What does it mean to be "gentle" and "understanding"? How do you call it "virtuous"?

The word "gentle" is often used to describe a person who is gentle and considerate in nature. Gentleness is an ability that cold and selfish people cannot learn. Gentleness is a quality, it is always naturally revealed, with the human nature, can not be hidden and can not be pretended, gentleness is a feeling, all the beautiful words can not replace the feeling. At the same time, "Gentleness" is also used as the title of the song. Tenderness is a virtue and a power. It can blow away the sorrows and troubles in people's hearts like the spring breeze, and bring happiness and joy to people; it is also like a clear stream, watering the tree of friendship and the flower of friendship, making everything beautiful and harmonious. When a wonderful girl faces her beloved, when a young mother faces her own child, her heart can not help but be filled with tenderness. "Good understanding" as the name suggests is very understanding, very considerate of people, learn to think differently. Good: good at. Understand: to understand. People: others. Idea: meaning, idea. Understand mutual acceptance, cooperation and rapport. Respect others' strengths and talents, and tolerate their temperaments and personalities. With others, it is entirely about appreciating the good things about them and not counting their shortcomings, or the things that don't go well with them. When you can't understand, try to understand; if you can't understand, accept it calmly.

A virtuous wife and mother is a traditional Chinese value, a virtuous woman must first learn to be virtuous first? Understanding the right values is called Xian, and Xian means knowing right from wrong and responsibility. Why does a girl need a little bit of Xian? If a boy in the work if there is a right and wrong time, if a wife at the critical moment a nudge, a word, will let him less detour, will bear less frustration. Benefit is the concept of life, benefit others, a wife is for a family in silence, men and women are to pay as a standard, are built on the basis of pay, the correct concept of love is to pay. Many girls are more emotional, but must understand the right and wrong basis to talk about feelings. Xue Baochai is a girl who understands right and wrong, so everyone reads Dream of the Red Chamber and likes Xue Baochai, but not Lin Daiyu, because Xue Baochai understands right and wrong, so everyone likes her, a girl if she can understand right and wrong? If a girl is able to understand right and wrong? If her values are clear and her standards are clear, then this girl must be a woman who is liked and must be a happy woman. A confused woman, a woman who does not know right from wrong, she must be the cause of family tragedy. And a successful man must have a virtuous woman behind him, not a woman behind him. What do girls call a phase to teach their children? Girls should be clear about what to phase? Teach what? Women need to make clear the "good standard" for girls, so that they can realize their potential and the meaning of life will change. Every man is good, the key is whether you can see his good, a good man because he has a virtuous woman behind him. If you can not read the virtuous, even if you find a fine man, this fine man will be ruined in your hands. Motivated and responsible? Such a man is the ideal man, is a diamond in the rough, need women to carry out the carving of the diamond.