Marriage in June of the lunar calendar, why does it mean half-moon wife?

What does a half-moon wife mean? A half-moon wife means to avoid getting married in June. Because in southern Fujian, there is an article called "Dictation: A Bitter Half-Moon Wife", which tells that a wife got married in June of the lunar calendar. Soon after the marriage, her husband began to cheat and had a lover outside. Unexpectedly, the wife did not choose to divorce, but to maintain the marriage. She let her husband live with her for the first half of the month, and went out to live with her lover for the second half, and was the wife of the locals for half a month. This has also become a taboo for marriage in southern Fujian, that is, try not to get married in June of the lunar calendar, otherwise the husband may have a big derailment. Of course, this is just folklore. Just listen to it. In fact, there is nothing scientific to pay attention to. However, if one of you attaches great importance to this custom locally, please respect it. Do as Romans do in Rome. We can advance or postpone the wedding, and I believe it will be a more perfect wedding.

What other taboos are there in marriage: 1. Marriage is forbidden in July of the lunar calendar. In July, there is a traditional festival in China, Mid-Autumn Festival, also known as Ghost Festival, and July is also known as Ghost Month. Therefore, according to traditional customs, few people get married in July of the lunar calendar, and ghost month marriage is considered unlucky, which is not conducive to the development of married life in the future.

2, avoid pockets, here refers to the clothes on the wedding day of the bride, avoid wearing clothes with pockets. It is said that if the bride had pockets in her clothes that day, she would take away her family's wealth and wealth. In fact, this statement has attracted little attention now. After all, today's clothes have no pockets for things, and there may be decorative pockets, which are beyond our control. Besides, how much can a pocket hold? Even if it is fake, it is still a family heirloom. You don't have to be too taboo.

It is also a traditional taboo to avoid sending your aunt, but there are not many other customs now. Because aunt and loneliness are homophonic, when the bride becomes a monk, aunt is forbidden to see her off. But! This is just a traditional accent. We think it is of course the best if the whole family is happy at the wedding. It is also impolite for everyone to come out to see the bride off and leave a few aunts.

4, avoid fans, whether it is dowry or bride price, fans are not a common choice. Because of fans and homophones, the meaning in the wedding is not good either. Moreover, it is not suitable for fans as dowry or bride price! We usually choose bedding, home appliances and so on. And the fans are too life-oriented. There are also some places where people present on the wedding day can't fan their fans no matter how hot the weather is. Actually, it's not necessary It is more important for everyone to come to your wedding, or to be happy and harmonious. There is no need to make everyone suffer because of a custom that has no scientific basis.