Home and school cooperation to educate the love of peer after watching

Home and school cooperation and parenting love peer after viewing (selected 5)

After watching a certain work, I believe that you must have learned a lot of things, you need to write a good record of the aftermath. Maybe you have no clue now, the following is I help you to organize the home and school cooperation to educate the love walk after (selected 5), for your reference, I hope to help the need of friends.

As the saying goes: "The family is the child's first school, the parents are the child's first teacher, but also the child's growth in the study of the example". Therefore, good family education plays a vital role in a child's life. When my children were just born, I attached great importance to their family education, of course, not just teaching them to memorize a few Tang poems, read a few children's songs, and know a few Chinese characters, but also educating them to be a good person and teaching them life skills, so that they can develop into a person with a healthy mind and a sound personality. Of course, for only two years of young children, the vague teachings of the esoteric truth and can not make him understand the meaning of it, the child naturally will not accept, so the specific or from the life of a little bit of a start.

One, create a good family environment

The harmony of the family for a child's growth is crucial, the family love each other will let the child learn tolerance, learn to understand, learn to love, love others and love themselves. If there is a lack of family love, it will make the child become more and more cold and selfish. I have seen many cases of children's degeneration, numbness and other problems, all because of the lack of love in the family, imagine a child even their own parents and family members do not love, he will go to care for strangers? Therefore, we must create a warm and harmonious family life for our children, so that all our children can be happy and carefree life.

Second, parents should lead by example

In family education, parents are the children's role model, parents' words and deeds will inadvertently give children a huge impact. So, when parents ask their children to be polite and respect others, they can think about whether they are doing so? I remember one time, my child made a mistake, I reprimanded him severely, and said some heavy words, saying that if you continue to do so, I will hit you. Originally, I did not realize the problem, but later he actually learned this sentence, and said I will hit you if you do not move. This makes me very regrettable and very sad, regret that I should not have spoken to the child this way, sad that the child said this to his mother, so while the child can still be corrected, we do parents must be careful with their words, their every move to think twice, no matter how angry you are in the case to think of me doing this so that I said what kind of impact on my child.

Three, reward and punishment are degrees of realistic child temper tantrums cold

The child did right, we have to positively praise, the child did wrong, we have to correct in time. Reward and punishment should be moderate, moderate. Although education experts are now advocating more praise children praise children, but I think this has to be divided into what things, because I this is a personal experience. In the child is still more than a year old child, he played with blocks, was built wrong, but I want him to play for the first time to give him praise and encouragement, I want to promote his progress, the result is the opposite, but make him every time to build the wrong, and become particularly stubborn, I said he still does not listen to not accept, which makes me think, if he built the first time, I will give him to correct, perhaps will not appear! This makes me think that if I had corrected him the first time he hitched, this situation might not have arisen. Therefore, I insist that parents should be realistic in praising their children and should not blindly praise them. Of course, the criticism should be more degrees, if the criticism is excessive, or even hit the child, slowly the child will become rebellious, when the child does wrong or adhere to the reason to persuade, and on the matter of the matter, can not reopen old scores, the most important thing is that you say the words to let the child listen to understand to listen to in. In the past, when the child did wrong, I would tell him a lot of reasoning, the result is that he is still my way, and then listened to the expert's advice is to let you say the words of the child is more acceptable, do not say some vague axioms. Moreover, in the child capricious tantrums, you say any reason he will not listen to, so my approach is to deal with the cold, let the child to make a fuss, parents can do a cold-eyed observer, and so the child feels that crying is meaningless, calm down when we go to talk to him about the reasoning, so that on the contrary, it is better for him to accept, if in his tantrums when he went to say this and that, will only exacerbate the development of the situation. If the crying continues, then we can only quickly carry him away from the scene and divert the child's attention, which may work better.

Four, let the child learn to respect others

Let the child learn to respect others, the first parents must first learn to respect the child, this is my consistent adhere to. In the child is still very small, I can squat down to listen to him. Some people would say that such a small child can have any opinion, in fact, not, although the child is small, but still an individual person, he also has a thought, so we have to respect him more. For example, the child will bring toys every time he goes out, at first, the child's grandfather always stop him from bringing toys, but this will be a long time before he can go out, although the toys are put down, but he will cry for a long time, and now I think about it, the crying at that time may be the adult's disrespect and feel dissatisfied. Later, I talked to my child about what toys to take with him when he went out, but gradually he took the initiative to talk to me, and he became more obedient. Even outside, the child and the children get along, I will teach him to learn to respect others, such as seeing other children's toys, they want to play, I will teach him to discuss with the children, "when you do not play when you can give me the toy to play for a while, okay?" When other children want to play with his toys, I will teach him, "Give the toy to this child to play for a while, okay?" It's all about what the child wants, not what the adult wants. I used to make the mistake of playing with a friend's child, seeing a friend's child crying for a toy to the child, I always snatch the child's toys to other children without thinking, so then the child has developed the habit of holding onto the toy does not let go of the hands of the child, even if the time to sleep a take it down on the cry, I think it is that time I hurt his self-esteem, my disrespect for him to him, has serious consequences. caused serious consequences, although now after time, the child has been slowly good, but the impact on me is still quite large, let me introspect for a long time.

Fifth, early for children to learn their own things to do to cultivate the child's labor habits

In the child just will sit, we have put him on the stool and family meals, although at that time he can not eat on their own, but we insisted on letting him see how we adults are dining, so slowly the child himself! So slowly the child learned to eat, and was very early to learn to eat with chopsticks, as long as the family can let him do things, we insisted on letting him do it himself, such as sweeping the floor, washing dishes, carrying dishes, moving stools and so on. Many parents think that the child is so small can do ah, is not the more help the more busy, in fact, do not do a good job is certain, but as long as he participates in the good, if you always stop him to work, he will feel that mom does not need me, over time he will no longer be willing to do. And the cultivation of labor habits will make him cherish the fruits of others' labor more, such as the toys he plays with don't litter, the garbage doesn't litter, and so on.

Six, create a learning environment for children to cultivate children's learning habits

There was a time when the family watched a lot of TV, the child followed the TV to see more, and then felt that can not be so, so now the family learned to read, even if not read the book will read the newspaper, so that the child has followed the learning to read, although time Although the time does not last long, but the habit is slowly cultivated, little by little accumulated will be good. As the saying goes, traveling thousands of miles is better than reading thousands of books, so as long as there is time to take the child to go out more, learning knowledge in nature is more acceptable to the child. Although education experts do not recommend that children so young to learn Tang poetry and ancient words and so on, but I think that although the child does not understand, but read more of these poems can develop the child's sense of beauty and sense of rhythm. As for the children's songs and music, more reading and listening is definitely beneficial, the key is that children like these, I think the cultivation of interest is the most important.

Seven, cultivate the child's manhood does not spoil the child

The child's father is often in the field, the child can not see a few times a year father, so I do this mother's mother's responsibility to do a good job as well as a good father's role. So I always intentionally or unintentionally want to cultivate the child's manhood, but not overly spoil him spoil him. For example, when my child falls down, I never help him up, always encourage him to fall down and get up by himself, and then pat the dirt on his body. If he falls and breaks it, even if I feel pain in my heart, I won't show it and just tell him that it's okay. So now when my child falls, as long as it's not very serious, he basically doesn't cry, but instead comforts me by saying, "Mom, I'm fine!" Although it may seem that I am cold-blooded, but I myself feel that I did the right thing, especially for a boy, must develop his strong character, not cowardly.

The above is a little insight into my home education, or that, each child is an independent individual, so each child has his or her own unique personality, there is no almighty education, it can only be each parent in the family education in the practice of continuous groping, it is said that the child is the parents of the second life, the parents in the process of the child's growth is also growing, let's let us and the The child grows up together!

Home and school collaborative parenting love peer 2

Teachers dozens of years, turn the baby is five and a half years old, adhere to the baby diary is more than six years, too many insights always want to share, success or failure is a person's words, the theory of teaching children also need to practice and, more importantly, to explore and generalize, of course, the laws of education should be followed by the child's individual differences, all the success of the tutelage experience is not the same, so the I hope that parents who are concerned about the growth of their children to participate more in the exchange of topics, and more to explore the topic of successful cultivation of emotional intelligence and IQ. Let our next generation grow up healthy (physically and psychologically) and become successful steadily!

Entering the door of education, I hope that one day I will be able to spread the integration of their own educational ideas, although I am a drop in the ocean, but I prefer to play their own weak light and heat for the cause of education. Therefore, I will integrate my own educational insights and perceptions into my classroom in a timely manner, so that children can feel the new educational atmosphere every day, so that they can fully enjoy the new ideas brought about by the exhilaration and pleasure.

0 years old and pre-school early education has been an important topic of many knowledge of the family to talk about, our early education work should be to do their best, and even some of the children on a better kindergarten at any cost, full-time transportation, sacrificing their own careers and work again, the parents are great, we should applaud ourselves! However, in the early childhood education in the confusion and bewilderment of a large number of people, friends chat, more also is the difficulty of education, I think, we all have the same feeling, I am also the same. When I use certain theories to guide the practice of ECE, I have also been in deep contradiction and self-doubt, because it is not suitable for children! I began to think about a new course.

The child is progressive, smart, well-behaved, kind, often help others, but also care about others, especially understanding, in other people's conflicts, always have a reason to persuade others, just like a small adult! This year in kindergarten, the repetition of knowledge makes me feel a bit of a waste of time, I think in this critical period of learning should be timely guidance and improve his learning ability. I have been engaged in many years of language teaching, I think the language is the most pay attention to the accumulation of basic knowledge, memorization of words, reading comprehension, conversation writing is the cornerstone of language learning, decided to start from the first reading.

The child has learned all the pinyin in elementary school, but is not very skilled, I decided to let him read the storybook with pinyin and illustrations, at first read some hard, but the child since childhood by the influence of his father's habits, the reading is still quite interested, as the cultivation of interest it, we read each of their own, the child by his half-knowledge, but also enjoy, a summer vacation passed, the child still have time to sit there and read, and the child is still a good friend, he is not a good friend. The first time I saw this, I was able to read the book, and then I was able to read it for half an hour. ......

One day, my son had a whim, and he was talking about his storytelling, and it turned out that he had memorized all the stories he had read, and that some of the words that he had used to describe the words, and some of the words that he had used to describe the words, and some of the words that he had used to describe the words, and some of the words that he had used to describe the words, and some of the words that he had used to describe the words that he had used to describe the stories that he had read. The first time I saw this, I was able to get a good idea of what I wanted to do with my life.

He can read, and he can read storybooks without pinyin fluently, and he can even comment on them!

Then, while cultivating the child's reading habit, we guided him to early writing. The diary is the child every night must study, from do not know how to write to every day to write their own insistence, so that his mind also experienced a rapid maturation process: ...... I'm a man! ...... I am brave! ...... I am strong! ...... Self-evaluation and self-awakening immediately presented in the diary, which we did not expect!

Home and school cooperation in the education of love walk after 3

The child is born means the beginning of education. Education is divided into family education, social education and school education. Parents can't just be concerned about their children's intellectual development, good or bad academic performance. In my opinion, parents should focus on: the child's physical and mental health education; emotional education; social morality; will quality and other non-intellectual factors of education, that is, family education. As the child grows up, knowledge teaching and intellectual development must be done by professional teachers, i.e. school education. Even if parents know this knowledge, they may not know how to solve the problem, or even contradict with the professional teacher's method, so as a parent to do a good job of family education is to support the teacher's work. Below, I will talk about my daughter's education on some of my experience.

First, the word "strict" at the head, absolutely not to "favor", "spoiling"

Nowadays All of these phenomena are likely to lead to the child's "wrong love", "pampering", "spoiled", "selfish", "self-centered", "selfish", "selfish", "selfish", "selfish", "selfish", "selfish", "selfish", "selfish" and "selfish". They are "self-centered" and "me-centered". They ask grandparents to do things for them that they should do themselves. For example, in my sophomore and junior high school students, there have been incidents of parents giving their children food. We should never think that this is a trivial matter. I call it an "incident" because I think that these children have no empathy, no ability to take care of themselves, and no will to overcome difficulties. It is easy for children to make mistakes in the course of growing up. Parents should be strict with themselves to help them overcome their shortcomings, and at the same time strictly require their children to maintain good behavior. For example, I ask my children not to bully others and to be very polite to others. I am strict with my child but not authoritarian. Autocracy is to force the child to educate from, strict discipline must focus on reasoning, to convince people, in the education of my daughter, the correct point of view, I respect her, do not hurt her, without hurting her self-esteem under the premise of her to tell her some of the reasoning that she can understand.

Second, always pay attention to the right amount of praise

Children and adults may also face a lot of distress, for example: sometimes homework can not do, no friends, afraid to write essays and so on. We can't ignore the existence of these problems, and then we have to find ways to help solve them. At this time the parents of timely encouragement, enlightenment is particularly important, usually, I will carefully and carefully let her tell me about the troubles of the loess, and then there is always a sentence: "you will be able to do, their own things can be solved by themselves, mommy believes in you." Children need encouragement and praise. "Compliment" not only shows the parents' confidence, but also strengthens the child's confidence. I know a lot of parents who are not fair to their children because of their own arrogance and lack of respect for them. The child responds in his or her own unique way, either by crying, being willful, or doing something "bad" in return. "boast" to pay attention to the skills, but also to pay attention to the way, method. The child's examination results in general or poor, do not give the child the feeling of the end of the world, more to help the child to find some loess, the key is to find out where the child flash to give praise, never let the child lose confidence.

Three, try to cultivate good habits

Habits can be divided into learning habits and a variety of behavioral habits. Nowadays, children have higher IQs, and most of them learn poorly due to bad habits. Such as watching TV while eating, talking while doing homework, or to be accompanied by adults to do homework. What's especially scary is that some children grow up dawdling, and even if they learn very well now, they will have a lot of trouble learning in the future. Therefore, I advocate that homework should be done in the shortest possible time, and of course well done. The purpose of doing so is to cultivate children's concentration, agility and dexterity, and to improve their learning efficiency. Otherwise, the child is very easy to appear because of the longer learning time, lose interest in learning, passive learning and boredom of the psychology.

Parents are the first teacher of the child, our speech and behavior of the child plays a subtle role. The child is not an object in our hands, she is a complex person with thoughts and feelings, if you can't understand her from childhood, can't communicate with her, just rely on the so-called "power" of the parents to convince him, then when he went to junior high school, high school, academic performance will be a drop in the bucket, because they can't find fun in learning, he will learn to lie, put his energy into making friends and friends, and then he's going to learn how to make friends. He will learn to lie, focus his energy on making friends and getting addicted to games. I often hear some parents say, "My son is not afraid of us, but of the teachers." In fact, this parent's concept has two errors: First, they are not willing to take responsibility for the discipline of the child, want to put the responsibility on the teacher, hoping that the teacher will be their own children to control their own waiting to pick the fruits; Second, it shows that they do not know how to manage children and do not know how to manage the child.

Family education is the foundation of education, and without good family education, it is difficult to build a good school education. Of course, the school education in turn also affects the family education, the child in the school time is very long, the interaction of students and teachers encouragement will affect the child's life growth.

Home and school collaboration to educate the love peer 4

Elementary education is the earliest in a person's life to receive formal education, the child from childhood to cultivate high morals and good quality has an important role, as the saying goes, "everything switch is difficult," primary education is the education of life, "head", this head how to open the door to a good start, the first time I've ever seen a child in my life.

"Hope that the son, hope that the daughter into the wind" is the universal parents of the wish. Unfortunately, for some parents, the desire to see their children become successful is difficult to realize, the following methods may help you Oh!

First, love the child, respect the child, do the child's best friend

In life, we must respect the child, treat the child as an equal, and establish a relationship of mutual trust with the child, do the child's best friend, and only in this way can win the child's trust. This will enable the child to naturally feel the love given to her by her parents, and also enhance her sense of trust in her parents, so we parents should all use love to cultivate children's good behavior. I think it's very important to cultivate children's character. Listening is an art and a form of learning.

Two, cultivate children's adaptability

Today's era of rapid change and fierce competition in human society requires people to be more adaptable, and whoever has a strong `adaptive ability' will be able to survive, develop better, and move towards the other side of the shore of success.

Three, praise is a wonderful way to shape a good character

The deepest desire of human nature is to get her people's appreciation, the child of course, is no exception, from the parents of the praise will stimulate the child's inner self-worth and sense of dignity, prompting them to further strengthen the good behavior, until the formation of a good character.

Fourth, learn to tolerate and forbearance

Tolerance is a beautiful scenery, can tolerate and forbearance of other people's shortcomings and mistakes of the people, is indeed a noble person, such a person, is a beautiful scenery, tolerance is a kind of ability, we can only continue to fill the heart with love. With care to moisturize the chest, in order to let hatred has no place, tolerance not only requires a broad mind, but also requires a high degree of wisdom.

Fifth, good at finding and cultivating children's interests

"Interest is the teacher" only from the interest, in order to let the children love to learn, so I hope that parents from the usual life of learning to capture the child's interest points, to guide, so that they will get more The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't know what to do.

In short, the home education of elementary school students, we must learn to communicate with the children, that is, we must be patient and meticulous, but also flexible, as long as we have become a good friend of the children, I am afraid to teach them?

Home and school collaboration to educate love peer 5

Speaking of children's education, every parent has a stomach to say, although the family situation is different, the education method is also different, but the purpose is to hope that their children can be happy and healthy growth. As parents, how should we educate our children? I have bought a lot of books and CDs for this purpose, and I have consulted many colleagues ....... The child grows day by day, the results are gradually stabilized, but I still do not dare to have the slightest relaxation in my heart.

The development of good study habits is very necessary, it should be reflected in the details of life. Everyone in our family has the habit of reading books, and the early development of the child's literacy skills when he was small laid a very good foundation for his future learning. Once our child was a little older, we helped our child develop the habit of reading, allowing him to take a little time out of his day to read a book. You can often see this picture in our house: a family of three each holding their own book to read. Moreover, as long as there is an opportunity to buy a variety of books from the bookstore for him to read, "June 1" Children's Day, the Spring Festival gifts are all kinds of interesting or useful books. Over time, the child likes to read. Also developed a good habit of reading. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

Since the child went to school, I pay attention to cultivate his study habits, home every day to complete the teacher left homework. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new computer, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new computer. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a good pair of shoes or boots, and then you'll be able to get a good pair of shoes or boots.

In the family life, always pay attention to the habits of the formation, played with toys to clean up, the night before going to bed to wash his face and brush his teeth, etc. Sometimes, the child wants to be lazy, we will give him a reason, and tell him, that is not allowed. Slowly, he recognized this behavior, the habit will be naturally developed.

Education of children, our generation of parents need to learn, need to learn to inherit the traditional wisdom of the Chinese people, I used to heart has not been solid, is that I feel that their hearts did not establish a stable and trustworthy overall value system to educate the child, this period of time in the intermittent on the traditional enlightenment of the classic contact process, while reflecting on their own behavioral and ethical norms, while reflecting on the child growth of all kinds of performance, I feel that the child is the only one who has been able to get the best out of it. I feel that I have found the clues and directions to educate my children, and I need to grow up with my children*** under the inculcation of learning traditional culture.

Don't set too high requirements for your child, give him a little free space to develop, in which to observe the child's strengths and weaknesses, and then impose guidance. I think we have all done children, should know what children like, too much preaching, are not as good as their own behavior to guide the effect of children. What the child is asked to do, the adult himself must first do. For example, my son watched TV, once he saw the exciting part of the unconscious went to the TV, I corrected him, he immediately rebuked said: "You are also old every day on the Internet, a play a long time, the eyes also want to see the bad." In the face of the child's questioning, I can only correct myself first, with their own behavior to influence the child, I told the child: "You see mom corrected, only a little while on the Internet, you should also correct it!" At this point, the child will gladly accept your advice.

In order to broaden the horizons and cultivate the child's multifaceted interests. After school, enroll him in a calligraphy class. He has been learning it for a few years now, and he is very interested in it and has achieved very good results.

The child likes handmade, I will provide him with materials and give him as much help as possible. Sometimes, I see him make a "work" that is not very exciting, and show it to us complacently, with a look of pride in his face. It's a great pleasure to see a child who has the courage to do something and get pleasure from the process of crafting.

In addition, we also like to let the child participate in some physical exercise. The child already loves to run and jump, so let him exercise more, not only to strengthen the body, but also to enjoy the mood, why not?

In short, we hope that the child is not only buried in the study of the child, we hope that he studied well at the same time can also have their own fun, is a love of life.

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