What are your thoughts on "Chinese Blind Date"?

I basically rejected dating programs, but I actually found "Chinese Matchmaking" quite good and waited for it to be updated. I never thought I would become a fan of dating programs one day, but it's interesting to think about it.

From the word "Chinese" in the name of "Chinese Style Matchmaking" alone, we can see where the program's main features lie. The program has really done its homework in the "Chinese style" aspect, for example, male guests participating in the blind date must bring their parents or a group of relatives, in the words of the host Jin Xing: there are family members, more assured. Venus is not only the host of the program, but also a line of marriage is a super star bridesmaid, double the responsibility entrusted to a mouth. The traditional form of Chinese marriage is reflected and extended in the program, with sincerity.

Male guests with a group of relatives to help, to recruit female guests can bring the same group of friends and relatives on both sides of the mutual control of the filter, and especially interesting is the whole process of matchmaking, male guests can see the whole performance and conditions of the female guests, but the female guests can not see the male guests of the appearance and voice, only from the male's family and some background information or Venus's statement to capture the important information basis, equal to the female guest is in a blind election, the female guest is a blind election, and the female guest is a blind election, the female guest is a blind election. The female guest is in a blind audition. And the audience can also do the appropriate drama on the female guest, or play the role of God's help, or a variety of self-trolls send pop-ups. The matchmaking sessions and processes are innovative, the live interaction is enthusiastic, and the program is a fun way to reconcile the seriousness of matchmaking with the novelty of the program.

However, I personally feel that the real significance of "Chinese Blind Date" lies in the extension and exploration of many typical social topics, such as the significance of Chinese blind date in the hearts of the Chinese people and the impact on the concept of marriage, many people say that love and marriage is a matter of two men and two women, but in fact, marriage is a matter of two families, don't feel that you can be independent when you are an adult, family relationship is actually permeated with the marriage. The family relationship actually permeates all aspects of marriage. So for the female guests in the program, the man's family culture must be done as an important basis for dating, which is equal to the reality of love in the link in advance to "meet the parents".

Then again, the difference and collision between the marriage concepts of the male guest and his aunt and mother from the first family, to see the gap between the values of the two generations. It must be recognized that the concept of many elders is that you have to find a hard-working and capable of hard work will be able to hold the family will take care of you will be born and raised to teach children filial piety elders ...... However, the young people's view of choosing a spouse often stays purely in I love her just fine. Undeniably, as a parent is always for the good of their children, but not under the banner of "for your own good" to force too much excessive intervention in the children. And children, when sticking to the principle also need to pay due regard to the wishes of parents. Through this program, can let the reality of the existence of value gap between the family, to a certain extent, to pay attention to the key to their own problems.

The harmonious family culture of the No.5 family is my favorite and the one I aspire to the most. The parents know how to respect their son's wishes very well, and it can be seen that this respect of the parents is natural and not false. The fifth male guest in the parents of respect and enlightenment to choose the first female guest is particularly happy and satisfied, the tacit understanding between the family is particularly poignant. In fact, learning to respect, whether it is in the cultivation of education or children grow up to work and become a family, the impact is crucial. Chinese family education model of the most lack of the most neglected is respect, always do everything for the child, but ignored the child is an independent individual, so as to cause the child to grow up rebellious and antagonistic. Don't feel that respect is indulgence, respect instead can reap the benefits of a more harmonious family relationship.

So, putting aside the Chinese-style matchmaking model and creative matchmaking concepts, the program brings the audience fun and novelty while inadvertently letting the audience think and even reflect on the many typical family problems and issues, which is very relevant.