What's the point of going back to the door?

1, send double but not single.

The ancients said "yes-man", and the married girl went back with a double gift, and the singular number was rejected by her family. At the same time, the bride's family can't accept these gifts, and usually let the woman take back half of them, which is also a continuation of ancient customs.

Step 2 worship ancestors

Because I sacrificed my ancestors in advance, I should be back in three days. Therefore, after the bride gets married, she must go back to her family with the groom within three days and say goodbye again. After the bride and groom come home, they usually worship their ancestors, that is, the husband and wife go home hand in hand, and going home means the ceremony of closing their feet. When the bride is unmarried, she always comes home sooner or later. Now that I'm married and married, it's only a matter of time before I talk about Japan, which means taking a step back.

3. Recognize relatives

In addition, returning to the door is also a process of recognizing relatives. As the final outcome of the wedding, there is still a layer of hope: the bride's parents will see a harmonious family and give them a chance to wish the bride and groom harmony again. In fact, in ancient times, men and women had never met before they married, so it was also a process of mutual recognition by relatives.

However, "Huimen" in different regions have different precautions. For example, the groom should bring back gifts to his father-in-law to show his respect for his father-in-law; Some places even require to go back to my husband's house before sunset on the day of going home, and some places require a gift banquet when they go home.