The traditional artistic techniques of the host

I read your questions 1 and 2 and found something. I feel that when you are talking, you are always interrupted by others, or your first point of view is not taken seriously, and others say that your previous point of view has been adopted.

See if I know you correctly. Maybe you will feel sorry for my analysis or scold me, but for your own good, I'll help you solve it. I think you should first explore the root of the matter and reflect on yourself. (1) You said that you don't like quiet, so you can say whatever comes to mind. Then I feel that you might like to listen to what you say casually, and others don't feel it at all. You are not on the same channel. Then if the other person is not interested in your topic, why talk about it? Someone is sure to interrupt you. So, to be honest, everyone is paying attention.

(2) You said that it is not easy for everyone to agree with your correct point of view, so I will take a stand for you. I know you should be very sad, but when the problem happens, let's solve it. You're not recognized. Are you down there? 1 You usually talk too much, making others think that you have no theme, and all interesting and meaningful things are worthless; That is, will you lack expression, be impatient, be unclear in logic, and not argue irrationally?

No one is born with a good eloquence. There is no absolute measure of a person's eloquence. Some people think they are eloquent, but some people don't like it. Some people just say a few words, while others say they can talk. The key is to see how our audience reacts to us.

Now let me talk about my personal experience. I used to be frivolous, impatient, disorganized, well-organized, unclear in logic and uninspiring in my speech. However, I didn't notice it myself and no one told me. Whenever I speak, I find that my words and stories are not infectious, others don't like them, and they are often interrupted. In the end, even the girls I like hate me. This incident has hit me so hard that I have to change myself. So I seldom talk all day. I practice my appearance, eyes, standing posture and gestures. I must think about whether it is appropriate to speak again. I exercise my eloquence, I recite stories, and then listen to them with my good friends, to exercise my speech appeal, sense of hierarchy and logical ability. After a long time, I broke through myself and changed myself.

So what I have done above can provide you with reference, hoping to break through myself. Speaking is being a man, remember. There are thousands of glasses of wine for every confidant and more than half a sentence for lovers. Want to know more, I suggest you search Zhang's magical eloquence training institution and Zhang's personal website.

Wish you success!