There are many "leftover women" in Beijing. Why can't they get married?

It's not that leftover women can't get married, but that the conditions for girls to choose a spouse have improved in recent years!

The experience of an old couple shows that men and women used to combine into a family, and both sides needed to share joys and sorrows. This is the expression of China traditional culture!

Now, under the influence of some bad customs, some girls' mate selection goals are: boys must listen to her! The man must have a house, a car and money! According to my observation at the blind date meeting between Tiantan Park and Zhongshan Park a few years ago, careful analysis shows that if a boy has these conditions at home, it means that he grew up in a honey pot and is bound to be lazy and mean to his wife. In this case, girls in Beijing are reluctant to choose him! Boys from other places can't wait to get married in Beijing, but without a house, girls in Beijing are even more reluctant! Moreover, some girls who come from other places to work in Beijing have high incomes and look down on boys from state-owned enterprises in Beijing. There are also many older girls! As far as I know, some foreign girls with higher incomes are in their forties! Some help her choose a spouse, but the conditions for choosing a spouse are still not healthy! However, there are many older men left in Beijing! Most of these leftover men are over forty or fifty years old! Because they are employees of state-owned enterprises, their income is not high, and older women don't choose!

According to the phenomenon I understand, it is difficult for leftover women (including girls who come to work in Beijing from other places) to find suitable candidates. The key is: money and benefits!

When we were young, the criteria for choosing a spouse were: attaching importance to feelings and righteousness, and attaching more importance to character! As for money or house, it is not the main problem! Both sides have become a family, and they all do their best for this family: * * share the financial difficulties and * * * share the housework! I remember one of my comrades worked as a worker in a small enterprise after leaving the army, but he married a daughter in Gao Qian! But I am at the border thousands of miles away, and my teenage female classmate is married! After more than ten years of separation, I took my child to the age of eight before she was transferred to Beijing! In our time, we all attached importance to love and righteousness! Such a family can stand the test of a series of difficulties and contradictions after marriage!

Young couples nowadays divorce a lot even if they have children! Poor babies, this may be another reason why some leftover women are afraid to get married.

To solve the problem of leftover women and men, we must have a good orientation in people's quality and life values! Guide young people to learn to give! Learn to be tolerant! Society: One day couples are grateful for a hundred days, traditional culture!