When to get married, what's the point of getting married at home?

On the first day of marriage, according to the traditional customs in many places, the time for the couple to return home is generally the third day of the wedding, and the bride and groom should go back to their parents' home together. However, in some areas, the time is different and the importance attached to the first day of marriage is different. Let's go and find out!

Wedding date:

Going back to the door to get married is to visit one's parents, another way of saying it is to visit one's parents, which is one of the wedding customs in China. On the first day of marriage, the time to return to the door is actually different in some places. In ancient times, there were people who returned home on the third, sixth or seventh, eighth and ninth day of marriage, and there was also a full moon. But now many newcomers get married because they are busy with work, and generally arrange to return to China three days after marriage.

What should I pay attention to when I get married?

When the bride and groom get married, they go back to their parents' homes together, so there is also a saying of "two doors", which means couples. In ancient times, when the couple came back together, the bride had to go ahead and go back to her hometown in the south, and the groom went ahead.

Because of this, the bride returned to her family for the first time after marriage. Some places are also called "taking the first trip". After going home together, the newlyweds all returned to the man's house on the same day, because there was an ancient custom that the newlywed room could not be vacant for one month. But nowadays, most of the newcomers work outside the home, or the two sides are far away, and there is no custom of leaving the wedding room vacant for one month.

In ancient times, when couples returned to their hometown, they would dress themselves up like a wedding, or at least return to their parents' home in a beautiful and handsome image, which was not as grand as a wedding. Now newcomers pay more attention to going back to the hotel. When several tables are set in the hotel, the bride and groom will also choose their own return dresses.

My summary: on the first day of marriage, according to the habits of most people, I will go back to my hometown three days after marriage. When they return home after marriage, their parents will prepare a banquet for them and invite relatives and friends to get together. This is also the custom of returning home after marriage. The above are some details of the first day of marriage. You got it?