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Some places now there are girls can not be on the table to eat the custom, how do you think this bad habits?

Such a thing I have also experienced, I remember in their own small time, if the family to the family guests, then as a girl, the old man will not let themselves on the table to eat. Either in a corner to give themselves a little bit of feast, or wait for the guests all eat, and then go to eat the rest of their meals. Yet there are places now where this custom still exists, and it feels really foolish.

First of all, the idea is foolish.

The custom of not letting girls eat at the table still exists in many places, which is a manifestation of ignorance. Nowadays, society is very enlightened, if there still exists the custom of not allowing girls to eat at the table, it is too ignorant. Of course these people are influenced by traditional feudal thinking. So inside their own brains, there are still such thoughts ingrained in them now. Society is so enlightened, we should not have this kind of thinking in our own minds, this kind of thinking is a kind of backward traditional thinking, is long ago not adapted to this era of a kind of thinking.

Secondly, sexism.

This traditional thinking is manifested in a kind of discrimination against girls, sexism is y rooted in the minds of many people. They feel that girls just can't eat at the table, and they feel that girls can step in for many things. This deep-rooted sexism will make girls feel inferior and have no self-confidence. This is a kind of destruction for the girls, the destruction of the mind.

So now there are still some places where girls can't eat at the table, it's just stupid. Now that society is so enlightened, we should change this kind of thinking, because men and women are equal and there is no one higher than the other. So we also need to treat girls as an equal to boys, we need to make them realize that they and boys can stand on the same level, so as not to affect the growth and inner feelings of girls. This will give girls self-esteem and self-confidence, so that girls do not leave a psychological shadow.