What is the greatest advantage of ruthlessness?

A true story.

It was in the 1970s, a close neighbor behind my second sister's in-laws' house. Her husband works in a commune (township), commonly known as commodity grain (general commune cadre), and her wife is a heartless person, who speaks and acts as she pleases, regardless of the consequences, and never doubts others.

One day, my husband got up early to go to work (at that time, he gathered at 7 o'clock to check the production), and it was just dawn. When he saw his wife sleeping soundly, he wanted to make fun of her. He pushed his bicycle out of the door and went back to the house to wake her up and said, I heard the weasel bite our chicken, so I'll beat it. Get dressed, hurry up, and then he ran to the henhouse.

After a while, the husband shouted, hurry up, you lazy egg, the weasel hasn't left the henhouse yet! My wife ran out wearing a sweatshirt, but because the conditions were too bad at that time, rural people didn't have pajamas, and her husband shouted urgently, so she ran out naked.

When I arrived at the henhouse, I saw my husband with a broken basket at the door of the henhouse. When the husband saw her coming, he said, you squat down and press the basket. I'll find a pocket and catch the weasel. I can still buy a dollar when I take it to the market! Then the husband slipped out to work by bike.

The wife wore an undershirt, exposing most of her lower body. She didn't dare to move according to the basket, for fear that the weasel would run away and couldn't buy money. However, the left and right husbands have not come yet. At this time, everyone (members) went to work in groups with tools and passed by her door. Her sister-in-law came to ask her to go to work, took a look at her and shouted, Sister-in-law, what are you doing naked at the door of the henhouse? You should also learn from chickens to lay eggs and sell them for money. Everyone turned to look at the past. Only then did she know that her husband had lied to her and made a fool of herself, so she threw away the basket and ran into the house to get dressed.

Since then, this matter has been regarded as a joke. Whenever people call her sister-in-law Guang Mao (aunt), she never blushes and argues that she is catching a weasel!

Now that she is over ninety, her old man is still alive. It is interesting that her wife died long ago. Facts have proved that heartless people live a long and healthy life and never worry.

I hope everyone can relax and live a carefree life.

True story, it is not convenient to say your real name!

My best friend Qin is my neighbor. Although she is two years older than me, she and I are classmates. A Qin has a younger brother who is two years younger than her. In order to facilitate her going to school, her parents let A Qin go to primary school two years later. A Qin and his brother are in the same class, so am I. Every day the three of us go to school together.

A Qin's father's left foot is shorter than his right foot, so he can't walk smoothly. His mother can't see in her right eye and wears glasses all the time, but they are optimistic, even A Qin is optimistic.

When I was a teenager, some students always had a problem with A Qin's parents and gave them many nicknames. They often say those ugly nicknames in front of A Qin. A Qin's younger brother always jumps with anger, but A Qin is very calm. He even looked at the students like a poor man and said, I think I study better than them, I will write better articles than them, and they will only get together and call names childish, so I think they are particularly special. And I'm very smart, so I have a good attitude. When they saw that I didn't respond, they just ignored it. Without their imaginary cowardice, they feel bored and boring.

Because of the poor conditions in A Qin's family, after school, A Qin went to the fields with his younger brother and parents to catch loaches, and when he caught them, he mentioned selling them in the town. Sometimes A Qin went to town to sell loach alone, and they all said, Oh, it's the daughter with short legs, and she even took out the nickname of A Qin's parents and knocked over the loach bucket. But instead of being angry, A Qin thought they were naive. A Qin said: I have despised them in my heart, so I am in a good mood.

If A Qin's brain circuit was different when he was a child, after he got married, A Qin really lost his heart and lungs and couldn't understand other people's languages.

Because A Qin's family conditions are not good, the in-laws introduced to her by the matchmaker are not so good. A Qin is a junior high school student, and her husband A Mu is also a junior high school student. A Mu has a younger sister and A Qin has a younger brother, so their marriage is perfect. There is no bride price, no dowry, no three gold, no house, so they got a marriage certificate and set two tables of wine, which means they got married.

After getting married, A Qin and A Mu set up a stall to sell fruit together. It took them 65,438+00 years to buy a shop and open a fruit shop. In this 10 year, A Qin regarded himself as a man, getting up early and greedy for the dark, stealing, moving and selling fruits, and taking care of children when he went home at night. A Qin, who was originally beautiful, became a rural woman with yellow hair and rough skin, even worse than them. She was reluctant to buy a bottle of ointment and a down jacket to wear in winter. Her down jackets are all clothes that were eliminated by A Mu's sister. A Mu's sister Inging is six years younger than Aqin. When Chin got married, Ying didn't go to college. My parents-in-law asked Aying to work to earn money, and Aying cried and had to go to school.

A Ying tried to repeat her studies, was admitted to a good undergraduate school, and talked about an alumnus in a neighboring county. The conditions are very good. When Inging got married, A Qin took out 20,000 yuan to marry her, including 60,000 yuan from Inging's boyfriend and 20,000 yuan from A Qin.

Ying said, sister-in-law, when you got married before, you got married without a penny of bride price. It's really worthless You see, I want three gold and three gold now, a bride price and a dowry. It's sad to see a woman do what you did.

A Qin said with a smile, "I didn't train you to be a broke man like me to marry you. You are fine, and so are your parents.

A Qin didn't expect that my sister-in-law was laughing at her, laughing that she got married without a penny. She thought they were all married, and talked about bride price and dowry.

A Qin's son was nearsighted when he was in the first grade of primary school, and then A Qin's mother-in-law always said, Oh, it's like grandma. Grandma only has one eye, and her grandson has long wanted shrimp eyes.

Chin didn't feel it either. When my mother-in-law is ill, she always serves alone. Qin is tired. When she wanted to have a rest, her mother-in-law said: This short-legged poor girl should be made of iron. How can she be tired?

Even if her parents-in-law and sister-in-law gossiped about A Qin, A Qin didn't feel anything. To her, these words are like the wind, and her mother-in-law gave A Qin a nickname: Fool.

Qin is always so heartless, selling fruits and living happily. She uses the old man's mobile phone, but there is no WeChat yet. All the money in the fruit shop was given to A Mu, who seldom spent money.

When A Qin's house was expropriated, A Qin's parents gave A Qin 300,000 yuan, A Qin left 6.5438+0.5 million yuan to her parents, and the remaining 6.5438+0.5 million yuan was known by her sister-in-law, Aying, and she lent it to her children for boarding school, which has not been paid back for five years.

Once Jean told me this, I was very angry and felt wronged for her.

I said: Your so-called good family relationship is based on your selflessness. You try, if you don't support them so much and help them, can they be kind to you?

The income from selling fruit is so good, why not save some money for yourself and give it all to your parents-in-law? In case something happens, aren't you empty-handed? The house is the name of your parents-in-law, and the shop is the name of your husband. What do you have? The child also belongs to his family. You can't bear to eat, wear or even see a disease. Why bother?

Lend it to my sister-in-law 1.5 million, and you can still laugh after five years? Be careful, don't be so heartless and looked down upon.

Aqin is still cheerful. In fact, life is hard to be confused. Turn a blind eye, don't haggle over every ounce. If I really haggled over it, I would have died. I sometimes cry that I don't have a pair of good shoes, but I feel very happy when I think that some people don't have a foot. As long as I live, nothing can hurt me.

Think less about things, why do you have to do what you guess with others, just live purely.

I was speechless, and she also said that this was her way of life, which made her confused and her emotional intelligence was high.

I've always felt that Chin is heartless. Maybe she is afraid that something will tear her apart and make her feel at a loss. It is better to pretend to be ignorant, fearless, heartless, relaxed and happy.

There are too many disappointments in life. I was lucky to get it, but lost my life. I am calm and indifferent, let nature take its course.

Ruthlessness is a free and easy attitude towards life. There are at least three advantages.

1. Ruthlessness is to taste the world after it is cold and warm. No heartless person will experience heartache.

Ma Yili, who is well-known to everyone, said many classic sayings, such as: Life is fun, and you will have a lot of fun with a playful attitude; Marriage is a game of constantly making mistakes and solving problems.

This way of playing games is a heartless mode. Can be so heartless, if there is no marriage with the article, no broken dream of dying alone, no treasure walking around, it will never be so profound and powerful.

Having tasted the warmth and coldness of life, ruthlessness is actually protecting your armor. Knowing that things can change slowly, you won't get tired of your feelings and hurt others easily.

2. Ruthlessness is optimism that bounces back after struggling in the sea of suffering. Which heartless person is not the re-adhesion after being grinded by pain?

A good friend who grew up as a child has now become the backbone of her unit, and everyone says she is free and easy and optimistic. She also readily accepted the image of an optimistic and sunny person.

But her real situation is that she was a very inferior girl since she was a child. Rural families stayed in a county high school for three years and were admitted to 2 1 1 university in the provincial capital.

When I arrived at the university, I felt deeply out of place with everything around me and it was difficult to integrate. Even always feel that the confidence and arrogance in the bones of urban students hurt themselves, so she has been fighting against her inferiority and blx in her heart.

After work, I worked hard in the workplace for many years and finally stood out. I always wanted to exercise my personality, be sunny, be kind to people and smile at people. Everyone thought that she was a heartless optimist.

And she also knows that this heartless optimism is how much suffering she endured before she can rebound. Which one is heartless, not the reattachment after the heart and lung are crushed.

After posting, there is no heart, no pain, no burden, and everything.

3. Heartlessness is the inner strength after tempering. No one is born heartless, and it is not easy to support a person through everything in this world.

The Analects of Confucius? In a passage in Shure, Lord Ye asked Lutz what kind of man Confucius was. Lutz didn't answer. Confucius said, "A woman is a human being if she doesn't say anything. She was angry and forgot to eat, and she was happy and forgot her troubles. I don't know that old age is coming. "

Confucius said to Luz, "Why don't you say so? He was so angry and hard that he forgot to eat. He was so happy that he forgot all his troubles and didn't even know that he was old. That's all. "

This state of forgetting to eat, to worry, or even to forget one's age is regarded as Confucius' optimism and belongs to the unintentional state mentioned in the question.

Confucius lived in exile all his life, experiencing ups and downs and living a hard life. When he was in his sixties, he was still traveling around the world, and his ambition was hardly rewarded. But in that troubled times, his heart has been cultivated into steel and has become a road to enlightenment, which is praised by future generations.

Therefore, the mind without distractions is a life rest and inner strength after hardships. After being washed away by the wind and waves, little thoughts and sorrows have nowhere to put. Ruthlessness is an accommodation to everything and the world.

Ruthlessness is wisdom, optimism and strength after the vicissitudes of the world. With this heartless person, I am no longer narrow-minded, ignorant, trouble-seeking, and conceited.

May we all have great hearts and tolerance. With the appearance of "heartless", I live a dry, see through the world, calm and unhurried real life.

The biggest advantage of being heartless is that you won't get angry, hold grudges, and keep your worries in your heart. Such people are broad-minded, healthy, not easy to get sick, and very good for their health.

There is an old comrade in my unit who is almost 70 years old. My son divorced five years ago, and my daughter-in-law took her grandson away. His son has been working everywhere because he didn't go to school well and didn't have a serious job. Now he is over 40 years old and has not found another object. If he were an ordinary person, he would have been worried about his health. He's not like that. He is always talking and laughing, fighting and making trouble when he meets people. He looks indifferent and looks in good health. Compared with him, he asked him, if you can make trouble all day, don't you have any trouble? He said: Worry will only bring trouble. How can it be heartless, healthy and delicious? I am a heartless person, live my life well. You see, he is still alive and kicking with a bachelor son in his forties.

My other colleague is not like this. His daughter-in-law gave birth to a grandson. At first, he was very happy, laughing all day and walking around. But two or three years later, his grandson could not walk or talk and was diagnosed with cerebral palsy. From then on, there was no smile on his face, and he was unhappy all day and worried about his grandson. Now he suffers from hypertension, coronary heart disease and hyperglycemia. He is less than 70 years old and hardly goes out now. He takes medicine all day and is afraid of having a heart attack. It is said that he walks slowly at home every day. Physical condition is very bad.

His grandson has cerebral palsy, and now he has given up his second child and third child. He can regenerate completely, but he is worried about getting sick again. His son is over forty years old.

Those who have no daughter-in-law should be most worried, but they are heartless and have a good life. Therefore, the biggest advantage of ruthlessness is optimism. I don't know what it's like to worry. It's good for your health!

Heartless and not tired.

A friend of mine is 50 years old this year. At the age of 38, her husband died, leaving two children at school. There are seventy-year-old parents-in-law, who died three years later. Such a family is supported by my friend's salary of 3 thousand yuan a month. My friend is still optimistic outside. I asked her how she did it, and she replied, I have no heart!

Ruthlessness sometimes leads to unexpected gains.

Many years ago, there was a careless person in the village who was careless in his work and forgot the east and the west. The villagers said he was careless, and he was not angry.

Now is the sowing season, and the tradition in the village is to grow sorghum. There is a winery nearby, and the price is not low.

I got on the bus and dragged the seeds to the field. I planted three plots of land, and it's time to go home at noon. Let's continue planting in the afternoon.

After lunch, the pigs at home gave birth to piglets and waited on the big pigs and piglets for a long time. I was so tired that I went to bed without supper.

The next morning, I got up and cooked pig food for the big pig. I am very happy to see this happy little pig.

After half a month, it was time to sow sorghum. Suddenly, I accidentally remembered. Is there a piece of land without seeds? I hurried to the field and saw sorghum seedlings all over the ground. What happened?

It turned out that when the neighbors decided to plant saplings, they pulled them down and put them in the messy field. It happened that it rained at night and all the sorghum seedlings were alive.

Open your mouth and giggle casually.

Everyone in the village says that sloppy people are more blessed!

Although it is true, the probability of occurrence is very low. No matter who it is, we should do things seriously and make a serious investigation. After all, the harvest of a field is not a big deal. If you are so careless, it must not be a big mistake!

The advantage of being heartless is that you are not tired and live long.

The pressure of life and work in society is really too great now. Many people have mild depression, that is, stress. They keep everything in their hearts and don't tell others. A heartless man lives easily because he has no pressure. He doesn't care too much about heartless people at work. He does what others tell him to do, listens to what others say, and forgets what he says. He can't remember anything, and he is not a heartless man. He will listen to these words and he will remember them.

A heartless person will live longer than others. Heartless people don't care too much.

A heartless person will not calculate too much.

Heartless people are not too greedy.

A heartless person, he won't be too impetuous.

A heartless person will live happily every day.

I have a grandmother with a very bad heart. No matter who helps him, he doesn't know how to thank others. He also said that people helped him, but he didn't do very well. Not only did he not know how to thank others, but he also spoke ill of others behind their backs, and he didn't have any moral education at all. So I would say that he has no heart and no conscience. The greatest advantage of such people is that they don't know how to be grateful. Will you admire him?

The advantage of being heartless is that you are not tired and live long.

There is too much pressure in life and work in society now. Many people have mild depression, that is, stress. They keep everything in their hearts and don't tell others. A heartless man lives easily because he has no pressure. He doesn't care too much about heartless people at work. He does what others tell him to do, listens to what others say, and forgets what he says. He can't remember anything, and he is not a heartless man. He will listen to these words and he will remember them.

A heartless person will live longer than others. Heartless people don't care too much.

A heartless person, he won't calculate too much.

Heartless people are not too greedy.

A heartless person, he won't be too impetuous.

A heartless person will live happily and happily every day.

The greatest advantage of ruthlessness is carefree. A person is full and the whole family is not hungry.