What are your parents' outdated traditional ideas?

I have been a rural child since I was young, my parents are honest farmers, because they are farmers, and did not learn much culture, so their thinking has been stuck in that stage of their childhood. As a modern society of young people, but also because often go out to work, eyes to see more of the state of mind will become and parents are not the same, so our concepts will be different, the way to look at things is also very different. Therefore, sometimes we will quarrel, who is not convinced, will only put things into a deadlock, it is difficult to end!

For example, young people nowadays talk about free love and long live freedom. There is no doubt that only two people first fall in love will slowly have feelings, otherwise later married which have **** the same language to get along. But my parents do not think so, because they have lived in a small village for most of their lives, the ideology has been stuck in their era, so, also do not allow their children to fall in love outside.

The prerequisite for the mode of becoming a couple in our hometown is to be introduced by a matchmaker, matchmaking in the hometown, so that the man and the woman can meet each other, and only after the parents nodded their heads in agreement can they go out. And the man's family can not be too far away from the woman's family, preferably a county. As long as the male family conditions are similar, the parents will agree to the two people engaged. If dissatisfied with the opinion of the matchmaking object, then they will continue to matchmaking, and then meet until there is a suitable until.

Because of this old-fashioned thinking of my parents, coupled with the seriousness of the traditional concepts, has caused a lot of pressure on my private life, so that I can't even have a good relationship, and I'm looking for someone with the same interests. Later, I still listened to my parents, home to find a boyfriend, on the day set by the parents to get married, and live a quiet life.