Let the world be beautiful because of us-the experience of volunteer journey

"If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand it." The first lesson for volunteers is volunteer etiquette training. From clothing, hairstyle, standing posture, sitting posture, walking, to matters needing attention in diet, Mr. Zhang gave us a detailed explanation. In a word, traditional cultural volunteers want to make Disciple Rules, so that students can see them alive, thus enhancing their admiration and admiration for traditional culture.

What impressed me most in this class was the emphasis on eating "Dragon, Pearl and Phoenix Nodding". When we were young, we were taught to pick up bowls when eating. If we forget to pick it up after an hour, grandma will knock our hands with chopsticks until you remember. Of course, I have always been grateful to my grandmother for her teaching, but if we can change the way and tell us slowly in a gentle tone like Teacher Zhang, will the children remember it deeply?

Therefore, this lesson made me have more reflections on education. Education does not force children to accept it with severe punishment, but requires parents to water their children with love and wisdom, so that they can thrive.

Mr. Yangming said, "Nothing is impossible without determination", and the second lesson of the volunteer course is "determination". I believe that the wish of all traditional cultural volunteers must be "to stand for the heavens and the earth, to stand for the people, to carry forward the past and the future, and to be peaceful throughout the world." This is the ultimate goal, but my current wish is to set a good example for my children and family first.

Before I went to school, my family had a deep misunderstanding of traditional culture and didn't like Disciples Rules very much. It is said that learning traditional culture can avoid misfortune, but I think it gives me greater challenges. Every time I attend class, I am filled with joy. However, when I come back to my life and encounter trivial things, I feel like I have been poured with cold water from head to toe.

It can be said that in the first days, learning traditional culture did not make your life better, but worse. Through continuous study and thinking, I found the answer to the question, because my heart is still begging outside, asking them why they don't study and why they don't mend. When I always use this sentence to remind myself that everything is going well.

Therefore, I am determined to be a role model for my children and a role model for my husband, that is, to implement the disciple rules by myself and influence them with my sincere heart, so that they can recognize and fall in love with the disciple rules.

Teacher Zhang said that the three realms of volunteers are "live training, mental training and annoying training", which I think is very reasonable. Many housewives, including me, always feel that life is very tired and annoying, and there are always endless jobs and things to do. In fact, it is all caused by your own mentality. The mentality of a housewife is to take care of the family, educate the children and take care of the spiritual life of the whole family. "Couples are different" and "don't" are different in division of labor. "the environment is born from the heart." When my attitude changes, everything will be fine.

Whenever I have a conflict with my family, I will say to myself, "God sent such a person and such two children to test and torture me." When I can think like this, I will remind myself to control my emotions and not to intensify contradictions. When I can really "talk more and talk less", it is the most powerful time.

The third lesson of volunteers, practice. The purpose of volunteer work is to serve the majority of students, but "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world", if you don't even affect your own family, how can you affect others? We are often friendly to others and indifferent to our relatives. Through the study of traditional culture, I also know that the best feelings should be reserved for the closest people, so the best practice field is at home rather than anywhere else.

I hope that in the following days, through continuous study, thinking, reflection and practice, I will constantly revise myself, improve my moral knowledge and improve my ability to do things. When I really manage my family well and our family is harmonious and happy, it will naturally bring warmth and strength to the families around me and countless families!

Let the world be beautiful because of us, come on!