People who dare to break away from the shackles of tradition

There are many people around me who are writing wonderful lives with their own actions.

See their figures, think of their stories, remind yourself to continue to grow, be more mature and actively create, so that the world has more possibilities.

Sister Liang first met at a book club. She came to Guangzhou specially from Shenzhen to participate in the activities. Not talking much during the dinner will affect our work and life.

With the deepening, I found my sister bright and attractive. She loves the outdoors and has been to Xinjiang, Tibet, Sichuan and the European Alps. At the same time, she organized an outdoor group with friends from all over the world.

She is super self-disciplined. Usually in Shenzhen, she insists on getting up early and running to exercise. Combined with outdoor travel, she will adjust the training plan and scientifically optimize her physical condition.

She likes reading. As a core member of the reading club, she promoted the activities of reading clubs in Shenzhen, Guangzhou and Guangdong. During this period, she came to Guangzhou many times for on-site support.

There is another reason why senior sisters can devote so much time and energy to alumni activities. She lives a rich life. She founded a construction company in Shenzhen in her early years, and now she is basically retired and has precious time freedom.

Sister Shi also has her own ways to raise children. Her son graduated from the physics department of Cambridge University and went to Yang Zhenning's laboratory in the United States to study for a doctorate. He is not a bookworm as everyone thinks. I have found my favorite wife, doctor of astrophysics, and gave birth to a lovely baby this year. She devotes herself to children's education, cultivates children's sense of independence and knows that learning is her own business. Money is very cheap and family conditions are good, but simple habits have been formed since childhood.

When her son grew up, he didn't follow the crowd when he chose computer finance and other subjects. He chose his favorite physics, and he probably won't make a fortune all his life, but it's his own love.

What's more important is that senior students constantly broaden themselves by reading and walking. She said that she is more peaceful and modest now, and she will apologize to her children and daughter-in-law if she does something wrong. If strangers offend, she used to be angry and emotional, but now she can laugh it off.

Sister Liang's unique charm makes you more attracted to her. I always hope to have various opportunities to chat with her, meet her and become a woman with the same broad mind, rich spirit and material, and full of action.

When I first met Sister Jiang Mumu, she was a smart person. She took me to an activity in a BMW. As soon as it was time to take photos, she happily posed in various poses and confidently said, I am the king of posture, so take a good photo.

Sister Jiang Mumu is desperately trying to get pregnant while attending the Alumni Association choir. In September, she also held the annual meeting of the Alumni Association. The night before the annual meeting, she arranged the meeting in the hotel until the early morning, and arrived at 7 o'clock the next day to arrange work.

I stood behind her and looked at her busy figure, both worried and envious. She was five months pregnant.

Every alumni gathering of the choir is full of laughter and vitality. Whether it's rehearsal, performance or even just getting together for dinner, everyone has to sing a few songs. As long as there is a choir partner, the program will have no worries.

Everyone is grateful to Mu Mu, who brought us together. In the two years since the establishment of the group, she has made great achievements. Guangzhou Tianhe won the gold medal in the singing competition and sang in the most comprehensive Xinghe Concert Hall, which became a beautiful memory in summer. Every performance, everyone is particularly prepared, and they are all singers. Rehearsals are held every Tuesday. Although some members are far away in the suburbs, they will carpool and rehearse together, which is an important ceremony in life.

What Sister Jiang Mumu does is always great, giving people a thumbs up, elegant and meticulous. She enjoyed herself and had little stars in her eyes.

On June+10, 5438, her baby was born, and everyone was very happy, vying to recognize her relatives. Now that she is the mother of three children, she can't tell at all. This is a contradictory and interesting person.

Mother rewrote her destiny in fifty years.

Growing up in the countryside, the family that values boys over girls has now become the best doctor in our hometown. Many of her playmates are still working in their hometown, and many of her classmates are laid off at home. She achieved different results.

Life is full of choices. Not for a year, two years or three years. After ten or twenty years, you will know what kind of person this person is.

The road to counterattack is not easy at all. From a wrong choice, my mother chose to go to technical secondary school, and her grades were ahead. The teachers advised her to go to college, but the family wanted her to work early, so that girls wouldn't have to read so many books. As a result, I have been making up for this choice for more than 20 years.

When I was in kindergarten, my mother went to school in the northeast thousands of miles away, and she went to school for three years. Every time she is promoted, her ability is sufficient, and the influence of academic qualifications is always half a beat slower than that of undergraduates. In her forties, she finally finished her undergraduate course in her spare time.

In the year of my senior high school entrance examination, my mother went to Beijing Children's Hospital for further study. That year, her medical skills were further improved, she learned more scientific treatment methods and learned more about the world. After the senior high school entrance examination, I went to Beijing for half a summer vacation. The first time I ate Pizza Hut, my mother's colleague took me to the scene for the first time. That game was an all-star game at the peak of Real Madrid and Zidane, and the opportunity was very rare.

Every time I have to take the exam for promotion, my mother is always well prepared. In her words, she spends more time than others because she is not smart. It is also common to get up at 6 am and read books. At work, she always has the most patients and is responsible for half of the departments. In the same year, the frequency and complexity of her medical treatment far exceeded others, giving her more opportunities to display and more room for improvement.

My mother's influence on me is to look at life dynamically. I don't need to care about this. After three to five years, there will naturally be results. What should go up will go up.

If a person can change her life story, there must be many ups and downs in it, and they are all capable people who can hold on and keep climbing.

Why should I care about the three of them

Because they broke many ideas with their own examples.

It's not necessary to help take care of the children at home after retirement! To explore the wonders of the world.

If you are pregnant, you have to wait at home like a queen, not necessarily! I'm still committed to my favorite career.

The family mainly depends on men, so just find a casual job, how come! Being a professional woman can get a sense of accomplishment in her work, and it is urgent to educate her children.

The more you grow up, the more mature you will know that many concepts are not necessarily right.

Some people's life is an off-screen mode. There are three modes to choose from: hard, medium and simple, depending on the game settings.

Another kind of life is a self-defined model, which breaks the shackles and brings new strength and possibilities.