Mom is gone this month I want to get a tattoo about my mom, but I don't know what to tattoo or if there's any totem about the word mom in English or something.

Can represent your mother's patterns or items that are important to her can be, can also be carnations, daylilies and such can represent the mother's pattern. Tattoo before or think clearly, do not be impulsive, do not let such a meaningful remembrance become a lifetime of regret. It is also possible to tattoo the head of the mother, but the tattoo artist must have good skills, otherwise it is also a kind of disrespect to the mother. You can consult with the tattoo artist and let him give you some advice. 75tattoo is fine, I have friends who have gotten tattoos there. I personally prefer patterns with symbolism, it depends on your personal preference, communicating with a good tattoo artist will be very helpful. These are my favorite foreign works, the style tends to oldschool, for reference.