How to be a good man?

In my opinion, a good man should at least have the elements of personality charm, career and family.

Personality charm refers to a person's personality traits. It may include the following:

Love life, have a strong sense of social responsibility and family responsibility; Broad-minded, loving and law-abiding; Have good social morality, family morality and good quality cultivation; Have certain thoughts and talents, and have unique opinions on things; Extremely confident in yourself; Have a high sense of honor and accomplishment; Have certain IQ, EQ, adversity quotient, financial quotient, moral quotient and success quotient; Never flinch in the face of adversity in life, be brave, tenacious and indomitable; I have a fearless spirit towards my life goal, never making any excuses, persevere, work hard and achieve it at all costs. Wait a minute.

Personality is very important in this world. Without this, even if you have a successful career, earn more money and have more advantages than others, you can't be considered excellent. At best, you are only a rich man or a successful person in a certain field.

A man with excellent personality has his own code of conduct in everything, which is not only reflected in right and wrong, but also in the trivial details of daily life.

Followed by career. It doesn't matter if a woman doesn't have a career, but a man doesn't have his own career, which is a terrible thing. China's traditional thought of following customs for 5,000 years has formed our basic thinking of understanding problems today. Just like a girl who is 6 meters tall wants to find a boyfriend who is 7 meters tall instead of a boyfriend who is 5 meters tall or 4 meters tall, the girl wants to be protected by a man instead of protecting him.

The success of a career can be divided into two stages: struggle and success. In today's society, there are many people who struggle and few who succeed. Those who have tried may not be successful, but successful people must have tried. It is not necessarily an excellent man who has a successful career, but an excellent man must have a successful career or be on the way to success.

In men's life, career is one of their important life themes. Working hard to start a business can not only gain economic benefits and solve many problems in real life, but more importantly, through starting a business, we can constantly improve our social status and social value, make our future better and make our loved ones better. This is what they pursue, and this is the meaning of their life.

In a way, successful people also have money. However, having a career means not only money, but also social status and social value. Having money doesn't mean having a career. Making money is just one of the purposes of starting a business, and starting a business is just a process of making money.

Good men don't want to be ordinary. They keep improving and never stop. They use their own sweat to create one peak after another, reflecting their infinitely beautiful life value. Although they have pain and even failure, they are happy, full and happy.

Once again, family. Finding a suitable girl as a wife, establishing a happy marriage and creating a warm and harmonious family depend not only on fate, but also on men's ability to control marriage and family.

A good man can give his wife, children and family a sense of security, both emotionally and financially. The warmth, warmth, harmony and happiness of the family reflect the Excellence of this man, his dedication to this family and his ability to control this family.

A happy marriage environment and family environment are indispensable rear forces for a man to create an outstanding career. He rides in the wind and rain, or gallops in the shopping mall or is smooth in all kinds of complicated interpersonal relationships, all in order to make the people he loves live better.

There have been many scholars' arguments and many wars of words about men's Excellence throughout the ages, but different people have different views all the time, and they have not been able to sum up a universally recognized answer. In my opinion, in addition to the above factors, there are many factors, such as personal image, distinctive personality, special knowledge and talent. This should be what a good man should have.

Of course, good people are still people, not gods. Everyone has his shortcomings, and a good man is no exception. As long as his shortcomings do not affect the overall situation, he can face up to it and try to correct it, then he is worthy of being an excellent man!