Which is more tiring in a marriage, a marriage with a strong man or a strong woman?

Whether two couples in a marriage will be tired in the process of getting along depends on whether the two people have the same values, and whether they are willing to tolerate each other and respect each other in the process of getting along. It has nothing to do absolutely with whether the man is strong or the woman is weak or the woman is strong or the man is weak. In addition, strong or weak is a broader concept, including physical strength, character strength, social survival ability and so on. Everyone has his strengths and weaknesses; there is no absolute strength or weakness. Couples who are more complementary are stronger and can provide more help to each other, and complementarity itself includes complementary personalities as well as complementary life skills.

Some conventional wisdom suggests that marriages where the man is stronger and the woman is weaker are easier to live with.

The so-called male strength and female weakness, in the traditional concept refers to the male in the career is stronger, has a stronger social survival ability, can earn more money to maintain the family expenditure, the female in the career is a little weaker, so more energy is spent on taking care of the family above. The economic foundation determines the superstructure, and the traditional concept is that the man should be the dominant one in the family, and he also holds the main source of economic resources.

However, money isn't everything, and being able to make money doesn't necessarily mean you're strong.

Some people become penniless overnight, some spend all their savings because of illness, and some children, even if they are born into a rich family, are unable to grow up to be a healthy person and survive in the society because of lack of love and normal family education. A person who has a strong ability to survive in society, but he is very empty spiritually, then he is not strong either. Life is limited, everyone can only eat three meals a day, the amount of food that can be consumed is also limited, so the money needed to survive is enough . In life, people need more is the spiritual fulfillment, love and be loved, people and people between the heart is money can not be exchanged, a person's strong is also strong on the heart, the face of the plight of the courage to face the spirit.

Families with strong women and weak men can also be happy.

In a family, a woman has a stronger ability to survive socially, she is better at socializing or she is very skilled in a certain area, she has a stronger ability to earn money, and she is the breadwinner in the family. The man inside the family has average working ability, but he earns enough to support them, he prefers to spend his time taking care of the family instead of working overtime, he enjoys spending time with his children, he is a strong support for his wife so that she doesn't have to worry about anything when she's working, and this kind of family is also a perfect combination because everyone is doing their best in the right place.