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The composition of "filial piety"
Chapter 1: Filial piety
Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Filial piety has always been praised by people, especially in the Han Dynasty, when filial piety and honesty became the standard recommended by literati as officials, which was called the "checkpoint system". According to historical records, Cao Cao was a lean man in the history of China. He entered the official career through "raising filial piety" and finally established his own empire-Wei State. Because the "checkpoint system" is the only way for a scholar-bureaucrat to be an official, the implementation of this system has greatly promoted people's pursuit of filial piety, incorruptibility, especially filial piety, and filial piety such as "sleeping on the ice for carp" has also been interpreted by people.
Apollo once made a mistake and was beaten up by his mother with a wooden stick. Apollo wept bitterly. Mom asked, "I didn't see you cry when I hit you before." Why are you crying today? "He replied," I was very painful when you hit me before, but it doesn't hurt today. "Maybe it's mom. You are old and weak, and you have no strength. I cried when I thought about it! "
This story from Han Shi Zhuan is a model of filial piety, which is very touching to read. When Apollo was beaten by his mother, he was concerned about her old age and wept bitterly for it, which showed his filial piety to her. Thus, in ancient times, filial piety was also a realm.
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Walking in the street, you can often see some old people. They are in rags, either pedaling tricycles or carrying snakeskin bags, wandering in the streets, picking up discarded beverage bottles, or rummaging through the garbage for available "resources", with stiff and numb movements.
Are they all lonely old people without relatives? Of course not. In fact, there are many elderly people whose children are still "alive". To be precise, they did a good job. But that's just their child. As for them? A small number were sent to nursing homes. The rest, what you saw on the street. They wandered in the streets and formed a "unique" landscape in the city.
I suddenly remembered a TV documentary I had seen. In the film, the seriously ill old man is transferred from the hospital to his home because he has no money for treatment, and he lies in bed in great pain. However, the three children of the old man argued endlessly about the medical expenses of the old man outside the house, and even talked about how to deal with the funeral of the old man. They quarreled so fiercely that they even got into a fight in the end, only to be pulled away by their neighbors. In the room, facing the camera, the old man said with tears: "I still have thousands of private money." Use this money for the funeral! " Please persuade them to stop arguing. They are all my own flesh and blood! "His voice is sad and touching.
Finally, the old man died suddenly in bed with tears of concern in his eyes. The reporters were silent, and the room was silent, except for the constant noise and curses from outside.
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Mom bathed you from childhood to adulthood. Have you washed her feet? Your father raised you from an early age. Have you ever brought him a bowl of soup yourself? When prisoners chew the seeds peeled by their mothers, and when frustrated sons cry on their fathers' shoulders, do they ever feel their parents' deep love for them? This kind of love should not be unilateral, but should act as the best lubricant for the relationship between parents and children together with filial piety. However, in today's highly developed material civilization, filial piety unconsciously lags behind the pace of history. Although many of the top ten people who touch China every year are the most filial, for the whole society, filial piety has gradually drifted out of the mainstream and faded out of people's sight. Its savings of thousands of years have also been washed away by the flood of material. Just like a declining aristocrat, watching the changes of the times, losing power, but powerless. Perhaps it struggled to catch up with the bright and sad footsteps of the post-80s, but watched the post-90s ride away on the Happy Ferris wheel.
However, we can say with certainty that the return of filial piety is a historical necessity. Although temporarily out of the mainstream, in the end, it will return to the mainstream. I hope that when it gets on the last bus of Happiness, it can see people after 00 waving to it.
Filial piety is a traditional virtue of our Chinese nation for thousands of years. There is an ancient saying: "Filial piety is the first virtue". Nowadays, social trends are changing faster and faster. Some people are influenced by social trends, and many elderly people are abandoned and abused by their children for various reasons. But have these people who are not filial to the elderly ever thought that your parents not only gave birth to you, but also worked hard to raise you? They contain you, guide you and help you with endless maternal love. Now that they are old, you can't even do basic care and support?
I have read two stories. The first story mainly tells that there is a blind and deaf old man whose knees are shaking all the time. His son's daughter-in-law kicked him off the table and made him eat with a board. The old man's grandson saw it and wanted to make a bowl with wooden boards for his parents to use when they were old. When the parents knew it, they realized that they were wrong and took the old man to the dinner table to have dinner with them. The second story is about a man who hates his father so much that he lets him go out with a blanket. At this moment, his dumb son actually said, "Dad, you don't need to give grandpa a blanket. Just give him half a blanket. Please put away the remaining half. I can give it to you when I grow up and let you go outside. " The child's parents realized their mistakes and quickly retained the old father.
From these two stories, we can see that parents are role models for children, so when parents do all kinds of things, please consider: "Will it have a bad influence on children if I do this?" It can also be seen that parents must respect.
I once saw such a case on TV programs reported by the legal system. A man drove his 80-year-old father into a cabin with no food or drink. The old man survived with the help of his neighbors. I was very angry after reading it. All elders should be respected, let alone their own parents. Now, in order to protect the legal rights of the elderly, many relevant laws have been promulgated. But I believe that the elderly prefer to see the true feelings revealed naturally, rather than the family affection forced by law.
Here, I appeal to those who don't care about the elderly: "care about your parents, they have paid too much for you!" "
Chapter III: Filial Piety of Virtues Article 1 As a vast country, China has a population of1400 million. As an ancient nation, the Chinese nation has a history of more than 5,000 years. In these five thousand years, the number of filial piety has never changed and spread to this day.
Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that filial piety comes first, and filial piety naturally becomes a measure to evaluate people's moral quality. If a person does not have the concept of "filial piety", then he is not qualified to use the word "person" to call himself, even an animal. Lambs know how to feed on their knees, and crows know how to feed back. So what should we do as primates?
The story of the ancient "Twenty-four Filial Piety" must be familiar to everyone, and the characters in the story are also worthy of our admiration and study. However, hundreds or even thousands of years later, in this technologically advanced modern society, how many people can be as filial to their parents as they are? In this realistic material society, many people have become realistic. Who can really think of their parents if they blindly pursue their own status, earn their own wages and find their own lovers? Many people think that giving parents enough pocket money to live in a mansion is filial piety, and they don't know what their parents really need. So "empty nesters" came into being. What those empty nesters need most is caring, being able to have children and grandchildren around their knees and enjoying the happiness of the whole family. However, these are exactly what children can't give. Because they want to work, make money and pursue status. However, let's think about it in reverse. Our parents are old. How many years can these children be filial? I don't know that the most painful thing in the world is that "children want to raise and don't kiss." Therefore, I implore those children who are busy with their work to reflect on what way to be filial. Even shopping with parents, watching a movie and chatting ~ these seemingly ordinary things are exactly what parents need most. This ordinary thing can make them happy for several days. So, isn't filial piety a simple and interesting thing?
So what you should do now is to know your parents, their needs, make them happy and have a clear conscience. Nowadays, we should not only know that "filial piety is the first of all virtues", but also know that "filial piety is in the busy schedule". Let go of what you are doing and spend more time with your parents. Only in this way can you truly fulfill your responsibility as a child and truly carry forward the fine tradition of "filial piety"!
Chapter four: Filial piety comes first. What is virtue? Since ancient times, people have put filial piety first. Since you are unfilial, how can you talk about virtue? Only by respecting parents and teachers can we know how to think of others. So I think filial piety is a virtue of the younger brother in the world.
We should honor our parents from an early age, so that we can understand the truth of being a man step by step. I remember when I was very young, I would see my mother washing my grandmother's feet with a basin of water every night. Grandma's face turned into a flower with a smile. When I grow up, I also learned to wash my mother's feet with a basin of water and watch her wash her feet, just like my mother. I left tears. It was my mother who taught me how to honor my parents and how to put filial piety first!
I don't know. Do you remember that public service advertisement? A little boy saw his mother washing his grandmother's feet, and he also said to his mother with a basin of water. "Mom, I'll wash your feet!" At the end of the announcement, we saw a happy smile on our mother's face. I wonder if the people who saw this public service advertisement were moved by the cuteness of the little boy? Did you wash your mother's feet, too With love in your heart, the world will be better.
"Filial piety" is just a code name. The key is whether you have done it, whether it is only superficial action, not sincere! Emperor Xiaowen of the Northern Wei Dynasty ruled the country with filial piety, which made people settle down. It is because he is filial to his mother that this happened. A man is unfilial. Why should he be said to be a man? Because this person doesn't even have the most basic morality, let alone say that he is considerate of others!
Filial piety is not only to honor parents, but also to honor teachers, but to face all people from this mentality. Filial piety is not just words, not actions. This is just empty talk and fake action. Only if you are willing to do it can you talk about filial piety. Where there is filial piety, there is virtue, and virtue naturally has love. With love, we are qualified to educate others, to inspire others and not to give up.
Filial piety comes first. Only in this way can our country be stronger and the world be better! You got it? Please go home and say to your mother, "Mom, I love you." All right! I think your mother will have a happy smile on her face! This is filial piety, the love born of filial piety. Believe in yourself, you will definitely become a person who puts filial piety first! Let's cheer together!
Chapter V: Filial Piety In my mind, the Chinese nation is an ancient nation with a history of 5,000 years. As a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, "filial piety" deeply affects every Chinese descendant.
The well-known Saint Amethyst has a proverb that "Xiang is nine years old and can warm the mat". It's about Huang Xiang Jr., which was passed down through the ages because of filial piety in the Han Dynasty. He lost his mother at the age of nine, which made him know how to honor his elders better.
In summer, he helped his father sleep on a mat to drive away mosquitoes; In winter, he warmed his father's mattress with his body, and then let his father sleep in the bed. Huang Xiang Jr. studied hard and was known as "A Chinese Odyssey, Jiangxia Huang Tong".
According to legend, in the Han Dynasty, there was a man named Guo Ju who had a 90-year-old mother and a newborn baby at home. Because his family is poor, he can only choose to support his mother or children. In order to repay their mother's kindness, Guo Ju and his wife carried their children to the mountains overnight and buried them in the mountains.
Filial piety comes first, and there are countless filial sons like Xiao and Xiao in past dynasties. We are no strangers to filial piety. It seems that from the beginning of being sensible, we often listen to the education of our elders: "Be a child who respects our elders." But this is not the case.
When I was in primary school, the teacher gave the students a special assignment-helping their parents wash their feet. But now children are mostly "little emperors" at home, and parents don't want their children to suffer. Sign the child's exercise book and you can cope with the homework.
Not only children, but also the song "Go home and have a look" embodies the characteristics of people's lives now. Constantly looking for reasons not to go home, there are more and more empty nesters. Old people don't want their children to go home to do many things, just want them to go home and have a look.
Some time ago, an advertisement often appeared on TV: an old mother had a busy day and cooked a table of dishes, waiting for her children to go home for dinner with great joy. However, she received calls from her children one after another, saying that she had something to do and could not go home for dinner. The old man put down the phone and sat alone on the sofa until late at night. ...
With the continuous progress of science and technology, China's 5,000-year history and culture are gradually forgotten. I can't help asking, "What's going on?"
Now, we don't need children to warm their parents like Huang Xiang Jr., and we don't need adults to bury their children for their mothers like Guo Ju. Does this mean that we can abandon filial piety?
Don't! Don't! Filial piety is not only manifested in these two places. Children listen to their parents and let them worry less; Adults take time out of their busy schedules and often go home to accompany their parents ... these are all manifestations of filial piety
Parents should be more filial to their parents and can't always find any reason not to go home. It is said that parents are children's first teachers. They support their parents and often go home to see them. They are not only filial, but also set an example for their children.
If even adults are not filial, it is useless for children to read "Nine Years of Incense, Warm Seats". Because they don't know what to do to honor their parents.
Filial piety has existed in China for 5000 years. We should carry it forward and pass it on, and we can't let it disappear in 2 1 century.
Since ancient times, human beings have used their love to warm and illuminate others, and this love is heartfelt and eternal.
Filial piety is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation and the responsibility and obligation of each of us. Filial piety needs the interpretation of love, but also the dedication of love. Love is the foundation of filial piety and the only way to realize it. As long as love appears and is released, filial piety will follow.
If filial piety is regarded as a boat, then love is a fisherman pushing the boat forward; Filial piety needs our enthusiasm, but also our sincerity. Only in this way can human needs be just right.
It is our bounden duty to honor our parents. From the moment we were born, our parents gave us love. Under the nurturing of love, we grew up and became talents. This love is something we have to repay and be filial to our parents. In real life, some children are very unsightly, never care about their parents, and even some children never remember their parents' birthdays and hobbies. Their behavior is really painful. Filial piety is actually very simple. When their parents are in trouble, they should be encouraged by warm greetings. When they fall to the ground, help them up with friendly hands. When parents are busy, they should take the initiative to help them relieve stress; When parents are disheartened, they should be advised to summon up courage to face it. Life should be like this, and many things cannot be changed. Parents are half of our lives. If parents are a lotus leaf, then we are wrapped in it. We should honor our parents and honor them with sincere and enthusiastic love.
Filial piety requires love, filial piety to parents, and proof of filial piety with love. Love is the noblest and greatest character of human beings. Only by expressing and displaying with love can we write our own unique filial piety. A gesture, a smile and a greeting can all express love and filial piety. Filial piety is the responsibility of children. Motherly love is as broad as the sea, and paternal love is as lofty as the mountain, so we use love to find the filial piety and love that parents pay to their children.
It is also our responsibility and obligation to respect our elders, who have been handed down from generation to generation. Perhaps, when we were young, we grew up not only under the care of our parents, but also under the education of our elders. What we have now is inevitably the teaching of our elders, who love us very much and we can't be ungrateful. We can honor our elders with love, repay them with love, greet them, whether we are healthy, whether we are happy, and whether we are satisfied with our work, all of which reflect filial piety.
Being a filial person, a greeting, an action and a smile can all show love and filial piety.
There is a song: As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a better place. Similarly, as long as everyone is filial with love, the world will become better.
As long as you show filial piety with love, your life will not be lonely, because there are many figures behind you.
Man, hold up a sky with love, and let you reproduce filial piety under the sky of love.
Filial piety with love allows you to fly freely under the blue sky and become a person worthy of appreciation.
Honor parents and elders with our hearts, infect with love, and pay with love, then filial piety will always surround you and me. Filial piety should be as considerate, caring and nourishing as rain and dew give flowers. Love is an emotion and expression that human beings have had since ancient times. Love is used to show filial piety, and to express and release filial piety.
Respecting parents and elders should be the responsibility of each of us, and it is an unshirkable responsibility. If everyone uses love to honor their parents, respect and care for their elders, then everyone's life will be colorful.
Time goes by endlessly, so we should seize the time to keep the fleeting days and honor our parents and elders. We should make effective use of time to make up for the fleeting time. In the rest of our lives, honoring our parents can enrich our lives.
Show filial piety with love, raise the boat of filial piety, fly filial piety with heart, and let our love hold up the sky of filial piety.
The foundation of filial piety is love. Let love fly under the sky of filial piety. As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a better place.
Honor parents with love, respect elders, and let us fly freely under the sky of love.
Hold up a sky with love and a sky of filial piety, and human beings will not be lonely.
Because there will be filial piety behind you.
Chapter VII: People who are not far from the road cannot but be filial to their parents. The thread in the hand of a kind-hearted mother made clothes for her wayward son's body. She sewed it carefully and repaired it thoroughly, fearing that it would delay his coming home. But how much love did an inch of grass win? This is a poem by Meng Jiao, a poet in the Tang Dynasty. It can be seen that filial piety is a person's most basic morality. If you can't even do this, how can you become a successful person?
From ancient times to the present, there are many filial people and things circulating. Some of them are civilians and some are emperors, but their filial piety to their parents has made our descendants cry!
Liu Heng, Bo Xilai's son, has never relaxed his service to his mother. His mother was ill for three years, and he often disappeared and took off his clothes. Let mom bring the soup, and he won't worry until he tastes it himself.
Wang Xiang's biological mother died young, and his stepmother Zhu spoke ill of him many times in front of his father, which made him lose his father's love. When his parents were ill, he took off his clothes to serve them. His stepmother wants to eat live carp, and it's freezing. He unbuttoned his clothes and lay on the ice. Suddenly, the ice melted by itself and two carp jumped out. After eating, the stepmother really recovered.
Liu Heng and Wang Xiang, whether humble or prominent, are filial to their parents. Although Liu Heng is the emperor, we are deeply moved by her service to her mother, and it is even more touching that Wang Xiang can treat her adoptive mother as her own mother. Aren't we proud of what they have done in filial piety?
However, there are also filial people around us!
In his later years, Pan Changjiang's father often lamented that he had missed the golden age of acting. In order to enrich his later life, Pan Changjiang decided to help his father realize his screen dream for many years. In 2002, Pan Changjiang's father starred in the movie "We Are Together This Summer". In order to support his father, Pan Changjiang joined the film.
Every Spring Festival, Pan Changjiang will prepare a special "Spring Festival Gala" as a Spring Festival gift for parents. Family Spring Festival Gala brings together Pan's literary talents. The party was full of warm atmosphere. The active participation of family members made the party grand and lively. Of course, Pan Changjiang's parents are the happiest. They smiled and thanked their son for his filial piety.
Pan Changjiang said he wouldn't make friends with unfilial people. "I think people who are unfilial to their parents will not be good to their friends; On the contrary, if a person can honor his parents, he is a good person, whether in life or morality. I am willing to evaluate and make friends from this aspect. "
Pan Changjiang made his father star in a movie for his silver screen dream, and he got it. His filial piety benefited us a lot. He made his parents happy in his later years with gratitude, fulfilled his father's silver screen dream with fists and fists, and set an example to spread filial piety. He made us understand the meaning of filial piety.
No matter ancient or modern, we should love our parents. As soon as we were born, they were destined to be responsible for us. When we grow up, they take good care of us. They would rather suffer by themselves than let their children suffer a little. They go out early and come back late, work hard, but have no complaints, because in their hearts, we are more important than anything. We are a piece of meat of our parents. Indeed, when we are in danger, they can protect us regardless of their own lives. They give us love in obscurity and selflessness. When they grow up, we find that their parents' love is so great!
I have read some thought-provoking words: people are emotional animals. When a person comes to this world, he will always meet others and have affection, friendship and love. The strong among them cannot be dissolved, and only the affection of parents can smash the bones. Friends love you, but they can't get rid of their own interests; Lovers love you, but they can't give up their feelings in return; Parents love you. They don't need benefits, rewards or any preconditions. No matter you are rich or poor, they will accept you and love you without reservation! Parents are the closest people around us. No matter how wronged you are or how difficult you encounter, they will choose to fight with you. They won't abandon you and spit on you. They will only love you, support you and give you the greatest encouragement!
As a middle school student, if you can't even do the most basic filial piety, how can you be a pillar of the country? There is a very good saying: "How can people who don't love their parents love others?" Parents are the most important people in our lives. They give us all their love, but never ask for anything in return. Shouldn't we be filial to them?
Chapter 8: Filial Piety There is a saying in my heart that "filial piety of all virtues comes first." I think filial piety is one of the most important qualities that everyone should possess, and it is also one of the best cultures of the Chinese nation. I think filial piety is the most important thing.
Since ancient times, people of all ages have agreed that filial piety is very important. Various places and occasions are also educating people about the importance of filial piety.
I have seen such public service advertisements on TV. When a mother came home from work, she began to cook, wash clothes, do housework and so on. After eating, she mopped the floor and finally lay in bed. At this time, her son ran to his mother with a big basin of water and an excited smile on his face. Whether the water in the basin overflows or not. While running to find her mother, she said, "Mom washes her feet." Mother felt like a flower in her heart. ...
At that time, this advertisement touched many people and reminded many young people to be filial to their elders, which also touched me. Later, I also washed my parents' feet for the first time, which was also a filial piety to my parents. This is enough to prove that filial piety is an excellent moral character of China, which everyone should have, and it is also the last important.
With the rapid development of economy, the social security system and functions are constantly improving, and many children send their parents to nursing homes for work reasons. Some children simply leave the elderly at home because of economic reasons or queuing in nursing homes. If many old people suffer from various diseases, it will lead to empty nesters. Whether sent to a nursing home or staying at home, I think the most important thing is not the material needs of the elderly, but the spiritual needs of the elderly. Many children think it is safe to send the elderly to nursing homes. In fact, what the elderly want most is the companionship of their children, and what the elderly want most is the love of their children. What's more, some old people are vacant, and that old man will not be happy.
Nowadays, many young people do it for themselves, and in their hearts, they are the most important. They always think that their parents will be happy if they are good. The happiest time for those parents is to see their children, hear their voices and receive their letters. Young people should love their parents more if they often think about their love when they were young.
Filial piety, as one of the traditional cultures in China, should be passed down, and everyone should take filial piety as the center. Just like the word "teaching" in education, it not only teaches people culture, but more importantly, the word "filial piety" to the left of the word "teaching" teaches people filial piety.
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