How to come out to your parents

Before you decide to come out to your parents, you must know whether your parents accept or reject gay people, which determines what strategies and methods you should choose.

Don't come out before you determine your parents' attitude towards homosexuality. Otherwise, it will be counterproductive, which will not only hinder your relationship with your boyfriend, but also bring irreversible harm to your relationship with your parents and even the whole family.

When you plan to come out to your parents, you should first try to test your parents' attitude towards homosexual feelings in different ways. Or it can be said that when you test your parents' attitude towards homosexual feelings, you can choose different strategies and ways to come out according to your parents' attitude and choose your own coming out plan.

How to test parents' attitude towards homosexual feelings?

1, observe parents' attitudes and comments on gay news.

2. Observe parents' attitudes and comments on artists with homosexual tendencies.

3. Observe parents' attitudes and comments on homosexual plots in TV dramas.

Through the observation of the above three aspects, whether it is that parents can acquiesce in gay feelings, or are unwilling to comment on gay feelings, or satirize gay feelings, you should not rashly come out directly to your parents.

Don't expect to find that parents are willing to accept or even encourage homosexual feelings through daily tests. Such parents are not to be found in China. When watching TV, my parents suddenly applauded. "These handsome guys are really talented. Together, they are really a model of love. This is true love beyond gender. " This can only happen in your dreams.

Parents can acquiesce in homosexual feelings, which is the best choice that everyone can face.

Even if you meet such parents, you still need to make certain strategic preparations to get out.