Twenty-five years ago, Wang Hongli of Tsinghua University insisted on marrying in Africa to give birth to three sons and one daughter for the blacks, how is she doing now?

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. ---- British motto

Before the 2019 outbreak, there was no chance that the scandalous aspects of the functioning of the United States and other Western democracies and institutions would have been exposed to more Chinese prying eyes....

Before that time, Chinese people were still busy living in Europe and the United States, and those who had the financial means to do so encouraged their children to study abroad.

One statistic derived in the United States as early as around 2014 showed that overseas, especially in the United States, Asian women have a high rate of out-marriage.

In the international community, there is also a ranking that is well known that Asian women are highly popular in the global marriage market, second only to white women, while Asian men are at the lowest end of the marriage market. The status is equivalent to black women.

Many Chinese men who are highly regarded at home die out when they leave the country for two reasons, one being cultural differences, the West is more open and the East is more subtle.

The second is that Asians can't fight for opportunities in the U.S. circle, can't stand out, and end up becoming businessmen and high-tech personnel.

And in the case of black Americans and blacks who have the ability to travel the globe, they are not bound by the general stereotype that we have of some star blacks, NBA players, but are just physically fit and athletic.

In addition, they have a high IQ, a lot of experience, are tolerant because they know how to be, and know how to get girls to like them. Especially for some young women who have not yet left the country and are pregnant, they are more likely to fall for this great cross-racial and cross-color love exercise.

Especially for some highly educated women, it's easier to accept cross-color romance without fear of the world, except that I once met a Bengali netizen who shared a story that struck me.

The story is about a black man and a white woman who fell in love with each other. The black man was reluctant to marry the white woman, and the white woman began to ask him what he thought after holding her heart for a long time.

The black male said we will have children after marriage, the white female said yes, he will grow up like you handsome handsome.

The black male picked up the conversation and said, what if he inherits my skin color. The two fell silent as the words left their mouths. This story is not searchable on the internet, but it is a famous aphorism of racial love in Bangladesh and many historical countries.

Interracial cross-color marriages are also known in the media we are familiar with the relationship between Sabine and white girl Li Bai, but anyone who has experienced this kind of love experience, the surface of the rare, strange, some of the marriages are scenic.

The parties involved feel not only the passion and sweetness of love, foreign Romantic romance, more on the two sides of the friction in the cultural background differences in understanding and reflection.

China's top school Tsinghua University female students and a black international students in China campus romance to identify each other, stay together to the other side of the ocean cross-racial, transnational love travel story.

The heroine of the story is named Wang Hongli. 25 years ago, university resources were far less abundant than they are now, and the number of people who went on to university alone was a tiny fraction of the population.

Not to mention Tsinghua University, a TOP-level institution in China, which the heroine was admitted to.

It is Tsinghua University students such a special and glorious identity, so that Wang Hongli is more attention, including her love, no coincidence, her lovers in the impartiality of a suitor from Uganda, this is a black suitor.

Faced with the man of foreign descent, Wang Hongli was half curious and half alert. And like mentioned above, can have the seniority to study abroad black guy, is a rich travel experience of the old geezer.

In the face of the girl in front of his envy, he holds not only to create a ring of talent and romantic plot, but also a generous, hot and loyal heart.

During his master's degree, the black Suma academic and marriage both cultivation and double, Wang Hongli in Suma's strong and powerful love offensive, Suma impressed.

Later gradually familiarized with the process, Wang Hongli is more than Suma's bare sincerity impressed, Suma bluntly their background in a foreign country, the conditions are not good. And this is more let Wang Hongli valued his spirit of hard work quality.

The more time they spend together, the more they fall in love, only this transnational love is not so easy to be traditional Chinese society, and even the sound of banter, Wang Hongli's parents learned of this matter, the development of the marriage in the near future, worried about.

Traditionally, the elderly believe that their daughter will be almost stable once she gets into the highest educational institution, and that it will be good enough for her to find a stable and compatible native to work within the state system.

And their daughter's rare, if not somewhat shocking, marriage was completely unexpected.

The old couple both strongly disagreed, both in terms of mainstream social values and in terms of the risk they were taking for their daughter.

And the identity of the same noble as the older generation of intellectuals of the fathers in order to block this marriage, pinch off their emotional links, the first signs of love and desire, Wang Hongli's parents, on the surface did not compulsorily drive Suma away from their daughter, but will be the daughter will soon be recommended to Japan to study.

Sumar, after all, is not the second couple imagined that easy to get rid of, or easy to give up on the average black man, even Wang Hongli are surprised that Suma then accompanied himself to Japan to study, so, in Japan, a more open sexual culture, they are privately married.

In the 1990s, Wang Hongli returned to Uganda with Suma, Suma's hometown. In Uganda, Hongli faced language problems, building relationships with members of Suma's family, and adapting to the social system.

In fact, the most difficult thing for Hongli was that she was hardly prepared for these potential problems.

However, it is fortunate to have her pampered by the side of Suma, who cherishes her and hopes that she will stay. As long as he is not busy he is always with Hongli Wang to help her better adapt to the language, family, social and cultural environment.

What's more, he broke the custom of his hometown to love only one person for the sake of Wang Hongli, and gave birth to three children.

After that, the husband and wife worked together to found the Chinese Language Teaching Institute and made the cake bigger and bigger, expanding their market share.

Because of the growing influence and voice of China in the international arena, the Chinese language education industry in many overseas countries has a more optimistic picture than ever before.

It was this extraordinary love that brought Wang Hongli to Uganda, where she not only reaped the rewards of a happy marriage, but also promoted the spread and development of Chinese culture overseas, and her own social ambitions are higher than her parents had planned.

Wang Hongli's faith in love, Suma's resolute defense of love overcame Wang's parents' original disapproval, lack of understanding and lack of support. The marriage is complicated, and instability is the biggest factor.

But it's not just our own values and perceptions that determine our happiness, it's also our attitudes and feelings towards each other and our commitment to each other.

There are white women who marry white women, and there are those who have broken up their marriages: there are black men who love black men, and there are those who have children and grandchildren and families who are happy.

When looking for a partner, some of us may be more realistic and focused on the vanity and pleasure that another person's worth brings to us, while most easily ignoring the quality of the relationship itself, and the love and effort we put into each other in order to improve that metric.

In our quest to love and be loved, Wang Hongli's and Suma's personal experiences teach us a vivid lesson about iteratively embracing new changes and challenging new opportunities.

Being true to oneself in love is also often embracing gratitude, nostalgia without indulgence, courageous and not sinking. The thing is people, the law of nature, efforts to do their best, the rest will be entrusted to the fate of the arrangement of it.