China has a tradition of bringing up obedient children. Is it a success or a failure for children to obey?

I think obedience is success. I think parents in this family can give their children proper freedom and let them have their own ideas, but at some important nodes, children must listen to their parents' suggestions. Many children always follow their own logic and don't listen to their parents, but children have too little experience and are prone to make mistakes. However, many children's behavior in adolescence is impulsive, and as a result, they regret their youthful impulses for life when they grow up.

Children's obedience does not mean blindly listening to their parents' opinions. In fact, today's children are exposed to a lot of knowledge through the internet, and in some ways they may know more than their parents. Many children obey because they think their parents are reasonable. When children are young, they don't know this society deeply enough and need the guidance and help of their parents. If children are disobedient, they are likely to go astray and form some bad habits.

Children's obedience may be smoother. After all, his parents have experienced a lot, and he knows when and what to do. However, these children don't know that if they are allowed to decide their own lives, the final result may be different. Some children believe that reading is useless, and as a result, they drop out of school very early and then work hard at the bottom all their lives. Some of their experiences can correct their mistakes in time and give their children a better future. Parents don't want their children to be obedient, but they want their children to be obedient.

Children's obedience will reduce many unnecessary family conflicts, especially when children enter adolescence and are eager for independence, hoping to get respect and understanding from their parents. I don't think this is a problem, but you must not make some extreme behaviors. You must listen to the opinions of some parents. Many children are too young and lack energy, and often make some mistakes, which may even affect their future. In fact, children are more obedient and feel more secure for them.