Characteristics of filial piety to parents in China traditional culture

There are four levels of filial piety to parents: body, mind, will and wisdom.

The first layer of filial piety is to let parents eat well, wear warm clothes, travel safely and live comfortably, which is the most basic filial piety;

The second layer of filial piety is the words and deeds of children, so parents should be reassured, not worried, and as proud as possible;

The third level of filial piety is to do everything possible to fulfill parents' wishes and long-cherished wishes for the rest of their lives, even if it is flying, climbing the Great Wall and visiting old friends;

The fourth filial piety to parents' wisdom is to help parents' wisdom patiently, such as teaching parents to use smart phones, facilitating the communication between parents and children, and perceiving and experiencing the wonderful world outside. Let parents keep pace with the times.

The four levels of filial piety to parents, from low to high, from shallow to deep, are progressive in turn, forming a complete filial piety.

For ordinary people, most of the first and second floors are well done, but the third floor is well done and the fourth floor is well done.

Filial piety is not only the responsibility and obligation that children must perform to their parents, but also the behavior advocated by China traditional culture, and no one is an exception.

If we compare our life to a tree, then parents, grandparents, great-grandparents and our ancestors are the roots, we are the tree, and our descendants are the branches and leaves.

Only by rooting trees in fertile soil and carefully watering them can they grow tall and strong and flourish.

Parents and grandparents are the foundation of our life, and the life information in our bodies is handed down by parents and grandparents, who live in our blood. Parents and grandparents created our life, which is the foundation of our life.

Many people are miserable and unhappy because they have broken their roots with their parents and grandparents.

What does it mean to break the "root" with your parents and grandparents?

It means that when we are growing up, we feel that the actions of our parents, grandparents and other elders and relatives are against our wishes, which makes us feel hurt inside, and produces negative emotions such as "alienation, exclusion, opposition, confrontation, non-acceptance, disapproval, contempt, shame, fear, resentment, dissatisfaction, escape, etc." to our parents and grandparents. This is called "cutting off the roots".

Breaking the "root" with parents and grandparents is very harmful, mainly as follows:

Disrespect for parents, quarreling with parents, contradictions, resentment, seeking approval, caring, etc.

Rebellion, weariness of learning, autism, puppy love, internet addiction, inferiority, conceit, pride and so on;

Bad marriage, resentment, adultery, cheating, finding a mistress, abortion, murder, etc.

There are all kinds of diseases in the body, the most serious of which is cancer.

Therefore, rooting is very harmful to people's health, career, family and even the whole life, and must be dealt with.

Want to get a happy family and reverse the fate of life, the root lies in the roots of our parents and ancestors.

Respecting parents and ancestors means respecting yourself, and worshipping ancestors means nourishing life.

Sacrificing one's ancestors is to seek roots and have a fundamental dialogue with one's own life. Regular ancestor worship and root cultivation can make us know ourselves more clearly, and also bring us more strength and happiness in life.

Take root. Rooting is to restore contact with parents and ancestors. "Rooting" will make you feel that the gap between your parents and grandparents has been eliminated, your heart has been reached, your heart has warmed up, your heart has become clear, you feel that your life has a dependence, and you have a backer, and you will become more confident and stronger. You will think that what parents do is for their own good.

Raise roots. The first thing to do is filial piety. Contact with your parents is not permanent, you have to take good care of your roots.

How to raise roots? Just one sentence: let parents and ancestors be happy!

How to make ancestors happy? Only filial piety!

First of all, we must understand the truth of "Sansheng". From the family point of view, the elderly are "fate", the children are "fate" and the husband and wife are "fate".

But most of us don't pay enough attention to the fate of "old people" and spend too much energy on the fate of "children". The result was really bad. Old people are not well supported, children are rebellious and so on. The whole family is a mess!

This is forgetting that the old man is the root of the family and the child is the mosaic fruit, forgetting to raise and protect the root, not giving nutrition to the root, and always watering and fertilizing the mosaic fruit, which not only has a bad effect, but also burns the mosaic fruit.

Therefore, filial piety is not just doing homework once and introspection several times, but doing filial piety to the elderly in daily life!

Filial piety, solving life problems such as food, clothing, housing and transportation for the elderly.

Filial piety to parents, understanding the mind of the elderly, not adding worries to the elderly, helping the elderly to relieve worries.

Filial piety, respect and love for the elderly, and let the elderly live and work in peace and contentment.

If parents are alive, they should always go home to accompany their parents, call them, encourage them to fulfill their parents' wishes, identify with their parents, amuse them and help the elderly learn traditional culture.

Root protection. There are two ways to protect roots: inheriting the family style of Zude; Never do anything detrimental to Zude.

Filial piety, not only to support the elderly, it also includes many aspects, from the opposite side:

Bad children are filial;

Divorce between husband and wife is filial piety;

Brother discord is filial piety;

It is unfilial to be unfaithful at work.

Therefore, people must complete the relationship between ethics and morality in order to truly be filial. If parents have passed away, you can tell your children more about the kindness of your elders and carry forward the virtues of your ancestors.

The four basic methods of filial piety to parents should be done often and better!

Benefits of finding parents: "Kindness is a good thing, and the more people know, the more they think";

Look at the strengths of parents: cultivate our respect, and people without respect will lose their blessings;

Know the sufferings of parents: when parents lose their temper, it should be their sufferings, and cultivate our compassion. They can only help, not complain. If we have energy, we will also ignite the energy of our parents.

Kindness and kindness: We should keep our parents' kindness and care in mind.