How can a woman be called a virtuous wife?

Kind, reasonable, unobtrusive, virtuous, "a good wife and mother", married with children, well-managed family. A woman loves her husband and children with her own personality charm and practical actions, and a good wife helps her husband get married. A good mother and godson are the pillars of the country.

In ancient times, the word "wife and mother" was the unity of virtue, diligence, tolerance, kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding, modesty, gentleness and sacrifice. The standard of a good wife and mother is also advancing with the times, and this definition has been updated a lot today. A good wife and a good mother in the new era can be understood as: respecting the old and caring for the young, being "virtuous" and an eternal female virtue, being knowledgeable and polite, thinking and tasteful, having a stable income and enjoying reading and music. ......

To sum up, I think women nowadays must do five things if they want to be a good wife and mother:

First of all, be a good wife to your husband.

Fully support my husband, go to the hall, go to the kitchen, and be a "good wife and mother." A good wife can mold her own man. In history, it is rare for single men to become great men. On the contrary, behind many great men stands one or more great women. Because in women, we can find the essence of maternal love and the excellent essence of tenderness, kindness and kindness. As a good wife, she not only knows how to take care of her life, but also cares about her spirit. She not only obeys her own purpose, but also watches and decides between right and wrong, not only for her, but also for her to "relieve pain and relieve itching".

Second, be a good mother to children.

Speaking of a good mother or a virtuous mother, many historical stories will come to mind. Mencius' mother godson, Xu Shu's mother's righteousness, Yue Fei's mother's tattoo, Kong Zi's mother's teaching, Ouyang Xiu's mother's painting, Tao Kan's mother's haircut and Xu Yi's mother's righteousness all set an example for women who are mothers today. It is an example that we will never learn and learn. The education of children's growth is the most worrying issue for parents. A good mother knows how to judge the situation and love her children equally. They may not accompany their children to do exercises or tidy up their messy rooms, but they will never forget to give them some small successes and give them the most timely and intimate encouragement.

Third, be a good daughter-in-law for in-laws.

As a woman, the most important quality should be kindness, and all virtues are filial first. A daughter-in-law who doesn't know how to honor the elderly is by no means a good daughter-in-law. Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become a common family worry. Home and everything! A sensible daughter-in-law will adjust the family atmosphere wisely, because she has a tolerant mind, and she knows that filial piety is not only the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but also the duty of being a human being.

Fourth, be a good woman.

Madame Curie, a successful person in her career. As a scientist, she successfully discovered and extracted radium and made great contributions to mankind. However, with a successful career, she did not neglect the care of her husband and children. Former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, a political elite. Despite the busy state affairs, I still don't forget to make a breakfast for my husband in the morning. To be a good woman, we must be independent and self-respecting, not overly dependent on men for survival, not overly materialistic, refusing luxury, and not overly enthusiastic about the opposite sex.

Fifth, be a good woman in society.

In the long ancient history of China, women's status was low, and in most cases, they succumbed to the arrogance of male chauvinism. Today's society belongs to everyone who is alive and has normal thinking. The world can't live without men, and men can't live without women. Men conquered the world, and women conquered men. A woman at this stage should have a professional and economic foundation that matches the times, because this determines her world outlook, values and spiritual outlook. It is also a new balanced relationship, which has changed the state of men and women getting along in modern society. Women are also free, and her connotation and background will eventually be accepted by society. As long as she can't be dried in public, then her road will be infinitely extended!