How to treat the current filial piety culture in China?

In this world, we can't choose to be born, and most others can choose. Traditional culture tells us what filial piety is. With the rapid development of society, filial piety is actually making money to live independently, because making money can solve many problems. Most parents have a low level of education, so their own qualities in all aspects are relatively low and their brains are not enough. Unlike being born in an intellectual family, they are not born in red. Everyone is well educated and trained, and comes from a poor family, so we have to rely on ourselves. If you come from a good family, the starting point is higher than others, and there are many resources, it is easy to achieve your goal. On the contrary, it is too difficult. I can't help it, it's a lifetime blessing, and it's bad luck not to catch up with that good man.

With the industrial revolution of the old state-owned enterprises in the past, people who have not received much education will drink and smoke for a long time, resulting in many people who drink and smoke, don't know what they want, and have too little independent thinking ability. But this generation has caught up with some people, such as welfare housing distribution and planned economy, and achieved its goal and succeeded. However, most of them live in The Shawshank Redemption, divorced from their physique and their fair-weather friends, and they don't even know who they are. This generation seldom thinks about a question, why do I have children and what is the purpose of marriage? Their subconscious is a model of herding.

The low cultural quality of parents actually affects the next generation, and also affects many problems such as entrance examination and job hunting in the future. At that time, parents gave birth to children to support themselves, but now the age is to support the elderly and prevent children, so parents now regard children as a tool to help them solve many problems.

The essence of filial piety is to give unconditional help and unconditional obedience to parents. Just like Tazhai Village, where the movie broke the ice, the clan relationship was win-win, but what they did was very harmful. Filial piety is actually stupid. His thought originated from Confucius, while Christian thought is to leave his parents when he grows up. Some parents are uneducated and have to force their children to obey their own orders, which leads to many problems. Parents receive less education. We received less information and a narrow circle, thinking that we were still heroes of that year. As the saying goes, heroes don't mention courage in those days, times have changed, and parents are still parents. We have become less credulous about any information, because we are already in a world where things have changed, and we are no longer the naive us.

Middle-aged people support the elderly and educate their children for the whole family.

Some parents have no experience in educating their children, do not understand education, disorderly education and blind education. Children are just dolls for parents to vent their emotions. They often criticize children from the highest point of ethics. Is it easy for me to raise a child your age? I don't know if it's easy. Therefore, with the ability of all parties, there will be children. Don't be born without ability. Children born in such inferior families also suffer.