Filial piety parents 28 ways to filial piety method

Honoring your parents is not only a traditional Chinese virtue, but also a natural thing. What are the ways to honor your parents? The following is the 28 ways to filial piety parents information, welcome to read.

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Is filial piety really difficult? The following 28 things are effective ways to return parents, even if you have nothing, as long as you can do three of the five sentences, you can earn the parents to smile and laugh.

1, remember your parents' birthdays, birthday gifts on the day of the birthday, or personally say I love you, I miss you.

2, often home to see, if you can not do, then call more than two times a week!

3, every year or every two years to take parents to do a physical examination.

4, often take pictures of your parents, especially when you bring your girlfriend or have a baby.

5, seriously reply to your parents' text messages, don't show annoyance because of their nagging.

6. Take your parents on a trip.

7, help single parents find an old partner.

8, often talk to your parents about your work, new friends.

9, the food should be stewed hot, soft, middle-aged and elderly people with weak spleen and stomach, not easy to digest.

10, cold and wet provinces, to parents often have warm baby, warm shoes, cashmere pants and other warm supplies.

11, learn some of the ways of health, teach parents. Home often prepared commonly used proprietary Chinese medicine, such as Banlangen, Jin Gui tonic kidney pill and so on. Another hot water bag, Gua Sha board, fire cupping, massage chairs, foot baths and other health care products.

12, often bring their loved ones home, if not, men and women of the right age to give their parents a forward planning.

13, once a year to help parents wash their feet, or whack a back, comb a head, cut a nail, recall what parents once did for us.

14, know what your parents like to eat, hands to them to do a dish or two.

15, to solve the most basic problems of parents' food, clothing, housing and transportation, conditions allow, to give parents enough pocket money, every year to help parents choose a set of new clothes, so that they wear comfortable and decent.

16, ready to recorders or DV, listening to their parents' past stories, record today's smile, to stay a little warm memories.

17, parents who are sick, we must know that affection first, work things second, during the illness, everything must be personally, attentively care, do not give birth to the heart of disgust. Disease management, for children, all to be put in mind.

18, important holidays at their side, important decisions to let them know.

19, middle-aged and elderly people are more petty, listen to their complaints, unraveling the knot in the heart of parents.

20, do not point fingers at your parents, do not give your parents face, do not contradict your parents, do not insult your parents.

21, such as marriage, husband and wife respect each other as guests, even if the fight, but also have to avoid parents, the old man is most jealous of family discord.

22, if there is a marriage, the other spouse must be tolerant of the elderly, respect and genuine love, mutual respect between husband and wife, do not let the elderly worry, do not let the elderly angry, do not hurt the elderly heart.

23, to buy suitable insurance for parents.

24, to help parents to complete the young unfinished dream, even if it is to sit on an airplane, see the sea, climb the Great Wall such ideas.

25, and parents and walk together, chat, exercise.

26, take your parents to see a movie, sing a karaoke, take them to experience the new era of high technology.

27, unconditional support for parents' hobbies, respect for parents' choices and decisions.

28, love all the people. In the spirit of ? The spirit of the old and the old, the young and the young and the young? The spirit of the expansion to the community at large, this is a great filial piety.

The methods of filial piety

First, listen to what is said and be taught, and do not contradict

Children should be open-minded to their parents' teachings, and follow their teachings. They should also take all the advice and notices of their parents seriously, keep them in mind at all times, not rebel against them, not be rebellious, discuss everything with them, and respect them.

Second, clothing, food, shelter and transportation should be complete

Parents' clothing, food, house, accommodation, transportation should be complete, do not let parents starve, freezing, weather, as children should always care for their parents' basic requirements, conditions of existence, do not let them worry about the sad.

Third, daily life, when to take care of

Parents daily life, every little thing when to be careful and thorough, everything should be done, not sloppy, so that parents are free from worry, no worries, peace and comfort in old age, children should be aware of the mother's will, always waiting for the side, as a loyal and filial piety.

Fourth, material care, spiritual care, indispensable

Material satisfaction of parents is important, but spiritual care, care is far beyond all this, parents to the old age, the material needs of the reverse is secondary, the heart inevitably need to be children's condolences care, so the two roads have their importance.

Fifth, out of the home, to explain

Children out of the house will inevitably make the parents worried about fear, so when something out of the house, should be polite to inform the parents, so that they know your whereabouts, where they are, so that they do not let their children worry about the sad.

Sixth, the character of both, parents do not worry

Children at home, filial piety, but also out of the personal integrity must be self-cultivation, in the treatment of people must always improve their own, gentle and courteous, loyal and righteous people, to be a man of the sky, so that the parents to be proud of.

Seven, brothers love each other, parents happy

Brothers and sisters should love each other, something to help each other help, not jealous, not complain, always to the grace of the hand and foot and treat each other, do not fight, not quarrel, parents happy happy, a family also happy.

Eighth, follow the orders of the work, there is a measure of negotiation

Parents' orders should be accepted in warm colors, all things can be discussed with parents, no orders can not be self-authorization, all things should be sympathetic to the intentions of parents, follow the parents of the order, all things to the parents first, love and care for them.

Nine, has been set up to establish people, love of country, love of people

Children should be in due course to their own children to teach filial piety, their own to achieve, and then further extended to the community, to be a benchmark for others, and love of their own country, for the country's loyalty to the world's living beings to pay, and to achieve the ideal of the world's one family, the world's peace.

Since parents' kindness is so profound, what should we do to be filial? Buddhism believes that there are different levels of filial piety: general people on the parents of financial, material support, just a small filial piety; success and fame, the glory of the ancestors, so that the parents glory and pleasure, is the middle of the filial piety; to guide the parents tend to the right faith, away from the troubles of the upside down, and never break the suffering of the three ways (1), is the great filial piety; see all beings in the three worlds are my father and mother, and to do everything in our power, so that it can be released from the cycle of life and death, from the suffering of the joy, is the most supreme filial piety.

(1) Filial piety must be long-term, not momentary: our parents dedicate their lives to us, and even if we are not able to be happy on our knees, we should provide for them for a long time, so that there is no lack of filial piety.

(2) filial piety must be substantial, not superficial, about five things: one is food, two is clothing, three is living, four is disease, five is pleasing relatives. Filial piety must address the actual needs of parents, not only in food, clothing, housing and transportation without worrying about the lack of, in old age, sickness and death have to rely on, but also to give their parents the spirit of peace and joy, psychological comfort.

The first thing you need to do is to be happy with your parents. The first thing you need to do is to make your parents happy, so that you can improve their health. You should never look sad in front of your parents, and you should never complain. Regardless of our circumstances, we should always restrain our feelings and focus on pleasing our parents. In? What our parents love, we love; what our parents honor, we honor. The first step is to make sure that you have a good understanding of how to use the Buddha's teachings and how to use the Buddha's teachings in your life.

Therefore, Master Yinguang taught us: ? You have taken a wife, you should always be pleased with the heart of the relatives as a thought. Husband and wife respect each other, not because of small differences, or lead to marital disharmony, in order to hurt the parents' heart. Zhongyong cloud: wife good together, such as drums and qin. Brothers are both close and close, and joyful and delayed. It is desirable to have a family, happy wife and offspring. Zi said: parents are smooth. It is said that if husband and wife and brothers are in harmony, then the parents will be happy in their hearts. I am now a son, and soon I will be a father. If you don't please your parents by yourself, you will have disobedient and unfilial sons and daughters. It is like the water in front of the eaves of a tiled house, which comes in dribs and drabs. I am too old to teach you. If you are willing to work hard to fulfill your son's duties, you will be able to enter the realm of the sages. If you are willing to work hard to fulfill your son's path, then you can enter the realm of sages. (《(续)复周法利書二》)

就是家常的菜蔬，只要咸淡得宜，生熟中节，不敢潦草，然后敬奉，略有好食，先进父母;至于自己，粗粝俱不计理。 To serve the parents happy, is to do their best. About the old man, the spleen and stomach natural thin, diet is difficult to digest, into the food, must be stewed hot, soft, fragrant, only beneficial. All raw, cold, sticky, solid and difficult to melt things can not be eaten with. Food should not be too full. This dietary regimen, for the children, all should be put in mind!

Clothes, as long as the warm and cold are appropriate, served to parents happy, is to do their best. About the old man, the gas and blood naturally weak, the body is inevitably intolerant of heat and cold, before the cold is afraid of cold, before the heat is afraid of heat. The cotton in winter clothes should be replaced with new ones and old ones every year. A thin cotton jacket should be made in two pieces, gradually added in the fall and winter, and gradually subtracted in the warm spring. Frosty cold months, if there is a warm light fur, is certainly the best, such as can not, is the cloth quilt cloth, as long as the warmth. As for the evening, it is advisable to put a hot water bag inside the quilt. Again, such as summer months, summer clothes, to be cool; where there is sweat, change frequently. This clothing conditioning, for the children, all should be put in mind.

Disease, for the children, we must pay attention to regulate careful support, please famous doctors and experts in medicine. In the illness of the decoction of the soup, into the food, do not give birth to a slack heart. Just think of you at a young age, there is a disease, for parents, I do not know how much for you to adjust, you can not do today's reason! If your parents are sick, and if your bedding is stained, you should wash and change it diligently, and never give birth to a heart of dislike. If you think that you are in your bosom, and you have defecated and dunged, and your parents have cleansed you so much, how much more can you dislike it today! The first thing I want to do is to make sure that my parents are comfortable and that they are happy, and that they are doing their best. This is the reason why the children have to be careful about the way they live and work.

(3) filial piety must be able to comprehensive, not partial: filial piety should start with their own loved ones, and then in the spirit of "care for the elderly as well as the elderly, the young as well as the young? The spirit of this is to extend it to the general public, and even to the infinite number of living beings, so that they can be freed from the cycle of birth and death, and be free from suffering and be happy.

In the Infinite Life Sutra, His Holiness (2) earnestly tells us: ? In this world, one is born alone, one dies alone, one goes alone, and when one travels to the place of interesting suffering and happiness, one's body takes care of itself, and there is no substitute for it? He also said: ? In the fair underworld, the parting is long; the paths are different, and the meeting is indefinite? It is also said: "The father weeps for his son, and the son weeps for his son. The father weeps for the son, the son for the father, the brother and the wife weep for each other, and they are upside down and upside down. All these are impermanent and fundamental; they are all passing away, and cannot be preserved forever. It is also said:? When a father, son, brother, or husband and wife in a family die, they cry for each other. They love each other and are bound together by their thoughts. Their hearts ache for each other. They spend days and years without any relief. His Holiness also said in the Sangha Sutra: "A parent's home is like the home of his or her parents. My parents' home is like a guest. When the life of a predestined person is over, he or she abandons the old and accepts the new. Each one pursues his own actions, which are as boundless as a wheel. The world is like a wheel. Therefore, the compassionate World Honored One instructs us to recite the Buddha's name, so that we can reach the Eternal Bliss World and resolve the shortcomings of this life. We should advise our parents to recite the Buddha's name and take them from the sea of suffering to the Pure Land, which is the real and complete repayment of kindness!

We just have to remember: to know our parents' kindness, we only have to look at how we raise our children; to ask our children to be filial, we must first be filial to our parents.

What do we use to honor our parents

Today's society is busy, but in the busy we always think about how to honor their parents. Due to the different social division of labor or the special nature of the work, can not as desired every day to wait by the side of the parents, how to honor their parents is an important issue in front of the young people. May as well through the following aspects to fulfill our long-cherished wish, so that your parents from now on no longer lonely, lonely, sad!

Regular phone calls: This is especially applicable to young people who work and study abroad.

Due to their different situations, they can not come home to visit their parents and friends and relatives, timely and regular phone calls and parents to chat, know what they are thinking, what they need, what they are worried about, and what makes them unhappy things. Through chatting to get effective information, targeted comfort. Entering the old age stage of parents due to the thin family, the body overdraft big, from time to time will suffer from illness. However, the elderly always report that they are safe and sound in order not to let their children worry. Some even just had an operation, the children are unaware of the situation, especially in foreign study or work and children working in large enterprises, and difficult to take leave of absence from the unit is more common. Parents are afraid that their children are distracted, can only suffer the pain, with the old mood through the day and night. Imagine how lonely we would be if we were old that day? The love and care that parents give their children is unlimited, genuine and selfless. But as a child to their parents but no more limited, parents in whatever difficult circumstances will put the child first, save to the children to eat, let the children wear, in order to children's happiness to spare no effort to fight. They sacrificed a number of their own a number of, but also in order to create greater happiness for the child, but the child is sometimes for their own momentary happiness? Concealment of the father and mother? Imagine how many young people in the early stages of love or even cohabitation will be truthful to report parents? What's more, some even run away from home for their own love, leaving their parents who hold them day and night, these really should not appear. Mom and dad to bring us up really hard, to the point that now the elderly have a good mood, good health, learn to make a regular phone call, so that parents have a mind to rely on, there is an opportunity to talk about the heart, no longer let the elderly in the loneliness and loneliness in the rest of their lives. In my treatment of patients with a retired diplomat, the old couple got lumbar disc herniation can not take care of themselves, meals have to have the unit's old colleagues to help send, is not willing to tell the son in the United States, said he was afraid that the child delayed his studies, affecting the work. Their own meals have become a problem, but also consider the children, it is said that children can prevent old age, there is such a situation a blame the parents, two blame the children. One should not let the parents can not let their children know the physical discomfort, do not give children the opportunity to care and filial piety, do not let the children to do their due diligence; two should not be too careless as a child, we must learn to care for the parents' body. There is a soldier's mother, she was fifty-three years old from Anshan, Liaoning Province to Beijing to see a doctor, ran five or six hospitals to find out the cervical spondylosis, mitral regurgitation, lumbar disc herniation, rheumatoid arthritis, insomnia, amnesia and other diseases. She was so forgetful that she did not know what she said when she said a sentence, and she would forget what she should do when she was just told what to do, and she was in pain. This is the kind of mom whose son is a doctor in a military hospital. She said that she was afraid that her son would be worried if he found out, and that it would affect her work, so she might as well come to Beijing alone to see a doctor and not cause any trouble for her son. What a great mother, what a great mom! However, children should be aware of their mother's physical health and psychological condition, it is necessary to carry out appropriate care, to do their due filial piety. Can not be in the parents can not move to do filial piety, when the parents have not felt this happy happy, can not wait for the parents will be heartbroken when they are not there, because the opportunity to do filial piety is becoming less and less, parents are getting older every year, we are growing up every day, in order not to leave regrets and regrets, must be raised to make a phone call to talk regularly, catching up on old times. Do not let your parents have a sense of loneliness, loneliness, so that they can enjoy their old age.

Squeeze time to go home to see: Whether in the field business work or parents in the same city people will face this problem. The young people in foreign countries try to make time to go home to see their parents on New Year's holidays. People are always lamenting that the year is going to pass very quickly, and our parents are aging in the midst of our constant lamentations. While the elderly can still watch over this happy time, we should try to create opportunities to go home and parents reunion, and the elderly talk about the past, look forward to the future, so that parents will always be happy, satisfied, happy new to face every day, which should be the responsibility of doing children. Never miss the opportunity to reunite with parents on the grounds that the organization is busy and unable to get away. Perhaps some of the young people who love face think that they are not successful and famous, go back to nothing to say. In fact, parents do not care how much money you earn, when how much official, as long as the child is safe, happy is the biggest wish. When you go home, you should recall your parents' advice to you when you were a child, and buy some small gifts to show your goodwill. I remember when I first remember, my mom had several times and I said:? When you grow up to go out, come back to what do not have to buy, buy me some snacks on the line? Since I was a child, I have always wanted to remember my mom's words. Now, every time I go home, I buy some other necessities as well as some snacks, and even my wife takes the initiative to help me do this to fulfill her wish. My father loves tea, so every time I bring him some of my favorite tea to satisfy my father's desire to have food and drink, the old man is very comfortable and satisfied. From our childhood to now, our parents have invested and paid a lot, we must let them enjoy this happiness while the old man is still awake. If one day they are sick, lying in bed, you do not even have the opportunity to sit around and eat together, if you can not talk, even the opportunity for intimate communication is also gone. At that time, you can only have tears in your eyes, that kind of sorrow, that kind of regret, only those who have experienced it can realize. Therefore, we can no longer leave regret and regret, put? Do your filial piety when your parents understand? This sentence is always in mind, you do this will feel happier than anything else. In addition, despite going home for a few days, some people in a hurry to socialize can not accompany their parents for a few hours, especially as a son of the more common. Imagine going home all day drunk parents in addition to helplessness can have what feelings? The old man both heartache and difficult, helpless is to go home to socialize constantly can not be sober communication; heartache is not tolerate you after drinking on the body damage. So go home and try to stay with your parents as much as possible, one less socializing, one more exchange. As long as you and who can say open, around the friends will understand, will let you and parents more reunion. Girls do well in this regard, and really act as ? the little coat? s role. But I advise unmarried girls not to neglect the warmth of their parents for the sake of their own love, and find all kinds of reasons not to go home. Once married, it is difficult to go home for the holidays. Because there are two parents, the time of conflict, the two psychological conflict intertwined, can not be booked to go to whose home to visit relatives. So while it is still convenient to create more opportunities to communicate with parents, reunion, to afford? The name of the honorary title is "Little Pearly Pants". This is a very good idea.

Learning to consult and report diligently:As we grow older, the older we get, the clearer we feel our minds are. The more at this juncture, we do children's more should not let them have a sense of loss. Some parents always say? We are old, not useful, children's things do not talk to us, are grown up? Although it is the truth, but also with a bit of sadness. The more at this time, the more the elderly want to listen to their children's affairs of the heart, the more they want to give advice, the elderly do not understand the business, but can be in the children's long things to ask them to participate. If you do not say anything to the elderly, the words of communication will be less and less, the distance is getting bigger and bigger, more and more limited points of interest, the elderly feel more and more lonely. Now the parents are old, when the children of the old when the feeling of loneliness you still want to try? So usually and parents talk about some interesting things, things at home, things in the past, not only can evoke the memories of the elderly, a few more points of warmth, but also to prevent the elderly from suffering from Alzheimer's disease, why not do it? I met an army chief, nearly ninety years old, the brain is still things thinking fast. It turned out to be his daughter had time to read to him to read the newspaper, but also the unit told him to ask the old man to analyze and help out a? Note? In fact, the daughter has dealt with, only to let the elderly exercise thinking ability, to prevent dementia and deliberately made. We may also want to use their respective intelligence to do a due responsibility and filial piety when the elderly need care the most. May the world's parents always happy, well-being!