", the Chinese people are also known for their polite and courteous appearance. Etiquette civilization as an important part of traditional Chinese culture, the development of Chinese society and history has played a wide range of far-reaching impact, its content is very rich. The scope of etiquette is very wide, almost permeating all aspects of ancient society.

Ancient China's "rites" and "ceremonies" are actually two different concepts. Rites" is a system, rules and a kind of social consciousness; "ritual" is the specific expression of "rites", which is based on the "rites" provisions and content, and the "rites" are the most common and most important of all. It is a set of systematic and complete procedures formed according to the provisions and contents of "rites". In ancient China, etiquette was derived from the clan system and the hierarchical relationship between the nobility and the inferiority in order to meet the needs of the society at that time, and thus it was characterized by the characteristics and limitations of the era in which it was created.

Today, modern etiquette is very different from that of the ancient times, so we must discard those etiquette norms that serve the exploiting class, and focus on selecting the traditional civilized etiquette that is still of positive and universal significance today, such as respecting the elderly, honoring the virtuous, being appropriate, treating people with courtesy, and having a neat appearance, etc., in order to transform and pass them on.

This has a modern value for cultivating good personal qualities, coordinating harmonious interpersonal relationships, shaping a civilized social atmosphere, and building a socialist spiritual civilization.