What are Peacock Girl and Phoenix Man?

What do you mean by Phoenix Man and Peacock Girl?

"Phoenix Man" refers to a boy who was born in the countryside and most of his family were poor. He studies hard, works hard in the city, and stands in the city by his own ability. Generally, they have a good job, form a family with city girls, and gradually integrate into city life, becoming what people call "golden phoenix flying out of the ravine".

Phoenix man has a spirit of self-reliance, hard work and enterprising, and is easily valued by teachers and bosses. He has made achievements in his studies and career and has become a leader among his peers. They are admired and admired by the villagers because they are admitted to the university and rooted in the city. However, their life in the city is often very difficult, and they need constant efforts to maintain their glamorous image in front of everyone.

Compared with "Phoenix Man", city girl, who has superior conditions, also has a unified name after marriage, that is "Peacock Woman". Peacock girls are mostly born in big cities, and their living and growing environment is superior. They grew up under the care of their parents. They were born in a honeypot in Jiao Jiao, and they have never experienced great storms. Since childhood, their lives have been smooth sailing, with almost no setbacks.

Peacock girl lacks understanding of rural life and has simple interpersonal relationship. Most "Peacock Women" don't understand the importance of money because of their good family conditions, so they seldom regard men's economic strength as the primary criterion in love and marriage. They yearn for pure love, pay more attention to men's ability and pay attention to men's sense of family responsibility.

Due to the differences in growth background, family conditions and living habits, there are often various problems in love, marriage and family between Peacock Men born in 1980s and Fung Wong-Nui.

Phoenix men often feel guilty about their parents, brothers and sisters, even the whole village and family, which leads to a strong sense of responsibility. They think it is their bounden duty to improve their lives, otherwise they will be "heartless" or "ungrateful" and will be poked by the villagers. Driven by this idea, Phoenix Man can easily ignore his wife's feelings. The wife was born in a family with superior conditions, and her interpersonal relationship is relatively simple. She has never met with many relatives. Once she is dissatisfied with this endless hometown subsidy, it is easy to cause family conflicts.

In addition, Phoenix men grew up in rural areas, mostly influenced by the feudal ideology of son preference. When they have children, they expect more boys. If you are not born as expected, your parents will be disappointed and you will think your wife is "disappointing". Peacock girl grew up in the city and felt that boys and girls were the same. Under the influence of different thoughts of both sides, it is easy for both sides to have conflicts and cause family tragedies.

Peacock girl grew up in a honey pot and spent a lot of money. Phoenix man suffered a lot from snacks and finally achieved something. He works hard with his own hands. He often feels that today's life is hard-won, and he will continue to maintain frugality and other habits in his life. However, it is difficult for a peacock girl with a well-off family to understand the Phoenix man's desire for wealth and cherish what he has. After marriage, there will be obvious differences in consumption concepts between the two sides, and a series of internal family contradictions will inevitably occur.

What do you mean by Phoenix Man and Peacock Girl?

"Peacock girl" refers to a woman who has a princess dream in her heart and hopes to live a better life. They are very independent, have their own values, know how to live, pursue happiness, and can suffer now for tomorrow. Men who know them will think they are sincere and strong, while men who don't know them will say they are greedy and superficial.

What exactly is "Phoenix Man"? What is "Peacock Girl"?

Phoenix man definition

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The so-called "Phoenix Man" refers to a man who gathers the strength of the whole family, works hard for more than ten years, and finally becomes "golden phoenix flies out of the mountain nest", thus bringing hope to a family transformation. After they entered the city, they married a peacock girl (synonymous with city girl) and lived a city life. However, due to the brand left by their original rural identity, their love, marriage and family with Peacock Girl have caused various problems.

Interpretation of Phoenix Man

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Phoenix man, as its name implies, "a golden phoenix flies out of a ravine" refers to those men who came from poor families (especially in rural areas) and went to college through hard work and stayed in the city to work and live after graduation. The cruelty and hardship of life left a deep imprint on their hearts, which made them generally have the spirit of hard work that people with good family circumstances do not have, and also brought them career development. But when they choose the urban women around them and join hands with them to enter the marriage hall, many negative factors appear.

For example (this is made up by people with ulterior motives, and our rural children are not so poor), they often feel very guilty about their parents (some of whom include brothers and sisters, and even the whole village and family) who have worked so hard for their education, and thus derive a strong sense of responsibility, thinking that improving their lives is their unshirkable responsibility, otherwise they will be "ungrateful" and will be "stabbed in the back" Once the wife is dissatisfied with this endless subsidy, the small family will inevitably set off a storm.

For another example (this is sheer nonsense, most people who care about their children now are city people), men who grew up in rural areas are inevitably influenced by feudal ideas that prefer sons to daughters, and some have three or four or even seven or eight sisters. They have witnessed how generations of rural people are desperate to "spread incense" since childhood. With children, they care more about the gender of their wives' babies. If you are not born as expected, your parents are disappointed and you think your wife is "disappointing". It's better to advise you to have a second child, and what's more, you are cruel to your mother or even domestic violence, resulting in the tragedy of one family after another.

Judging from the posting on the Internet, most of the people who denounced "Phoenix Man" were "Peacock Women". These people spend enough time online and are good at weaving emotional stories. So after a few strong posts, "Phoenix Man" naturally became a "rat crossing the street, and everyone shouted".

They think that "Phoenix Man" is self-abased, difficult to serve, and too concerned about his parents, which breeds two concepts of "discrimination against women" and "extended family" and becomes the chief culprit in destroying marriage. In this regard, someone came out and retorted: "How many Phoenix men have you contacted? Is it true that there is no marriage breakdown and domestic violence for peacock women to find peacock men? " It can be seen that the fundamental reason why this urban-rural marriage is easy to break down lies in the different living backgrounds of both parties, not just the responsibility of one person.

As we all know, after 1958, China's urban-rural dual household registration system gradually formed, which not only absorbed rural resources in the form of "scissors difference" economically, but also created two national identities politically, providing the soil for ethnic discrimination.

In fact, ethnic discrimination has a long history in China, the most famous of which is the discrimination of Shanghainese against foreigners. There are both economic and psychological factors here, so some people say that the arrogance of Shanghainese is the loss of self-knowledge caused by the sudden expansion of the economy, while the discrimination of Shanghainese is a vicious extension of self-protection consciousness after being ravaged by foreign powers for one or two hundred years. Some scholars classify this mentality as "Central Plains mentality". To put it bluntly, it is to devalue and solidify ethnic groups that are not as good as their own in some way to maintain their dominant position.

In a word, from the popular "hillbilly" a few years ago to the popular "Phoenix man" today, the discrimination of urban people against rural people has retreated from "appearance" to "heart", which shows that its rationality is gradually weakening. However, the soil of discrimination has not been completely removed, so when we inadvertently touch that "discrimination nerve", please don't forget to be alert to the "Central Plains mentality"!

Characteristics of Phoenix Man

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1, poor family, phoenix in the mountain nest.

2. Smart and hard work can turn smart into a phoenix.

All the achievements of Phoenix Man are made by himself.

4. Being stingy with what you have and afraid of losing everything and returning to the original shape.

I will constantly calculate my efforts and gains. In other words >>

What are Peacock Girl and Phoenix Man?

Phoenix man definition

The so-called "Phoenix Man" refers to a man who gathers the strength of the whole family, works hard for more than ten years, and finally becomes "golden phoenix flies out of the mountain nest", thus bringing hope to a family transformation. After they entered the city, they married a peacock girl (synonymous with city girl) and lived a city life. However, due to the brand left by their original rural identity, their love, marriage and family with Peacock Girl have caused various problems.

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Interpretation of Phoenix Man

Phoenix man, as its name implies, "a golden phoenix flies out of a ravine" refers to those men who came from poor families (especially in rural areas) and went to college through hard work and stayed in the city to work and live after graduation. The cruelty and hardship of life left a deep imprint on their hearts, which made them generally have the spirit of hard work that people with good family circumstances do not have, and also brought them career development. However, when they choose the urban women around them and join hands with them to enter the marriage hall, many negative factors appear.

For example, they often have a heavy sense of guilt about their parents (including brothers and sisters, even the whole village and family) who have worked so hard to provide them with education, and thus derive a strong sense of responsibility, thinking that improving their lives is the unshirkable responsibility of themselves and their wives, otherwise they will be "ungrateful" and will be "poked in the spine". Driven by this idea, the interests of small families, the mood of wives,

For another example, men who grew up in rural areas are inevitably influenced by feudal ideas that favor boys over girls. Some of them have three or four or even seven or eight sisters. They have witnessed how desperate generations of rural people are about "spreading incense" since childhood. When they have children, they have unrealistic expectations about the gender of the children in their wives' bellies. If they are not born as expected, their parents will be disappointed.

Judging from the posting on the Internet, most of the people who denounced "Phoenix Man" were "Peacock Women". These people spend enough time online and are good at weaving emotional stories. So after a few strong posts, "Phoenix Man" naturally became a "rat crossing the street, and everyone shouted".

They think that "Phoenix Man" is self-abased, difficult to serve, and too concerned about his parents, which breeds two concepts of "discrimination against women" and "extended family" and becomes the chief culprit in destroying marriage. In this regard, someone came out and retorted: "How many Phoenix men have you contacted? Is it true that there is no marriage breakdown and domestic violence for peacock women to find peacock men? " It can be seen that the fundamental reason why this urban-rural marriage is easy to break down lies in the different living backgrounds of both parties, not just the responsibility of one person.

As we all know, after 1958, China's urban-rural dual household registration system gradually formed, which not only absorbed rural resources in the form of "scissors difference" economically, but also created two national identities politically, providing the soil for ethnic discrimination.

Peacock girl

"Peacock girl" grew up in a big city and often spoiled a rich girl. They are deeply loved by their parents and have never suffered anything since childhood. They are simple in heart, with clothes to reach out, food to open their mouths, and food and clothing to worry about. They don't need to please anyone, compliment anyone, or make their minds happy.

Some "Peacock Girls" never know the importance of money, and they don't take a man's economic strength as the primary inspection content when choosing a spouse. They admire and yearn for pure love, pay more attention to men's ability and pay attention to men's sense of family responsibility. In their innocent hearts, money is like dirt. They are convinced that as long as people have the ability, they can create money and life. This is also the reason why "Peacock Girl" falls in love with "Phoenix Man". The so-called "Phoenix Man" refers to the rural boy who has been suffering from the cold window for more than ten years and jumped out of the mountain nest. They went to the city to marry their wives, but because of the brand left by their rural status, they had various contradictions with the city girl Peacock in love, marriage and family.

But some "Peacock Girls" like to "show off" intentionally or unintentionally. They are vain, materialistic, supercilious, critical, creative and narrow-minded. They wear a deliberate "style", a famous brand and a gold card. Spending so much money will make ends meet one day! ...& gt& gt

What is Phoenix Man? Peacock girl?

Recently, there was a discussion about "Phoenix Man" on the Internet.

The so-called "Phoenix Man" refers to a man who gathers the strength of the whole family, works hard for more than ten years, and finally becomes "golden phoenix flies out of the mountain nest", thus bringing hope to a family transformation. After they enter the city, they can generally marry city wives and live a city life. However, due to the brand of their original rural identity, their love, marriage and family problems with Peacock Girl, a city girl, have arisen.

Judging from the posting on the Internet, most of the people who denounced "Phoenix Man" were "Peacock Women". These people spend enough time online and are good at weaving emotional stories. So after a few strong posts, "Phoenix Man" naturally became a "rat crossing the street, and everyone shouted".

They think that "Phoenix Man" is self-abased and proud, difficult to serve, and too concerned about his parents, which breeds two concepts of "discrimination against women" and "big family" and becomes the chief culprit in breaking up bad marriages. In this regard, someone came out and retorted: "How many Phoenix men have you contacted? Is it true that there is no marriage breakdown and domestic violence for peacock women to find peacock men? " It can be seen that the fundamental reason why this urban-rural marriage is easy to break down lies in the different living backgrounds of both parties, not just the responsibility of one person.

As we all know, after 1958, China's urban-rural dual household registration system gradually formed, which not only absorbed rural resources in the form of "scissors difference" economically, but also created two national identities politically, providing the soil for ethnic discrimination.

In fact, ethnic discrimination has a long history in China, the most famous of which is the discrimination of Shanghainese against foreigners. There are both economic and psychological factors here, so some people say that the arrogance of Shanghainese is the loss of self-knowledge caused by the sudden expansion of the economy, while the discrimination of Shanghainese is a vicious extension of self-protection consciousness after being ravaged by foreign powers for one or two hundred years. Some scholars classify this mentality as "Central Plains mentality". To put it bluntly, it is to devalue and solidify ethnic groups that are not as good as their own in some way to maintain their dominant position.

In a word, from the popular "hillbilly" a few years ago to the popular "Phoenix man" today, the discrimination of urban people against rural people has retreated from "appearance" to "heart", which shows that its rationality is gradually weakening. However, the soil of discrimination has not been completely removed, so when we inadvertently touch that "discrimination nerve", please don't forget to be alert to the "Central Plains mentality"!

Phoenix man and peacock woman: a positive word or a negative word?

derogatory term

"Peacock girl" grew up in a big city and often spoiled a rich girl. They are deeply loved by their parents and have never suffered anything since childhood. They are simple in heart, with clothes to reach out, food to open their mouths, and food and clothing to worry about. They don't need to please anyone, compliment anyone, or make their minds happy.

Some "Peacock Girls" never know the importance of money, and they don't take a man's economic strength as the primary inspection content when choosing a spouse. They admire and yearn for pure love, pay more attention to men's ability and pay attention to men's sense of family responsibility. In their innocent hearts, money is like dirt. They are convinced that as long as people have the ability, they can create money and life. This is also the reason why "Peacock Girl" falls in love with "Phoenix Man". The so-called "Phoenix Man" refers to the rural boy who has been suffering from the cold window for more than ten years and jumped out of the mountain nest. They went to the city to marry their wives, but because of the brand left by their rural status, they had various contradictions with the city girl Peacock in love, marriage and family.

But some "Peacock Girls" like to "show off" intentionally or unintentionally. They are vain, materialistic, supercilious, critical, creative and narrow-minded. They wear a deliberate "style", a famous brand and a gold card. If you spend so much money, you will make ends meet one day!

"Phoenix Man" refers to a man from a rural or poor family, who gathered the strength of the whole family and worked hard for more than ten years, and finally "flew out of golden phoenix in the mountain nest", thus bringing hope to a family transformation. After they entered the city, they married a peacock girl (synonymous with city girl) and lived a city life. However, due to the brand left by their original rural identity, their love, marriage and family with Peacock Girl have caused various problems.

Phoenix man's characteristics:

1, poor family, phoenix in the mountain nest.

2. Smart and hard work can turn smart into a phoenix.

All the achievements of Phoenix Man are made by himself.

4. Being stingy with what you have and afraid of losing everything and returning to the original shape.

5, will continue to calculate their own efforts and gains, in other words, they pay only to get.

The key problem of Phoenix Man is inferiority complex. This problem is not big, but it is difficult to deal with. It is often the root of contradictions, but it is often hidden deep. In the face of an inferiority complex, everything you do will be wrong. If you hold him high, he will become arrogant and forget that he is different. Despising him will cause strong dissatisfaction and produce explosive uncontrollable emotions and consequences.

What does it mean to marry Peacock Girl or Phoenix Man?

This is a common saying formed in a place.

In other words, you can't marry a coquettish woman or a man who looks like a phoenix.

In fact, it means that marrying a simple and inner person is more stable and won't go out to show off.

What do you mean by Phoenix Man and Peacock Girl?

Phoenix man refers to a top student who comes out of the countryside to study or struggle. There may be only one or two in a village. They are the pride of the village. They are talented and live in big cities, but their childhood life is generally bitter and difficult along the way, but they are similar to successful and married women in cities.

Peacock girl refers to the kind who lives in the city since childhood, with a good family, superior life and no burden.

In fact, these two are relative, because it is often the peacock girl who has a crush on the Phoenix man and must marry him. However, after marriage, she couldn't stand the drag of the man's rural family or the man's village, which gave birth to many grievances.

What do you mean by Phoenix Man and Peacock Girl? Why don't good girls marry Phoenix men?

Men and women born in poverty are both Phoenix men and Peacock women ... They are born in different families and have different habits in all aspects, so it is easy to have problems after marriage. So good women don't marry Phoenix men.