Three views on the rules of practicing disciples

Article 1: Rules, experience and composition of practicing disciples

Disciples Rules teaches us to learn to respect filial piety and others first. Disciples' Rules can't be memorized. It's the most important thing to learn and do according to the contents of Disciples' Rules.

? Disciples' rules, cultivation of saints, first filial piety, second sincere faith, love for the masses, kindness, spare capacity, how can you study literature? . This is the summary of Disciples Rules, which fully summarizes the standards we need to reach and tells us how to be a man, how to learn and how to be polite.

The whole article of Disciple Rules is very short, with 360 sentences and only 1080 words, but it is very rich. It is always divided into seven parts, namely? Filial piety comes from entering, filial piety comes from leaving, honesty comes from believing, universal love, and kindness comes from sparing no effort to learn literature? . ? Filial piety? Tell us to listen to our parents and love our relatives at home. If your relatives are in trouble or sick, you should help and take care of them sincerely, don't quarrel with your parents, and listen to their words. This makes us more harmonious and warm with our parents at home. ? What happened? Tell us to be modest when we go out, just like at home. When we meet our elders, we should let the Tao know the truth and let us go out comfortably. Grace. 、? Polite? . ? Sincerely? Tell us to pay attention to everything in life, and small things can also reflect you and your character. Don't ignore small things, you must start from small things and make yourself elegant and completely modest in the eyes of others.

? Letter? Tell us that we should always be honest. Honesty and trustworthiness are the duty of being a man. We should be outspoken and not moody. ? Pan-loving people? Tell us, do it? Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you? Don't like the new and hate the old, love everyone and be broad-minded. ? Kind? Tell us that people should care about each other and don't intrigue each other, which makes people close. ? Li Yu Wen Xue? This is the most important thing for us today. It tells us to listen carefully, study hard, and keep a correct attitude when writing without interference.

The disciples spoke a lot of truth in plain language. I will study and do as my disciples say in the future.

Chapter two: Practice the rules and writing experience of disciples.

Disciple rules have followed me for more than a year, which has benefited me a lot. He is a good teacher who guides people to become good people! Educate people to know themselves correctly in reality, how to treat their parents and brothers, how to be a man, and how to learn and cultivate their own morality. This is really a good book. When I knew for more than a month, I wrote an epigram on the attached page: think more, think more, read more, listen more, be careful, be careful!

? Filial piety? It is the simplest way of writing and the simplest principle of being a man, which has been passed down from generation to generation by Chinese sons and daughters. Parents are the greatest in everyone's heart. Before I recall, maybe you and I had the same experience. After coming home from school or playing all day, I was tired and lying on the sofa. I felt that my mother had covered me with a towel, but I didn't feel anything. Remember when I was sick as a child and my mother hobbled behind our backs to get an injection? I didn't feel anything at the time. What do you think parents should do? In fact, there is still a lot of care like this! Do we care so much about them now? Even when I come home from work almost every day, I still feel that I have done too little. I really can't wait until they are too old to be filial!

Disciples Rules has a word and a truth, a word and an idea. Let me understand that there are two things in life that can't wait, one is filial piety and the other is gratitude. Be grateful to parents, relatives and friends, and the company. . . In fact, there are too many people who are as grateful as I am, often putting themselves first, ignoring parents' expectations and sincere friendship between friends, and failing to live up to the expectations of our leaders. What I care about in my heart is fame and fortune, my own gain and loss of honor and disgrace, and I am less grateful and sincere to the company. From the company's point of view, be prepared for danger in times of peace, always have a sense of crisis and pressure, and strengthen team consciousness.

Over the past year, I have learned a lot and learned a lot. Disciple rule is a mirror. I will compare myself, wake myself up, study the rules of discipleship, and be a better person and thing. Use my practice to influence children and people around me, and let Disciples Rules bring happiness to more people!

Article 3: Rules, experience and composition of practical disciples

Most of today's children are only children, and the little emperors and princesses in the family enjoy the family's favor and privileges. However, because of the improvement of family economic conditions, parents are mostly responsive to their children and are unwilling to let them suffer, which makes it easy for children to develop the defects of being spoiled, relying on others in everything and thinking only for themselves. Therefore, under the condition of global market economy, competition is everywhere today. It is necessary to educate every child to love work and study, not to be afraid of hardships and tiredness, to face difficulties and challenges bravely, and to shoulder the responsibilities that they should bear. Only with such excellent quality can we meet the future social needs and bravely shoulder the lofty responsibility of building a harmonious and beautiful new society. It is a good way to cultivate children's noble quality to carry out the education of disciples' rules.

Disciples Rules is one of the essences of China traditional culture. Although the wheel of history has entered a new century, people's thoughts and thinking are also changing with the progress of the times. Due to today's great economic development, people's living standards are far from the same, but they are mentally deficient. Many people worship money and status too much, blindly pursue material interests, ignore spiritual pursuits, and even abandon the excellent traditional culture and education of the Chinese nation. However, when we turn to history, we can easily find that excellent traditional culture education is indeed a powerful force to maintain family and social stability and harmony. Disciples Rules summarizes the traditional education of saints in China in simple and easy-to-understand language, and Xinhua School also summarizes the detailed rules of practice, and enters campus, family and our lives through catchy rhythm. What is the core of Disciple Rules? Filial piety? Where to? A gift? From this, I deeply understand that not only the education of three-year-old children, but also for us adults, we can find basic living norms that need to be practiced between the lines, such as respecting parents, caring for brothers and sisters, being a man and studying. Therefore, it is very meaningful for parents and children to study parenting education together, and the Disciple Rules formulated by Xinhua School.

Our family actively responded to the call of the school, formulated the daily reading requirements, and studied with the children to understand the specific requirements of the practice rules. Parents also regulate themselves, set an example, urge themselves, and strive to correct the problems and habits that do not meet the requirements in daily study and life. Practice has proved that gratifying changes have indeed taken place from children through the practice of Disciples Rules some time ago. We used to call her, but she always refused, but after a while? Should parents slow down when they call? Education is now basically on call; She always advised her not to move when we asked her to do something before. Now all she has to do is say. Parents' orders, will you be lazy? , she immediately took action; ? Get up early and go to bed late at night? Promote her to develop a good life schedule, stay in bed and stay up late; I also have my own room to tidy up and help do some housework within my power, such as cooking some simple meals, washing dishes, washing clothes and so on; When we go out now, we find that she often greets our friends or neighbors consciously, which was not the case before. I don't know if it is because she is shy or because she always ignores others. Now she will call generously. Uncle? ,? Aunt? Treat guests with courtesy and enthusiasm; In the study, arrange the study time reasonably, finish the homework voluntarily after returning home, and often read some extracurricular reading materials that are beneficial to study and cultivate moral sentiments; In the study of disciple rules, children become more and more caring, more polite and more responsible.

As parents, we also benefit a lot from the activities of practicing the rules of discipleship. In the process of educating children, we gradually changed some rude practices in previous education. Try not to talk loudly or scold the children at home. When talking to children, be persuasive and convince others by reasoning, and don't hurt children's self-esteem. If you do something wrong, your children should point it out and admit it bravely. ? If you are upright, your orders will do. Parents are children's first teachers, and children have discerning eyes. In life, they should set an example, honor their parents, care about their brothers, unite with colleagues and be honest with others. At work, we should be serious and responsible, work hard and set a good example for our children. ? Whatever you say, believe it first. For the child's request, I will never agree to what I have no ability to do; If we promise to do something, we must do it. Therefore, we should be cautious in what we say and do, start from ourselves, correctly treat and handle all kinds of things encountered in our career and family, and become an example that children can trust, rely on and learn.

Although Disciple Rules is the education of traditional sages in China, it belongs to the traditional virtue education of the Chinese nation, emphasizing the cultivation of good moral character. I believe that by reading Disciples' Rules and deeply understanding the teachings of sages, we will start from the little things in life, get to know books and etiquette, and make contributions to building a harmonious society. In the process of learning traditional culture, we grow up with our children!