Ask the wisdom of being a man and doing things, and hope to give some advice ~

Getting along with people can be said to be mostly trivial matters. In real life, it is always trivial things that destroy interpersonal harmony. Therefore, being a man should also know how to grow up.

The ancients cloud; Don't do it because of small goodness, and don't do it because of small evils. "A small good becomes a great good, no matter how small a good thing is; And things that violate the law and righteousness, no matter how small, must never be done. Little things with unreasonable opinions may change you. Don't underestimate those trivial things, let alone ignore their influence-success in life often lies in these little things.

Don't be stubborn

A person should not stick to his own opinions and always act according to his own will, otherwise he will make mistakes one after another, which will not only harm his own vital interests, but also swallow the bitter fruit of failure or even collapse.

Don't do anything for fame and fortune.

In order to save face, I will cheat people who don't know the truth at the expense of my own vital interests, but I can't cheat my conscience. For the vanity of face, the saddest thing is to get psychological satisfaction but pay a painful price.

Being a man should not be out of tune with the world.

To be a man, you must get along with others and do as the Romans do. If you don't live in harmony with the world, it is tantamount to running counter to it. Of course, no amount of effort is in vain.

Don't be afraid of illness and doctors.

It is human nature to make mistakes. If there are shortcomings, accept them with an open mind and be responsive. Don't be conceited and don't listen to other people's advice.

6. Be smart and cautious.

You can't be too smart on your own. You don't consider everything from the perspective of long-term interests. You only think about immediate interests or just want to have fun for a while. Otherwise, "cleverness will be mistaken by cleverness"

Don't flatter yourself.

It is spineless in the eyes of a gentleman to flatter others in order to please others shamelessly! Once a person becomes flattering, he is bound to be full of evil spirits, and he will be despised by others without benevolence and righteousness.

Don't break the jar and drop it.

As the saying goes: positive people, like the sun, shine everywhere; Negative people are like the moon, but the fifteenth day of the first lunar month is different. People's mentality sometimes determines our view of the past, which in turn determines our future.

9 Be strict with yourself.

If the desire is too strong and enthusiastic, it is not only an affirmation of one's own existence, but also a denial or cancellation of the existence of others. Desire is not a pure and absolute thing, it needs rational regulation. When dealing with people, we should always keep this reason. Don't deny others for the sake of affirming yourself. We should blame ourselves with the heart of blaming others and forgive others with the heart of forgiving ourselves. This is a gesture and responsibility of being a man.

10 Take the initiative to do what should be done.

Everyone knows that "being a man should take the initiative". In fact, we need to take the initiative to do things, and we should never expect good things to happen to us-even if good things happen, we must always be prepared for the coming of the Universiade.

There is an old saying in China that "the first move is the best". In fact, this is initiative. You should take the initiative to do what you should do, whether you are working or living. Turning a blind eye is likely to make things worse, while being proactive can win space for yourself and achieve life.

1 1 Be a person without hesitation and regret.

The most important thing about being a man is that you made a mistake from the beginning, which can't be redeemed, and you don't have to make unnecessary regrets. On the contrary, we should repent and turn over a new leaf, learn from it and pave the way for doing the right thing in the future.

12 Don't be too vain.

In today's rapidly changing society, fame and fortune can easily lead to vanity. When the ancients said "indifferent to your ambition", they advised people not to pursue vanity too much, stay away from fame and fortune, be indifferent to desires, pursue vanity, and not be fettered by things other than fame and fortune.

13 Don't be a man.

Talking to people, talking nonsense. This may be a communication skill that many people envy, but on the other hand, it is flashy, opportunistic and insincere. Perhaps the most taboo among friends is not being honest with each other, saying one thing and doing another.

Before man is a god, after man is a ghost. Being a man to this point has deviated from social morality.

Become a black sheep. Of course, in dealing with people, he should not only be honest, but also judge whether others are honest. This is very important, especially for people in prosperity.

14 Don't be blind.

Some people say that "success is saved by the ladder of goals." Indeed, the fundamental difference between people can be said that many times it is not talent or opportunity, but a goal and no goal.

For the blind, the passage of time only means the growth of age, and they can only repeat other people's instructions day after day. Because blindness is like a rope hidden in the world, leading the confused people to the successful goals of others, just like looking for sporadic nutrition in other people's leftovers. The most terrible thing is that sometimes we are so blind that we even lose our way between beauty and ugliness.

15 Don't take it out on others.

There is a saying in Buddhism: "You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they have hurt you, you should let go to get real happiness."

And "don't be angry" means that when you encounter unhappy things, you can put them down and not blame others for your mood. This is the high realm of being a man.

So when Lu Aigong asked Confucius which disciple really inherited his knowledge, Confucius said that only Yan Hui should be "not angry, not twice" with Yan Hui.

In life, people who can really do this can't say no, but what is certain is that people who can't do this are there.

This is a man's duty.

Being a man is an art, and doing things is a skill. Only by learning to be a man can we do things. The most basic art of being a man is to "keep a respectful distance from others because of the responsibility of humiliation and the responsibility of fairness." Otherwise, it will not work.

17 don't be a man for profit.

You can't just look at the advantages without looking at the disadvantages. If you want to be profitable everywhere all the time, you will die for a little profit, and you will eventually lose more than you gain.

Confucius once said: "A gentleman is figurative, while a villain is figurative." However, "Yu Yu Li" is something that everyone can do naturally, while "Yu Yi" is not so simple, so people are basically "rich and easy to be happy". Therefore, Lao Tzu also has a famous saying:' Less is more. "In the Buddhist classics, worry is also called' gain'. The more you worry, the more confused your mind will be.

18 Don't be opportunistic.

There is no free lunch in this world, and you can get a reward if you pay. If you want to gain benefits through opportunistic means, you will only get nothing in the end, but you will lose more. Opportunism is also an impetuous performance. It may gain fame and fortune for a while, but it will lose more.

Don't save people from the well.

Helping others is a good thing, but it depends on whether it is a good place. If you act at will regardless of the actual situation, it will not help, it will only increase your own danger.

19 don't forget righteousness and benefits.

As the saying goes, "a gentleman loves money and takes it wisely." What is Tao? Maybe everyone has their own standards, but there is one thing, you can't sell your soul, let alone your conscience. Be a man, don't forget that profit is short-lived and long-lasting.

Don't be too selfish in life.

Some people say that selfishness is human nature, and some people say that "every man for himself, the devil takes the hindmost". In today's era of emphasizing self, this sentence has been recognized by many people, but the final result proves that selfish people ultimately hurt themselves. Therefore, people should not be too selfish, or they will eventually swallow the bitter fruit of "selfishness".

2 1 Be reasonable first, then be righteous.

People living in this world should help each other, and it is inevitable to take or be taken. When asking for help, I hope people can bravely fight. When asked in time, people expect us to fight bravely. For those who never make moves, we say they are selfish and scold others. For those who often make moves, we say that they are generous, loved and close to everyone, but generosity is not a child's play, so we should master the degree.

We should also do what we can and speak out.

There is an old saying in China, "Know yourself and know yourself." . The most important thing in life is to know yourself, and being able to "know yourself" is a sensible person.

Just as Lao Tzu said, "He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise", a wise person is only when he can know others correctly, and he is smart and capable when he can know himself correctly. But unfortunately, a person's wisdom is like a person's eyes. Although he can see things in the distance, he will never see his eyelashes. So we need to borrow a mirror to have a look, but it's hard to say what the result will be, both positive and negative.

Be free and easy.

There is a saying, including Zen machine; "Put it down, there will be no troubles." Indeed, as the Zen poem says, "There are flowers in spring, a moon in autumn, a cool breeze in summer and Melissa Zhou in winter; If there is nothing to worry about, it is a good time on earth. " Spring, summer, autumn and winter, every suitable time, and finally we just return to nature. So, for the sake of fame and fortune, you might as well relax and be patient. In fact, some of my own forbearance, not only for their own free and easy, but also convincing.

Suffering in the world is a blessing.

The ancients said that "a loss is a blessing" is very reasonable. Because of loss, you become a giver, and you add a chip to the balance of life. In a sense, losing is a realm, a self-discipline and generosity, and a sublimation of personality. Don't fight for material interests, fame and status, and don't be exclusive in interpersonal communication. Being proud of losing is bound to win people's respect and praise.

Don't do bad things with kindness.

As the saying goes, "a fence has three piles, and a hero has three gangs." For everyone's happiness, the world needs enthusiasm. " People should really help each other and be kind to others. But helping others depends on whether it is correct or not and whether it can bring benefits to others. If you can't do this, you might as well not help, lest your kindness spoil the good things of others.

Be careful when making friends.

Some people say that if you choose a friend, you choose a way of life. There is a saying in Lu Xun's poem that it is enough to have a bosom friend in life. It can be seen that the way to make friends lies in quality, not quantity. There has long been a famous saying in Augmented Xianwen: "A word from Yu Jun is worth reading for ten years." Instead of studying hard for ten years, it is better to talk with excellent talents. In fact, the principle of making friends should be as Ceng Zi said: "Help others with friends." Is to promote your progress and avoid making mistakes. Such talents should be handed over. Good friends also follow this principle to meet people.

When dealing with people, you should choose the good and follow.

Kindness is a signpost, which shows you the way forward when you lose your way; Kindness is a clear spring that nourishes your life when you are thirsty; Choosing kindness is a pair of powerful hands, which will help you a lot when you are helpless. Therefore, the spiritual destination must be to choose good and follow, regardless of the size of good.

Ceng Zi said: "Learning alone without friends is ignorance." Therefore, choosing kindness lies not only in personal morality, but also in making friends. As the saying goes: "Those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black." In the action of interacting with people, you can also choose good and follow, thus shaping your excellent self, making your life bank have a lot of wealth and paving the way for yourself.

28 beware of people's hearts.

Confucius famously said, "Clever words are refreshing." So don't be fooled by sweet words, otherwise it will only "break your heart".

There is an old saying in China that "it is necessary to guard against people's heart". Although the human world is not as diverse as animals and plants, people's quality and personality are really strange. A seemingly fierce person may have a warm chest; A seemingly honest person may have a snake heart. No matter whether the acquaintance you associate with is fierce or good, you should weigh what he says before you believe it.

29 don't hurt others.

It is completely justified to let people go in order to protect themselves from harm; It is despicable to harm others for your own sake. "Heaven is good", God is just and despicable, so there will be no good result.

30 harm others will eventually harm yourself.

The result of harming others is not only to find trouble for yourself, but also to lift a rock and drop it on your own feet, harming others and yourself, and ultimately harming yourself.

3 1 when it's time to shoot, shoot.

We often say "endure a calm moment, take a step back and broaden the horizon", which is indeed the great realm of being a man. However, forbearance and concession here should be based on principles, not endless concessions. If you think you can only lose your fundamental interests, do it when you should.

Don't insist on what doesn't belong to you.

There is a song that sings well, "What is yours is yours. If it is not yours, let go." People will always encounter many favorite things in their life. If everyone wants to keep it for themselves, they will definitely find trouble for themselves. Therefore, having them is not necessarily a good thing, and having them is not necessarily happiness. We should know how to give up properly.

Don't lose your sense of justice for petty gain.

Forgetting righteousness is the biggest obstacle to being a man, and it will eventually make you lose more than you gain.

Mencius put it well: "Life is what I want; Righteousness is also what I want. You can't have both, and those who give up their lives are also righteous. " In the face of righteousness, life can be abandoned, let alone benefits? If the eyes are favorable, they will be blinded, and even the interests will be smoked. By that time, I really lost the watermelon and picked up the sesame seeds.

You can't be quick and quick.

As the saying goes, "You can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient." We must do things step by step, just want to "soar in Wan Li" at once, and we can only spin around in the same place.

Greed him a bucket of rice, but lost half a year's food.

You can't take advantage of the present. The trick of a liar is to let you taste a little sweetness now. When you are blinded by petty profits and let your guard down, they can act boldly. In the end, you will be greedy and cheap.

You should know how to give up when dealing with people.

In this world, there are always gains and losses, and it is impossible to be perfect. Therefore, the same is true for people. It is very mysterious to know that giving up will give you something.

There is an article by Mr. Jia Pingwa, a modern writer, which also talks about "wish"-people who can survive, or successful people, actually know two words: wish. I can't bear it.

Money is a foreign thing.

When you exchange a lot of time and experience for a lot of money, you will find that money will never be in the highest position in your life.

Speaking of which, how many people can not be confused by it through the ages? There are many sayings that "people die for money and birds die for food", but some people still lose their faith, shame and even their lives for money.

You can't get rich.

Under the premise of life, money can make life richer, more chic and more comfortable. However, if you lose your life for money, even if you have money, it is meaningless.

Be a man and know how to repay kindness.

Gratitude is actually an act of gratitude. "Crows have the intention of feeding back, and sheep have the grace of kneeling and nursing", and gratitude has always been concerned by the society. Because if a society is "all for one and all for one", it is undoubtedly an ideal society.

As the saying goes, "A drop of water pays off with a gushing spring", which is the moral principle left by our ancestors. The benefactor can ask for nothing in return, but he must know how to repay. The same is true in communication, whether it is two people or two companies. Only reciprocity can make the relationship last.

Respect everyone.

When dealing with people, don't be snobbish at any time and place, but know how to treat people with courtesy and respect everyone-even humble people should be given enough respect.

4 1 respect your opponent

Respecting your opponent is actually respecting yourself. Because in the eyes of opponents, we are also opponents. Society is a group, and people are cooperative.

42 be generous.

There is a couplet describing Maitreya with a big belly: "A big belly can accommodate things that are difficult in the world;" Laugh often and laugh at ridiculous people in the world. "High-profile fascinates everyone. Therefore, everyone should learn to face life with a smile and be more tolerant of people and things.

In this world, we should have lofty ideals and care and treat people and things in an informal way. Worrying about trivial matters not only increases your own worries, but also does not help. It's not really a matter of living or doing things. As long as you have a generous and frank heart, the road will get wider and wider. On the contrary, if you are tit for tat everywhere, you will get something, and the result will be nothing.

Don't be an old-fashioned person.

Standing still and standing still is the big weakness of being a man and doing things. Because of the lack of flexibility, the positive society is out of touch, and everything is formalized, which reduces efficiency and drags down the collective. This should be a taboo for anyone.

Because of different living habits and education levels, some deviations in understanding are understandable, but it is really sad and hopeless to stick to the rules and not know how to be flexible.

44. Be a man, be exquisite.

Exquisite, it sounds a bit derogatory, but interpersonal communication, being a man and exquisiteness can make your space broader and even make your goals easier to achieve.

When the snipe and the clam fight, the fisherman gains.

You could have enjoyed the benefits of * * *, and you fought for selfish desires, even turned against each other, but ended up empty-handed. This lesson is really profound, so you should seriously reflect on it.

Boil beans and burn beans, and beans cry in the kettle. This is the same root, so why fry each other? Cao Zhi's seven-step poem is the feeling of fighting between people. After being blackened by interests, he only cares about the present and ignores the behind.

You need to accumulate 46 contacts.

We should eat rice bit by bit and do things one by one. We can't expect to get the result and then think that the process is unnecessary.

The same is true of being a man. The accumulation of contacts was not built in a day, but among many contacts, some people agree that you are close and some people agree that you are far away. This requires you to give your true feelings and touch everyone with your heart, so that someone will regard you as a confidant and reach the highest level of "dying for a confidant".

Listen carefully and understand what others say.

Listening is a habit, a respect, a gesture, a kind, calm, modest and cautious gesture. With this gesture, we can be aboveboard and selfless, and listening is a kind of respect for people. Therefore, we should not only listen carefully, but also be good at listening to understand what others say. Otherwise, even if we eat grass according to the cow's head, it is difficult to understand the true meaning of others.

Don't gild the lily in life.

You should know how to stop doing things. If we have to gild the lily, we will not only fail to achieve the expected results, but also make ourselves self-defeating and make a fool of ourselves.

What has already been done, why should anyone continue to stop? Probably out of cleverness or greed. A wise man who gilds the lily is likely to be self-defeating; People who are insatiable often get into trouble.

Work hard and ask more questions

No one is born a know-it-all, and all knowledge and talents are learned later. Confucius said that "being sensitive and eager to learn, not ashamed to ask questions, is thinking of literature" is also the same reason.

Don't die for face.

There's an old saying in China called "saving face, suffering". Pride is a habit of China people, and it is also a big shortcoming. Because once you go too far, you will often fall into an embarrassing situation.

5 1 It is better to offend a gentleman than a villain.

China has divided people into two kinds since ancient times: gentlemen and villains. It can be said that the boundaries are clear, and there is no need to say more about love and hate. But many times, we can afford to offend a gentleman and not a villain. Because gentlemen talk about good reason, villains talk about fallacies; Gentlemen pursue harmony, while villains deliberately make trouble; A gentleman's words and deeds are consistent, and a villain is obedient; A gentleman severely blames himself, while a villain seeks to harm others; A gentleman is always in the light, and a villain is always in the dark.

5 1 What you say must be true.

For people who are good at manipulating persuasion skills, they are not constantly dealing with each other, but grasping the key and hitting the nail on the head. Grasping the key, the goal is clear, so that we can have a clear goal and succeed. If we can give full play to this, it will not be difficult to achieve great things.

When you get along with others, you should learn to restrain yourself.

It is great to be misunderstood when interacting with others, not only not to be annoyed, but also to restrain yourself and not to hurt others' face.

Everyone makes mistakes sometimes, and friends, colleagues and relatives will accidentally make you angry. If you don't know how to restrain yourself and just get angry, the relationship will only get more and more stiff, and if you can "wronged" yourself, things may be different. The so-called "endure a calm for a while" is the truth.

53 sincerely, the stone opens.

There is an old saying: "Come with sincerity, and the stone will open." "Zhuangzi Fisherman" records: "The true person is sincere, not refined but sincere, and cannot move." It can be seen that if you want to achieve your goal, you can't do it without showing great piety. This point can be described as incisively and vividly in the history of China.

Harmony is the most important thing in getting along with people.

People who do business probably know the saying "harmony is precious". Indeed, only by being kind to others can people patronize and earn more money. This is especially true when getting along with people. Confucius said, "Harmony is the most important gift." It means that harmony is the most important thing in the use of etiquette. Of course, Confucius also said that it is sometimes not feasible to do things in a way that harmony is the most important, regardless of major issues and minor issues. This is because for the sake of harmony and harmony, it is not feasible to be harmonious without etiquette, but on the whole, "harmony is precious" is correct.

55 master the "temperature"

Confucius said, "There are three ways to treat children: to be impatient without words; Talk about it without saying it is hidden; If you don't see the color, it's embarrassing. " It means that there are three kinds of mistakes in accompanying Mr.: First, speaking before your turn is called impatience; It's your turn to talk, but you don't. This is called Yin Yin. Talking without reading is called blindness.

In fact, Confucius is talking about timing, which is indeed a problem that we should pay attention to. The first kind is impatient, pushy, and taboo to talk before others finish. The second is Yin Yin, which seems to give people a deep feeling of being shrewd. Not only do they often lose friends, but they are also more likely to miss opportunities. The third is that you don't have long eyes, you don't look at people's reactions when you speak, you only talk about yourself, and you don't know if you have offended anyone. Therefore, when talking and doing things, we must grasp the "temperature" and make progress and retreat.

Don't be greedy.

When you get along with others, you should be rewarded with good deeds, and you should not be insatiable, otherwise you will only "let yourself suffer" in the end. As the saying goes, "If the human heart is insufficient, the snake will swallow the elephant, and the world will eventually catch the cicada."

You can't do whatever you want.

When dealing with people, you should not do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, and exercise restraint. Otherwise, once you make a serious mistake, you will not only "get nothing, but also regret it for life."

Although "to err is human, to err is human", it is better to be cautious in everything.

You can't make any more mistakes.

No matter how clever a person is, he may make mistakes, and it is inevitable to make mistakes when interacting with others. As long as you know your mistakes, you will correct them, and then make mistakes, that is, "it is great to be a good person."

Confucius said, "Pass without changing." It doesn't matter if a person makes a mistake, big or small, as long as he can correct it. If you don't correct your mistakes, that's the real big mistake.

Don't give up halfway

It takes time to cultivate the feelings between people, so being a good person requires perseverance and perseverance. Otherwise, everything you do all your life will fall by the wayside, and eventually you will accomplish nothing.

As the Book of Songs says, "Decadence has no beginning, but freshness has an end." In other words, many people can do things well, but few people have a good end. Many people know the famous saying "the iron pestle is ground into a needle". Although some people don't agree, I think there may be other gains from revisiting it.

You cannot become a man overnight.

People want to do things quickly, but many things are not so easy and must be done step by step through a long process. The same is true for emotional management. It can't be done overnight. Be patient and don't hold the idea of doing it overnight.

As Confucius said, "Haste makes waste. Haste makes waste, but seeing small profits can't be a big deal. " Hope can be achieved overnight, but it can't achieve the goal.

6 1 begging for a man.

In life, we always ask others for help, but we must carefully choose the object of help. A man of good character will really help us. If you choose a scumbag, it will definitely be harmful.

Better to rely on yourself than to go to others for help.

"Asking for help" is inevitable and can be said to be a shortcut to success. However, we can't pin all our hopes on asking for help, or it will be too late to regret it one day.

What should I do if I say "Don't cry every day"? At this time, you can only rely on yourself. As the old saying goes, "It is better to ask yourself than to ask others."

To be a man, we should judge the situation.

There are certain rules for how to do many things, and only by following the principles can things be done well. Otherwise, you don't know how to judge the situation, just take it for granted, even if you pay more, it won't help.

As the saying goes; "Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang." If you want to live comfortably in Fiona Fang, you must have rules for being a man and doing things. Without this condition, everything is a castle in the air.

People should have a human touch when interacting with others.

In life, there are many contradictory things, and we often analyze the pros and cons, so as to adhere to the favorable practices. However, the temptation and pressure from outside always exist. In any case, we must resist external pressure and temptation and stand firm. We must be firm in our thinking and stand firm, and the most important thing is to resist temptation.

One should have one's own thoughts.

Life is very complicated, and people are always surrounded by various opinions, truths and fantasies. In this case, don't be credulous and blindly follow. You should use your own brain to analyze and find out the method that suits you. No matter what you do, only when you have your own ideas can you know how to do it and do it well.

Take a step back when dealing with people.

Although we advocate practical work and serious work, sometimes we can do things better if we are a little confused and not too serious.

The ancients cloud; "Bear calm for a while and take a step back." In other words, people should be "patient and know how to give in."

Be patient.

People want to see the effect as soon as possible and hope that success will come faster. Some people are eager for quick success and instant benefit, and try their best to find shortcuts in order to achieve their goals. Obtained immediate benefits, but it is not conducive to long-term development.

It is often said that "haste makes waste", and quick success will not lead to any good results. No matter what you do, you must curb your impetuous mentality and let yourself take one step at a time. Only in this way can you lay a good foundation and make things more successful.

68 stealing chickens and not eating rice

Some people act improperly for their own interests, and as a result, they not only can't get what they want, but also suffer. Therefore, people should never do unjust things.

As the saying goes, "If you don't know, you have to do it yourself."

Don't chop and change.

In order to deceive the world, some people should always change their names and surnames. In fact, the essence of things has not changed, but many people have been fooled. In life, we should be alert to this new thing so as not to be deceived.

The original meaning of the word "chop and change" is to change the form, only the phenomenon, but the essence remains unchanged. However, later generations confused the word "chop and change" with "chop and change", which was later misinformed, and "chop and change" became capricious, but its original meaning is still used here.

70. Don't give up everything in life.

There is often a difference between the importance of things and the outcome of things, but some people do things the other way around, which will make jokes, screw things up and even lead to serious consequences.

7 1 Be a self-aware person.

The world is dominated by one person. If people want to live well in this world, they must first know themselves, know themselves and have self-knowledge. So that you won't be cheated or do anything wrong.

Be a man, talk less and do more.

It is good to have rich theoretical knowledge, but we must pay attention to practice. If you just talk and have no ability to do things, you can't do anything.

Can't be wishful thinking.

Many times, the success of doing one thing is not the unilateral efforts of one person, but the support of relevant personnel. If you do it with wishful thinking regardless of the interests and ideas of others, it is difficult to have any good results.

There must be a way to do things.

To be a man and do things, we should not follow our inclinations, but adopt correct and appropriate methods, so as to do things well.

Don't spend your energy on unnecessary things.

Although it is said that all roads lead to Rome, there is always one that is the nearest. The same is true of doing things. If there is the most direct and simple way, don't waste energy. A person's energy is limited, so he should use it in his infinite work and life. How can you just waste it?

Short pain is better than long pain.

Many times, people will walk into a dilemma, and they will suffer from loss and loss. However, between short-term pain and long-term pain, people should understand that long-term pain is better than short-term pain.

We said in the Origin that "chaos is right", in fact, that is to say, one should know how to give up in time and not insist and suffer for a long time, so as to be conducive to future success.

Don't miss the chance to get it.

There are many fleeting moments in life. Some opportunities are very important to us. If we catch them, they may bring great changes to our lives. It will affect our lives.

As the saying goes, "It's now or never."

When you meet people, you must know them.

We always have to deal with all kinds of people. Only by seeing others' talents, personalities and conduct clearly can we communicate and cooperate with others better and not make things worse.

The ancients said, "It is difficult to draw a tiger's skin and a bone, but a man knows his face and doesn't know his heart." In the process of interacting with people, knowing people means knowing each other, otherwise you will be hurt.

Getting along with people is not without distinction.

Distinguishing right from wrong is one of our necessary abilities, otherwise we may misunderstand others, bring trouble to ourselves and others and make things worse.

Don't make excuses if you agree.

Be honest, make promises to others, and keep them no matter what happens. If you make excuses like this, you will lose confidence in others.