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In life, social etiquette has become an indispensable part of us, and mastering good social etiquette knowledge is a necessary paving stone for our success.

Let's talk about personal etiquette first

First, decoration and clothing.

Beautification means that women should not be too gorgeous and dazzling. I don't think there are many opportunities for you to go to the interview like this. Because you are here to work, be solemn and don't give people a sense of floating. I don't think it's a good idea not to wear makeup. At the very least, I should wear some light makeup, which is also a way to respect others. Think about whether dressing up neatly makes others look comfortable! Do you think if an old farmer and a man in a suit and tie came to negotiate with you, would you choose that man in a suit and tie?

During the interview, someone said, "When interviewing, don't you just put on new clothes from the inside out, dress neatly that day, and then go to the hair salon for a haircut?" In fact, it is wrong to do so. First, people will know that you are ready in advance at a glance. Sometimes Lian Gang's hair gel is still on your head, and you can tell at a glance that you just came out of the hair salon. Second, because you just put on new clothes, everything is new and you will feel very uncomfortable, so you'd better put them on one or two days in advance and get used to them. That means preparing for the interview one or two days in advance.

Bring more resumes when you interview, because the resumes you gave to the interviewer have been booked into a thick dozen. He needs to look at your resume and rummage through it to find it. At this time, you should take out your prepared resume and give it to him. He will feel very comfortable. After the interview, you should write a letter of thanks to the interviewer. Although many people generally don't write now, it's etiquette. I still hope that everyone will write it. If you don't think others can write, will it attract your attention if you write? When interviewing or meeting, bring a notebook with delicate leather and a good pen. Don't just find a notebook or pen.

Go half an hour before the interview. Familiar with their front desk. The front desk is the key person. Ask for more information about interviewing your supervisor. Such as address, etc. Once, a Ms. Wang received a phone call and said, Hello, this is Wang Hao from xx Company. Please come to our company for an interview at nine tomorrow. The next day, he arrived at 8: 30 and chatted with the receptionist for a while. The waiter made a phone call and said, "Mr. Wang, Miss Wang has arrived." Then she realized that it was Mr. Wang who called her Before that, she regarded this man as a nobody. Because what people usually say is what little people or employees do. So when she went in for an interview, she said hello! Manager Wang. Imagine if she said, hello, Wang Hao! What does Mr. Wang think? "Miss Wang" has been calling for several years and is used to it. Can he get used to suddenly calling him Wang Hao?

Second, introduce yourself.

You should be prepared: on less important occasions. For example, on the train and other occasions, just say your name and don't report your position.

Work style: Hello, I am the manager of xx Company.

Communication: Hello, I'm xx. Please take care of me or give me a business card. More casual.

Etiquette: such as opening ceremony, flag-raising ceremony, etc. More solemn.

Third, the eyes

Time: When talking to someone for 30 minutes, if the other person only looks at you for 10 minutes, it means that he is belittling you. If 10 minutes to 20 minutes, it means that he is very friendly to you. 20 minutes to 30 minutes explain two situations: First, pay attention. Second, hostility. That is, when talking with others, keep your eyes on 2/3 of the conversation time.

Location: On the forehead, it belongs to the official gaze. Things that are not too important will not take long.

On the eyes, it belongs to attention gaze.

Eye-to-lip is a social gaze.

From the eyes to the chest, it is an intimate gaze.

Angle: Head-up, which means equality. Squinting is rude.

Looking down: looking down from above, looking down on others.

Fourth, face.

Sometimes frown, indicating no resistance. Pursed lips indicate anger. "oh" Express surprise!

Verb (abbreviation for verb) smile

Learn to smile. Smiling is very important. Who likes to face a person who laughs coldly every day Just like the staff of savings offices and banks, when you go to withdraw money, are they cold and have no smile at all? It's like someone owes them something. It doesn't feel good. In fact, this is their occupational disease, and they are used to it. Let me tell you a story:

In the past, a company asked its employees to get an important material, but they were all scolded back. The boss gave this task to Xiao Li, and Xiao Li was very anxious! But it's not enough not to take this material, so I went anyway. At that time, I saw that the section chief was still swearing. At this time, Xiao Li said nothing, just smiled, or smiled and said, "Oh? So what? Really? " Just nod and smile. Later, Wu Kechang scolded for a while, and Xiao Li said, "Wu Kechang, you are good at expressing your inner anger!" . Later, Wu Kechang looked at Xiao Li and said, "Well! This young man is good! I won't embarrass you, just take it back! " In this way, he got what others didn't get.

6. Body language to be avoided.

When talking with people, don't cross your hands, shake your body, lean to the left for a while, lean to the right for a while, or touch your hair, ears and nose, which gives people the feeling of impatience. I was playing with a pen while I was talking. Some people especially like to spin pens, as if to show off. Look how cool I am! Don't press the pen back and forth. Although it is ok to talk with peers, it is impolite to do so when talking with elders.

Let's talk about the basic etiquette of visiting first.

Most people in China are very hospitable. It is such a delight to have friends coming so far. For visitors, whether they are booked or not, the first thing is the basic etiquette of visiting guests.

Being a guest has different situations: visiting for the first time, visiting old friends, being invited to an appointment, asking for help, etc. So the manners are slightly different. However, no matter what the situation, as a guest, we should think of the host. When the guest is at home, it will bring less inconvenience to the host, and there are some roughly the same etiquette to follow. (1) Pay attention to the choice of time. Generally speaking, when you visit someone, you should choose a good time in advance. It is not appropriate to choose busy farming or three meals, and it is not too late at night. Holidays and weekends are good times to visit, but if you don't have an appointment, don't rush. The host usually has other plans at these times. It is most polite to make an appointment in advance. Try not to be an uninvited guest and come uninvited. For scheduled visits, both hosts and guests should be punctual, keep their appointments and keep their promises. Guests should arrive on time or a little earlier. If you can't keep the appointment due to special circumstances, you should try to inform the other party. It is very impolite to cancel the appointment silently. (2) Pay attention to the choice of clothes. A general visit is neat, simple and generous, and does not need to be too gorgeous. It is disrespectful to the host not to trim the margins. Celebrating a happy event must be taken seriously. (3) Knock at the door or ring the doorbell. Knocking on the door should have a sense of rhythm, not light or heavy, not urgent or slow, and it is advisable to knock two or three times. Don't break into an unlocked or open door. It is impolite to surprise the host. It's best to wait for the person to visit to enter the room before taking a seat. If you need to wait for a long time, you can sit down and talk to the receptionist or read some books such as newspapers, books and magazines. People who want to visit should stand up and say hello. No matter how urgent the matter is and how tight the visit time is, you can only greet each other at the door, don't talk about the topic, and talk about it after entering the room, otherwise it will leave an immature impression on the other party. Those who want to wear slippers should change at the door and say hello to their families. It is impolite not to say hello. (4) Thank the host for his warm hospitality. When the host provides tea, candy and other snacks, he should get up or lean over to take it and say "thank you". If he offers cigarettes, he should politely refuse. (5) In the process of conversation, we should pay attention to the etiquette and skills of conversation, keep the conversation short and say less negative and boring words. Be good at listening, respond positively and don't interrupt others' conversation at will. Guests should not look around the host's house. Don't walk into the master's bedroom unless invited by the master. (6) Grasp the best time to leave. General visit, the time should not be too long, nor should it be rushed. Generally, half an hour to an hour is appropriate. If it is a business or official visit, the length of time can be decided according to needs. It is better for guests to leave after the conversation with the host has reached a climax, or when a new guest comes, if the host feels tired during the conversation or his family reminds him that he has something urgent to do, it is more appropriate to leave at an appropriate time. When you leave, you should thank your host and family for their hospitality. If the host family has elders, you should leave them. To sum up, as a guest, the basic etiquette should be summarized as follows: make an appointment in advance, don't be an uninvited guest; Come as scheduled, don't be a guest who stood me up; Be polite and don't be a rude guest; Dress neatly and don't be a slovenly guest; Dignified and polite, don't be a vulgar guest; Leave at the right time and don't be a difficult guest.

There are still many places in social etiquette that we need to learn. We should constantly improve ourselves and enrich ourselves.