Old people are similar to children when they were young. Why do many people dislike old people and children?

To be honest, simplicity is human nature. Children are hope. Old people are a burden.

Why don't you like old people and children?

Because children are cute, they are the future and hope of the family and the sustenance of parents.

There are many reasons why people are rejected when they are old.

In fact, some old people are "lovelier as they get older", and their brains full of experience and wisdom have become valuable spiritual wealth and guidance for the younger generation.

They didn't get old because of the passage of time, at least they dressed themselves beautifully and became fashionistas.

However, many old people are disgusted with this for the following reasons:

0 1 Stubborn and wrong ideas Many children can neither love nor hate the elderly in their own homes, and even some children don't like their parents from the bottom of their hearts, but there is nothing they can do.

The reason is their inherent way of thinking and mode of doing things.

Some old people don't understand it when they are old, and they still have many traditional ideas in their hearts, such as: son preference, face saving, fame and fortune. ...

Although, on the surface, he gives the impression of being amiable, if you look closely, you will find that their views are stupid and simple.

Pay no attention to appearance. Many old people think that when they are old, it doesn't matter what they wear, even the minimum personal hygiene.

Walking in front of people is sloppy and smelly, which makes people feel distressed. How can children like it?

I am old and busy all my life, and I can't do anything. This is the idea of many old people.

In fact, "a sense of worthiness" is the life of the elderly, and the chapter on providing for the aged is also the sublimation of the meaning of life.

Whether you shine when you are young or not, you should find something to do when you are old. Don't depend on your children for everything. After all, you don't need someone to serve you yet.

Planting flowers, planting grass, traveling, writing, drawing and dancing in square dance can be both enjoyable and exercise.

The average life expectancy of China people is now 76 years, which is several decades higher than before liberation.

Life is getting better and better, the more you should make your retirement time full and meaningful.

Don't bother children, don't rely on children, don't rely on old people. Help those who can help children and do what they can. This is the ideological realm and life state that modern elderly people should have.

Only in this way can the family be harmonious, and the family business and future generations can flourish.

It's like comparing "new" with "old". If you like the old, you like the new. Old people, like children, are old, clumsy in legs and feet, old in arms and legs, and have the taste of old age. Bedridden urine is difficult to clean, and it is disgusting to move. Children are lively, innocent and lovely, easy to lead, obedient and well educated. Therefore, I don't like old people, but I like children.

If nothing else, do old people and children weigh the same? It is easy for normal people to hold children, and many adult women may not be able to hold an old man (non-sexist, but women are naturally weak, and some may be too strong to hold).

More importantly, children will grow up day by day, and you can see the end of your hard days, while the old people will get a little old, and you don't know how many years you will endure.

After the age of 6, children have the ability to take care of themselves and can eat and drink Lazar Lazar by themselves. In six years, the elderly may need your care more.

My own sister worked as a nanny, served the elderly, and served children from a few months to two or three years old, but later she quit her job of serving the elderly and accepted the job of taking care of children. Although the salary of taking care of children is much lower than the last one, my sister is more willing to accept the latter. I think there must be a big difference. Serving the elderly and children can't be compared physically or mentally. First of all, the body and mind, to serve the elderly to eat and drink Lazar, to turn over the elderly, to serve the urine, a person with little strength can not move at all, but it is more and more easy to serve the children. Moreover, adults who want to go out to work can take their children or take them out to play. Secondly, spiritually, children are the sun in the morning and the hope of the family. The process of children's growth will bring too many surprises to adults, and children's laughter can really dispel adults' troubles. Looking at the child's pure and tender face, adults can't help but want to kiss him. Really, when we meet unknown children outside, we sometimes miss Doby. Children make adults always want to be close to him and serve the elderly at the same time. Old people are setting sun, but most old people in bed are dying slowly. When you meet a stubborn and eccentric old man, the people who serve him have to endure the old man's accusations and abuse. If young people want to get rid of it, they have to wait for the old man to die, but I think they will feel guilty and blame themselves when they think so. This idea can't even be shown in front of outsiders.

Seeing this problem, I can't help but think of the news during the epidemic last year. Due to the lack of ventilators in Spain, the ventilators of people over 60 were asked to be removed to protect younger patients, and there was a cry in the hospital. The scene that made countless people sad is still fresh in my memory.

As the saying goes, "the smallest, the largest, the smaller." "When people are old, their bodies will not be rejuvenated, and their intelligence and behavioral ability will decline, but they will be like children.

If you ask why "you are too old, don't be too young", it's because compared with the elderly, children go uphill and downhill. Children want the future to be the sun at eight or nine o'clock in the morning, and they are the masters of the future world.

Compared with two people who are also seriously ill, an old man in his twilight years and a young and naive child, the latter can undoubtedly arouse the sympathy and concern of the world.

First of all, in a fair sense, the two have existed for a long time and a short time. The old man lived most of his life. Compared with an inexperienced child, it seems that he bought a ticket to watch a movie and quit before it was over. He basically saw through the ending of the story and the loss was not too great.

As soon as the children entered the cinema, they were invited out after watching a title. They didn't see anything clearly, and they didn't experience it. It's really a waste of ticket money for a trip to this cinema in the world. It's not worth it.

After all, a long life is only a hundred years, and for everyone, it is only once. It is inevitable from childhood to death.

Therefore, even emperors and tycoons have the anxiety of "to see the sun, for all his glory, buried by the coming night". The first popular Sang Song "I am willing to use my wealth to buy a sun that never sets." Eternal life It has been people's eternal expectation since ancient times.

Second, in terms of social value, there are light and heavy. Children belong to the growing period, and the future is infinite. The value they can create is far better than that of the elderly who are in recession or even become the burden of social families.

Back to the topic of pager tension at the beginning of this article, in the history of the world, it is common to abandon the old and protect the small when living resources are extremely scarce. The story of filial piety of "Guo Ju burying his son" was accused as absurd and immoral, but in the years of great famine, the old people became the first victims in life.

"Never too old to learn" seems cruel. What about the phrase "old me and old man, young me and young man"?

Because love is usually a downward social moral standard: if a son with limited ability sends his parents with Alzheimer's disease to a nursing home, people will understand, but if he sends his sick son to foster care, people will accuse him of not being a parent.

Children are freshmen, representing the beginning of a new life, while old people are aging and facing the end of life.

Children are the door to the new world, while old people need to close a door slowly.

So this is also a reason.

Of course there are many reasons. Children need family care when they grow up, and so do the elderly, but not necessarily.

Moreover, many elderly people seem to be affected. They always like to take their old age as an example, and even always rely on their old age to make trouble for young people.

Of course, not all old people are like this, but they are not always disgusted. Instead, we need to have our own lifestyle and choices, do more things that interest us, distract ourselves, and strive to integrate ourselves into this society and learn new skills.

I talked about the topic of providing for the aged two days ago. I talked about the birth of a person from childhood. Small people, small hearts. Everything is a new beginning.

People leave this world just like children, but they are not children. Not physically, not psychologically. I feel like a child because of degeneration. In the true sense, it is still very different from children.

For example, most children will accept everything given by their parents, because for children, parents are one or the main channel for them to contact the world.

Parents love their children because the future is infinite. All your efforts can be changed for your child's future.

As for the old people, they behave like children because of their retrogression, but they don't think you are the world like children, and they have their own standards. They want to cling to you like children, but they live with their own ideas or ideas.

Children are followers of their parents; For children, parents are an immutable person.

For their parents, the most important existence is acceptance; For children, it is guidance.

One is hope, and the other is doomed to leave.

Most people will be more patient if the old man can become a child when he is old.

You have the appearance of an adult, but you can't meet the standards of an adult. It's superficial and not worthy of the name, and you will find it hard to accept it.

After all, duplicity can mislead you.

The rejuvenation, or Benjamin Barton, is worth seeing. From birth, people will grow old with age, then become young, and finally grow old like children. This movie will make you feel that old people are just like children, just getting older; Children, like children, are freshmen.

Destined for a happy ending, the process is hard and acceptable;

Destined for a sad ending, the process is beautiful and futile.

First of all, this is human nature. Most people love their children more than their parents. My children were brought into this world by myself, and I watched them learn to walk and talk day by day. Nothing can replace that kind of happiness. When parents are old and need us to serve them, sometimes they really don't dislike their parents, but feel sad because they are getting older and powerless. There is a sharp contrast between prosperity and decline.

Because the interests and emotional entanglements involved in the elderly are more complicated, children are much simpler.

The situation in my family is very telling. Let's talk about it from two aspects.

First of all, the emotional aspect

My husband's family has lived together for four generations. There are more than 80 grandparents and children under 2 years old in the world.

After I went to work after maternity leave, my mother-in-law took care of her little granddaughter most of the time. Although it is really tiring to take care of the children, my mother-in-law is still very happy. On the one hand, the child's heart is relatively simple, and her mother-in-law takes care of my daughter's diet and daily life, which has won the sincere love of her little granddaughter. Every time my daughter meets her mother-in-law, she is extremely happy. On the other hand, children have a simple diet. When the mother-in-law goes to work, she cooks porridge, steamed eggs or other complementary foods for her children at noon. She cooks quickly and doesn't feel too tired. My mother-in-law told me this herself.

In contrast, the elderly are much more complicated. Grandparents switch seamlessly between weakness and bravado. When I am in good health, I like to arrange a big family, especially on weekends and holidays. We arranged how to spend it early, which was a bit depressing. Usually, the two old people are bored and love to judge their families. They are inevitably heard by us and have bad feelings in their hearts.

Recently, grandma was hospitalized and grandpa was at home. Mother-in-law cooks meals for grandpa twice a day, and then delivers meals to grandma. Basically, the life of the whole family was affected by grandma's illness. Grandparents order food every day, and the dishes should be rich. My mother-in-law is busy buying food and cooking every day. It's been a long time. I'm really tired. Rest at home and take care of the children during this time can reduce the burden on the mother-in-law.

Second, interests.

Grandparents have three children all their lives, but they were very busy at work in those days, so they had to put both children in foster care at their parents' home and didn't return to them until they went to middle school. My father-in-law spends a little longer with his parents, but his grandmother is very controlling and completely controls his father-in-law's life. My elder sister-in-law has never lived with her parents in her life. Although her sister-in-law is more cared for by her parents, she still feels that her parents are more inclined to her son.

All three children are complaining, and grandparents didn't realize the regret of raising their children for a lifetime until they died, but it was too late to regret it.

In addition, in terms of major family expenses such as buying a house, it has intensified the contradiction between children and grandchildren.

As the saying goes, "Life is the saddest when people are old." If you don't often reflect on planning the future when you are young, you should know how to let go and play dumb in your later years, otherwise life will be really difficult.