It is difficult for busy parents to keep a good relationship with their children. How do parents establish intimate relationships with their children?

It is difficult for busy parents to keep a good relationship with their children. How do parents establish intimate relationships with their children? I feel that many times, the dialogue between parents and children is not a dialogue at all, such as: Lucy, don't touch the book; Mick, how many times have I told you to leave your sister alone! This kind of conversation is all instructions, orders and accusations from parents to their children. Storytelling is a good way to get along with children on an equal footing. Parents can talk about funny things they did when they were young. Children are especially willing to listen to things their parents did when they were young, things that remind them of themselves and make them laugh. This will encourage children to talk about themselves. Parents must also work with their children.

Participate in activities that do not require children to do anything, but allow children to share happiness with their parents. When my children were young, I often took them to see the fire station, police station and newspaper office where they worked. They can also happily recall those pleasant interview activities. Teach your children to trust you. Trust comes from honesty, even if your honesty will make him angry or afraid for a while. For example, if you say that an injection is as painful as being bitten by a mosquito, but in fact he feels as painful as being stung by a bumblebee, then your child may not believe you at all when he encounters more important problems in the future. Trust also means keeping your promise. When you say what you want to do, it is very important to keep your promise.

Companionship is the best teacher. The first step in establishing intimate relationship is to get along with each other day and night, and take good care of them. Many precious mothers can establish a basic parent-child relationship with their children through breastfeeding after giving birth. I have seen many precious mothers who can't take care of their children by themselves because of work and other reasons. They ask the elderly or nannies to take care of their children and rarely accompany them after work. Over time, the intimacy between children and parents will decrease. Nowadays, many parents are busy with games, socializing, mobile phones, or divorce, and ignore the needs of their children. Those left-behind children are even less loving, so the first thing to establish intimate relationships is to spend more time with their children!