What about the old traditional ideas of boyfriends and parents?

I wonder if he is his parents' own son. Your mother should be well aware of her son's situation. Knowing that my son can't live a good life in Beijing may be like you said, it takes a lot of pressure. Why must his son go there? He's not married yet. Whose parents don't want their children to have a stable life? For the sake of so-called face, why not let his son be with a big woman? I really can't figure it out. Another point may be that their parents think highly of his son and think that Beijing is easy to get along with and his son will live well in Beijing. You must have underestimated his son, so from this we can see that his family is quite masculine. Oh, I can't help it. Who made you like someone else's son? So you have to endure the pain and listen to the opinions of his family. It feels like your boyfriend has no backbone. You must have listened to his family. Good luck.