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Taboo 1: pregnant at the low tide of human circadian rhythm.

Scientific research shows that from birth to the end of life, everyone's body has periodic changes in physical strength, emotion and intelligence, which is human physiological rhythm.

When the human body is in the low tide period of circadian rhythm or the key day of low tide climax, it is prone to fatigue, emotional instability, low efficiency, difficult to concentrate or forget, and poor judgment.

At the same time, the body's resistance drops, and it is easy to be invaded by germs, and the probability of infection increases. At the time of conception, if one of the husband and wife is at the climax and the other is at the low tide, it is easy to give birth to a healthy and intelligent child; If both husband and wife are in the critical period of low tide or between low tide and high tide, it is easy to give birth to children with weak body and mental problems.

Tips for avoiding black pregnancy:

1. Find out the climax time of both husband and wife. Generally speaking, the physical circadian cycle is 23 days, the emotional circadian cycle is 28 days, and the intellectual circadian cycle is 33 days. Every circadian rhythm has a high tide period, a key day and a low tide period. The key day refers to the middle day of each cycle, that is, the key moment of low tide and high tide. The critical days of the three physiological cycles are 1 1.5 days, 14 days and 16.5 days respectively. The first half of the key day is the high tide period, and the second half is the low tide period. If couples can conceive in the climax of three rhythms, the children they give birth to are often healthy and have better intelligence.

2. The rhythm period of human body can be calculated by perpetual calendar. The calculation of human physiological cycle is the total number of days from birth to conception, plus the number of days added in leap year. Then divide by three numbers, 23, 28 and 33 respectively, and you can know which stage of the body is in three rhythm cycles through the remainder obtained. The day when the remainder is equal to the critical day is the critical day, the day when the remainder is less than the critical day is the high tide period, and the day when the remainder is greater than the critical day is the low tide period.

Taboo 2: poor physical and mental health or inappropriate sexual intercourse.

Studies have confirmed that couples are pregnant in the same room when they are not tired and unhappy. This good state of mind and body will make the endocrine system secrete a large number of enzymes, hormones and choline acetate that are beneficial to health, so that both husband and wife are in the best state of physical strength and intelligence. At this time, the sexual function is the most harmonious, and it is very easy to enter orgasm and form excellent fertilized eggs.

On the other hand, physical fatigue or bad mood of husband and wife will affect the vitality of sperm or eggs, which is not conducive to the formation of excellent fertilized eggs, affect the implantation and growth of fertilized eggs, lead to fetal wilting, abortion or affect the development of fetal brain.

Avoid black timetables:

1. A few days before pregnancy, both husband and wife must pay full attention to physical rest and relaxation. At the same time, it is best to stop sexual life for 5-7 days to ensure the vitality of sperm.

2. Before pregnancy, sexual life should not be too frequent or too sparse, which is not conducive to pregnancy. Too many times will make semen thin and sperm quantity small; Too thin will make sperm aging and poor vitality.

Taboo 3: Do not pay attention to let your wife reach orgasm during pregnancy.

Eugenists point out that women can't reach orgasm in sexual life, which is not conducive to the formation of excellent fertilized eggs. Because orgasm will enhance the mobility of sperm in the vagina, at the same time, it is conducive to the storage of semen in the vagina, and also promotes the relaxation and opening of the locked cervix, which is convenient for sperm to enter. In this way, stronger and better sperm and eggs have the opportunity to combine to form excellent fertilized eggs.

Avoid black timetables:

1. When you are pregnant, you can give some stimulation according to the different physiological characteristics of men and women. The best stimulus for men to reach orgasm is vision, which can be deliberately created for their husbands, such as lighting a soft pink lamp in the room; The best stimulus for women to reach orgasm is touch. The husband touches, caresses and kisses his wife's body as much as possible to promote her to reach orgasm.

2. Before my roommate got pregnant, I intentionally put some flowers and soft music in my room. In this way, it will help both husband and wife enter a state of sexual excitement.

Taboo 4: The natural environment is not good for pregnancy.

The human body is a conductor full of electromagnetic fields. Changes in the natural environment, such as solar storms, lightning, landslides, earthquakes, solar eclipses, etc. , will affect the human reproductive cells, such as distortion, so it is not appropriate to conceive at these times. Otherwise, it is easy to give birth to unhealthy children.

Avoid black timetables:

1. Avoid the peak of sunspots. Scientific research believes that sunspots may have a great impact on human body, especially germ cells, which will hinder the implantation and growth of fertilized eggs and even lead to mental retardation after birth. At present, the international unification stipulates that the sunspot period is calculated at 1745 zero. Statistically speaking, it is generally believed that a solar cycle occurs every 1 1.2 years.

2. Every lunar month 14- 16, it is forbidden to get pregnant in the same room. During this period, the moon is the most attractive to the earth, which easily causes human emotional fluctuations and affects the vitality of sperm and eggs.

3. Avoid pregnancy in various natural disasters, such as lightning, landslides, earthquakes or solar eclipses. These natural disasters will produce strong X-rays in nature, which will distort sperm and eggs by irradiation.

Taboo 5: Pregnant after vaginal bleeding after sexual life.

Normal and coordinated sexual life will not cause vaginal bleeding. If vaginal bleeding occurs, it often indicates that there is a disease in the reproductive organs. The most common cause is inflammation of reproductive organs, such as vaginitis and cervical polyps.

If you have trichomonal vaginitis, pregnancy in this case may lead to miscarriage or teratoma in the first trimester, premature rupture of membranes and placental abruption in the second trimester, which will directly cause fetal infection. More seriously, the eyes of the fetus may be infected when passing through the vagina during childbirth, affecting the cornea; If you have fungal vaginitis, the fetus can be infected by mold during delivery and cause thrush after birth; Cervical polyps can tear the cervix during childbirth, leading to bleeding.

Avoid black timetables:

1. If you have vaginal bleeding after sex, you must see a doctor in time.

2. If the above-mentioned diseases exist, active treatment should be carried out before conception, and pregnancy can only be carried out after the diseases are controlled or cured.

Taboo 6: Pregnancy soon after ectopic pregnancy.

Clinical experts say that ectopic pregnancy is ectopic pregnancy. Although ectopic pregnancy is very critical at the onset, many women may still get pregnant again after timely and effective treatment.

Some couples are eager to have children, and often get pregnant in a hurry soon after ectopic pregnancy is cured. However, this will be very dangerous. If the fallopian tube is not completely unblocked, it may lead to ectopic pregnancy again. Data show that the incidence of repeated ectopic pregnancy can reach about 65438 05%.

Avoid black timetables:

1. Women who have suffered from ectopic pregnancy must insist on contraception for a period of time after being completely cured, and don't rush to get pregnant.

2. Before conception, you must go through a doctor's examination to confirm that everything is normal before you can cancel contraceptive measures and consider getting pregnant again.

Taboo 7: Do not pay attention to maternal blood screening after pregnancy.

Eggs age with age, especially after the age of 35, and are easily damaged by virus infection, radiation, noise, microwave radiation, environmental pollution and harmful substances, which greatly increases the probability of forming deformed fertilized eggs.

Avoid black timetables:

1. In addition to avoiding various factors affecting eggs in life, we should also go to the hospital for maternal blood screening at an appropriate time. Maternal blood screening is the first choice for early detection of congenital idiots. Genetics and eugenics experts suggest that it is best for women to have maternal blood screening at 8-9 weeks after conception, especially for pregnant women over 35 years old. This test is safe and non-invasive, and the screening rate can reach 60%-80%.

2. After maternal blood screening, if it is suspected to be congenital stupidity, it can be diagnosed by amniotic fluid diagnosis, with an accuracy rate of 99%, and the pregnancy can be terminated in time.

Seize the opportunity to conceive.

Count 1: Find out the ovulation date through the contraceptive eugenics mirror.

Drop a drop of saliva on the lens with the tip of your tongue every morning, air-dry or bake under the lamp. If you see the image of "sheep teeth", it is the day of ovulation, and such a typical image will only appear during ovulation. This test method is simple and easy to master, and the test results are accurate and fast, so it is a good assistant to grasp the best pregnancy opportunity.

Number 2: Find out the ovulation date through menstrual cycle calculation.

The calculation method of menstrual cycle is only applicable to women with regular menstrual cycle. Methods The ovulation period started from the first day of menstrual cramp, and counted down to 14 2 days. For example, the menstrual cycle is 28 days. If the first day of menstruation is July 28th, then the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th and 6th of this month are ovulation days. These days, women usually have abdominal pain and breast pain.

Number 3: Find out the date of ovulation through the change of vaginal mucus.

Women usually have few and sticky vaginal secretions at the beginning of menstruation. In the middle period of menstruation, that is, 1-2 days before ovulation, the vagina becomes more and more moist, and the secretion is not only increased, but also as clear and transparent as egg white, and a long silk can be pulled out with the touch of your fingertips. The appearance of this leucorrhea indicates that ovulation is about to happen, which usually lasts for 3-5 days. After that, leucorrhea will gradually decrease and become sticky, and it can no longer be extracted.

Number 4: Find out the ovulation date by measuring the basal body temperature.

Before ovulation, the basal body temperature was low, fluctuating between 36.2℃ and 36.6℃. Ovulation is the lowest point of basal body temperature; After ovulation, the basal body temperature rises by about 0.3℃-0.5℃, and continues to drop until the next menstrual cramp. Prepare a thermometer and a basic temperature record (drawing paper can be used instead). Put the thermometer under the pillow before going to bed every day. From the first day of menstruation, after waking up in the morning, do not do any activities, including not talking, not wearing clothes, not drinking water, not urinating, not leaving the ground, directly put the thermometer under the tongue for 5 minutes, connect the daily basal body temperature of each menstrual cycle into a line, and record physical discomfort such as sexual life, insomnia, menstrual period and abdominal pain. Generally speaking, it is necessary to test more than 3 menstrual cycles. From the chart, ovulation time is generally 2-3 days before biphasic body temperature changes.

Taboo 8: Sleeping with your husband during menstruation.

If you are in the same room during menstruation, it will easily lead to impaired female fertility. Because the endometrium peels off one by one during menstruation, if you have sex with others, it is easy to bring germs into the vagina, cervix and uterus, and grow and reproduce in menstrual blood, causing endometritis.

After inflammation spreads through lymphatic vessels, it causes tubal adhesion and occlusion, leading to infertility. Ruptured endometrium will also make menstrual blood flow out, and endometrial debris will flow back to abdominal cavity or fallopian tube with menstrual blood and be planted here, forming endometriosis, and may also form anti-sperm antibodies in the body.

Tips for avoiding black pregnancy:

1. All these conditions can lead to infertility or terrible ectopic pregnancy, especially after anti-sperm immune antibodies are produced, which often leads to intractable infertility. Therefore, you must avoid sharing the same room with your husband during menstruation.

2. Once endometriosis is formed, you should actively seek medical treatment to prevent fertilized eggs from implanting in ectopic endometrium and causing ectopic pregnancy.

Taboo 9: Use drugs at will during pregnancy.

Some drugs that people often use in life may lead to infertility, such as compound sulfamethoxazole used at home to treat respiratory tract or tonsil infection, and sedative sleeping pills such as diazepam and hypnotics that are most commonly used.

However, if these drugs are used before or during pregnancy, some may lead to low sperm motility; Some will lead to ovulation disorders in women; Some lead to loss of sexual desire or impotence, which leads to infertility or the formation of bad fertilized eggs.

Tips for avoiding black pregnancy:

1. If you are going to get pregnant, you'd better pay attention to the drugs that are easy to cause infertility or form bad fertilized eggs and learn more.

2. If you need to use drugs, you must explain to the doctor the situation of preparing for pregnancy that month.

Taboo 10: Do not actively treat varicocele.

Some couples are always unable to conceive children, although there is nothing unusual about their wives after the examination. In fact, it is caused by the husband suffering from varicocele. Clinical data show that about 15% of young men suffer from varicocele.

Varicocele of spermatic vein can affect the spermatogenic function of testis, leading to the decrease of sperm quality and quantity, oligozoospermia or even azoospermia, making it difficult for wife to conceive.

Tips for avoiding black pregnancy:

1. If you have been infertile after marriage, you should seek medical advice as soon as possible.

2. Once diagnosed, actively treat and prepare for pregnancy after the semen quality is obviously improved.

Taboo 1 1, raise your hands over your shoulders, or you will have an abortion easily?

Dr. Qu Qingjian said that pregnant women should try to avoid taking things from high places because of their unstable body shape.

Common items at home are best placed at the same height as pregnant women's shoulders to avoid the accident of falling down with unstable center of gravity. On the difficulty of childbirth from the mother's body shape.

Taboo 12, can't pat pregnant women on the shoulder?

In the early days, it was said that pregnant women were afraid of being scared and causing miscarriage. Dr. Qu Qingjian said that pregnant women are prone to nervousness and irritability during pregnancy, but according to medical reports, the adrenaline secreted by pregnant women when they are nervous will make the fetal movement more intense, which has little effect on the success rate of fertilized eggs implantation.

Taboo 13. If you have a pregnant woman at home, can't you just decorate the house or move?

According to the older generation, it is because moving will disturb the fetal god and it is easy to miscarry. But from the perspective of modern science, moving or decorating a house requires more labor and energy, and heavy objects also need to be moved. For pregnant women with unstable center of gravity, the probability of accidents is relatively high.

Taboo 14, pregnant women can't sew needles and move scissors?

According to tradition, it is said that pregnant women sew with scissors, and the baby born may be defective! Dr. Qu Qingjian said that the baby's defects may be caused by chromosomal abnormalities or other diseases. Pregnant women should have regular prenatal check-ups, maintain physical and mental health, and have a balanced diet, so they can naturally give birth to healthy babies.

Taboo 15, pregnant women can't watch puppet shows, otherwise the baby will be very passive and get rickets in the future?

Dr. Qu Qingjian said that from a scientific point of view, it cannot be proved that puppet shows will have an impact on fetal health. In the case of underdeveloped early medicine, there are quite a few taboos among the people, but in today's developed medicine, many taboos can only be "for reference only"!

Taboo 16, drying clothes leads to abortion?

Dr. Qu Qingjian said that pregnant women naturally have many restrictions on their actions in the third trimester due to changes in body shape, obvious swelling of their stomachs and changes in their center of gravity. For example, they are not suitable for picking things with their toes and carrying too heavy items.

Taboo 17. Pregnant women expect to be in a noisy environment or listen to noisy music. Will the baby cry in the future?

According to scientific research reports, music can really stimulate the baby's brain development, but music with strong sense of rhythm, such as rock music, electronic music and other fast-paced music, will make the fetus excited, nervous and uncomfortable. Dr. Qu Qingjian suggested that it is best to choose natural music, and it is better to give priority to soft melody.

Taboo 18, avoid greasy and irritating food.

Heavy-flavored dishes are fragrant and delicious, but pregnant mothers should avoid eating more! Too greasy food is not easy to digest, and it is easy to aggravate symptoms such as gastrointestinal discomfort and nausea in the first trimester. The district doctor said that pregnant mommy should have a balanced diet and cook as lightly as possible. Foods and spices that are too irritating are easy to stimulate the gastric mucosa and aggravate heartburn in the third trimester.

Taboo 19, avoid raw food and over-processed food.

The district doctor said that pregnant moms should try to avoid unheated food such as sashimi and snail meat, or cooked food sold in the market. Avoid eating stale food contaminated by bacteria, which is harmful to the health of mother and fetus. Regional doctors say that processed foods usually add a lot of salt and sugar. Taking too much salt and treating pregnant mommy with toxemia of pregnancy will aggravate the symptoms of hypertension and edema. If you eat too much carbonated drinks, candy, chocolate, etc. Foods with high calorie but zero nutrition can cause excessive weight gain and overweight.

Taboo 20, avoid alcohol

Alcohol can enter the fetal blood stream through the placenta, leading to abortion and "fetal alcohol syndrome", including low birth weight, delayed growth in the future, mental retardation, and possible heart and brain abnormalities. For the health of the next generation, pregnant women had better not drink alcohol.

Taboo 2 1. Avoid caffeinated drinks, such as tea, coffee and cola.

Because tannic acid in tea will reduce the normal absorption rate of iron in human body, it is easy to cause iron deficiency anemia, so it is best for pregnant mothers not to exceed 2 cups a day. Pregnant mothers who are used to a cup of coffee every day had better choose decaffeinated coffee or drinks. The district doctor suggested that pregnant mothers can use freshly squeezed juice and milk instead of coffee and strong tea, which is healthy and has no burden.

Taboo 22. Anxiety of pregnant women can easily cause emotional problems in children's growth.

Research by British psychiatrists shows that excessive anxiety of pregnant women will not only increase the risk of the fetus, but also make it prone to emotional and behavioral problems in later growth.

Experts in the study of pregnant women 18-32 weeks found that pregnant women with high depression and anxiety will give birth to children with different degrees of behavioral and emotional problems at the age of 4, such as hyperactivity and inattention, and the incidence rate is 2-3 times that of normal people.

Experts believe that anxiety and depression make the endocrine system of pregnant women abnormal. This will have a negative impact on fetal brain development and increase the abnormal probability of children's future development.

Taboo 23. Mental stimulation is the most harmful to pregnant women in the first three months.

American scientists report that through the investigation of pregnant women who have experienced the earthquake with the magnitude of 6.8 1994, it is found that pregnant women in the first three months of pregnancy are more susceptible to mental stimulation than women who have given birth in the middle and late stages of pregnancy, leading to premature delivery.

The survey found that most pregnant women in the first three months of pregnancy gave birth in the 38th week after the earthquake. Pregnant women in the last three months of pregnancy often give birth in the 39th week of pregnancy. It can be seen that mental stimulation is the most harmful to early pregnancy, which is a particularly fragile period.

Taboo 24, pregnant women's emotional tension will lead to an increase in fetal blood pressure.

Australian scientists have shown through experiments on sheep that the mental stress of pregnant women in the early pregnancy, that is, only two days, may also lead to increased fetal blood pressure and renal dysfunction.

Research experts believe that this discovery in sheep is similar to the situation when people encounter mental stress, so it has the same influence on the fetus and will affect its later life. Experts point out that it is important for pregnant women to avoid taking drugs and eating certain foods during pregnancy, but they should also try to avoid mental stress. However, genetic susceptibility to mental stress is a key factor here. In other words, for different people, the forces that cause mental stress are very different.