What are the five kinds of crooked winds and evil spirits?

Five kinds of crookedness:

1, living is not filial piety, death screaming

"Living is not filial piety, death screaming" is actually said to be a thick funeral. That is, when the old man is alive, the children and grandchildren did not do a good job of filial piety, but also did not support them, and so the old man died, but to give the old man a big funeral.

Unbeknownst to them, the purpose of such funerals is to amass wealth and show off their financial strength; it is also to let others see their "fake filial piety".

This phenomenon is particularly prominent in many areas, in their position there is often such a mind, that is, spend money to buy peace of mind. The old man was alive and cared nothing about, died but cried to the sky and darkness, just like a kind of posing "filial piety", seriously affecting people's values.

Of course, some people are forced to do so. They want to support their parents well, but they are defeated by the reality. Because the young people have to go out to work to support the family, often do not go home, can not take care of elderly parents, can only choose to go home every year to stuff some money to filial piety, which has resulted in the status quo of the rural "thin support".

However, I still want to tell you that a glass of water in front of the bed is better than tons of ash on the grave.

2, funeral happy

Funeral happy

Funeral happy

It is also known as "happy funeral". Originally nothing, because the happy funeral is conditional, is the death of the elderly belong to the "full blessing, full life, full end", no disease and no disaster, the family children and grandchildren to take good care of the old man and the natural old age. So there's no need to be sad, and it's only reasonable to have a happy funeral.

But, some people in the village is different, their own home before the death of the elderly, did not play the responsibility of filial piety, but instead to see the neighbors on stage to sing a big funeral, they also want to funeral happy to do. Otherwise, they feel that they will be said to be unfilial. Even if you don't have the money, you still have to make a big deal, so that your loved ones are not happy.

In addition to this, there are many people in the village at the time of the funeral, to choose some of the program is not rigorous, more vulgar, especially the funeral of those exposed thighs of the dance, so that the original a serious funeral to become a laugh, to the deceased elderly is also extremely disrespectful.

The purpose of these people is mostly to attract guests to pay more money through the grandeur of the scene, which can also be said to be a kind of distorted values, showing off and enrichment-oriented. This is contrary to our country's fine tradition of thrift and frugality.

This phenomenon is also manifested in festivals, parties, invite people to eat in order to face more food, and finally found that the point of a large table, did not eat much, packing also in the way of face, can only choose to waste.

4, human comparison

Climbing, we all know is the blind pursuit of impractical behavior, not in accordance with their own actual situation, and others to compare. I don't know, this is a kind of performance of losing a wife and a soldier, do not know how many pounds of their own, and ultimately engage in their own family rupture.

While the humane comparison is more refers to the rural need of the humane situation is numerous, the name of the gift is also numerous, and the amount is too high, many cases are some families in order to enrich and intentionally organized "nothing wine", let the villagers come to send gifts, make the villagers debt is too large.

5, high-priced bride price

High-price bride price, this should be the rural areas are more headaches. As many rural men and women, women are more selective, unknowingly produced a game, the bride price is also climbing.

With the development of the times, the house, the car has also become a necessary condition for marriage, all the costs are calculated, the expenditure is ridiculously large, which makes it difficult for many rural families to afford. So much so that there is a phenomenon that the age of marriage is constantly lengthening.

Some areas of the bride price can be brought back, so that the children can be considered, but there are some areas, the bride price is splashed out of the water, there is no return, this phenomenon is very easy to sow the seeds of the two families do not get along, resulting in extreme instability of marriage, divorce rate increased, not conducive to social harmony.